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How fast would you meet?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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depends really on what you are looking for and the people. we like to chat abit first make sure everyones on the same page, exchange some pics etc and see if theres any connection |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It there is an attraction after seeing pics and they feel the same. Then an early social meeting is great.
If all goes well, in the flesh...then arrange a play-date soon after.
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"Just a general question. How quick would you meet someone on here?
for example after speaking for an hour or weeks? x"
Joined 5 years ago and has 2 meets within 24 hours (me bad!), both lovely soldiers and have being meeting both since.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the person some I spoke to for weeks before then meet and it was only a one time thing.
Others I've spoken too for only an hour or two before meeting and ended up meeting them repeatedly for months.
And everything in between.
Some times you find somone you really click with and you both happen to be free an horny and the same time and it's great to see each other fast.
Other times you click but aren't free to meet up for some time |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
I'd never judge just by a picture to see if i wanted to meet someone. I'd look at the pic & see if it made me never want to meet them & if i didn't shriek & run away then i'd consider a social asap. Maybe i'm a funny woman but i don't like fannying around talking to people on the internet when you can get to know someone a lot better face to face...
So providing all the essentials are done & i'm fit for public consumption then i'd be off within hours if i was keen enough.
Mrs WD40
ps, for the record Mr WD40 tends to go with my flow  xx |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
I've had a couple of times where I've met within a couple of hours of a first message but it's unusual due to both parties time commitments...on one occasion we were playing within 4 hours (and that included a drink and chat in the pub)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have met people within a couple of days from speaking because its worked out perfectly with time off and other arrangements to meeting after 3 years of chatting
Time isn't an issue for me,if a meet happens it happens |
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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago
inverclyde |
being single female i prefer to do a social meet first then decide to set another date to play if the feeling is mutual....... do you agree with that or not, a few guys on site think that a female will just stop what doing and go and meet...they just want a quick shag as its only sex....dont you think that there has to be a sort of spark for you to do that  |
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Arranged a meet for the same day she was only a couple of miles away and said as soon as you like I said give me 20 minutes for a shower and get to yours, next thing I'm being called a timewaster and blocked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Normally after exchanging a few messages/pics etc. nay be speaking on the phone.
Fastest? Within 20 mins met with ff couple who had been on site one hour. They were genuine (shows on my verification summary) they were nulls 2 days later lol! (But a genuine ff couple on my list!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive done both few hours and others weeks of chatting i like to have a phone chat after a few messages back and forth text only tells you so much and can be miss read.
But go with the flow if your both happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a general question. How quick would you meet someone on here?
for example after speaking for an hour or weeks? x"
Depends what I want, if I just want a quick no strings fuck then I'll meet straight away. If I'm after more I'll build a online relationship first x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"being single female i prefer to do a social meet first then decide to set another date to play if the feeling is mutual....... do you agree with that or not, a few guys on site think that a female will just stop what doing and go and meet...they just want a quick shag as its only sex....dont you think that there has to be a sort of spark for you to do that "
Yep totally agree. Tend to chat a bit (day to weeks) and then do a social, then try and get round to an actual meet!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It all depends upon the person(s) Im meeting. With some there is a period where we seduce each other, till our minds are hard-wired so we want want want! With others we both feel impulsive and strike during the flush of first burning lust...
There s also work commitments etc to factor in.
The shortest time between first contact and skin upon skin is probably about 20 minutes. The longest about 6 months!
Whilst the shortest will take some beating I imagine the longest will be beaten several times as there's those I've had a few chats with over a long time on and off whom I plan on carnally enjoying when circumstances allow...
Foxy minx, for example. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I chatted for 4 weeks with the last meet i had. Work commitments etc do get in the way. Got to know him pretty well and was really excited to finally meet him. I need to know i'm not meeting an axe murderer so it's unlikely i'll drop everything and meet. Also find the ones with a bit of patience are worth meeting |
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"I'm the type that likes to get a feel for people on here first, so I fall into a few weeks category "
I'm the same .suss out if there's a rapport .Also surprised what comes to light in the normal conversation that have stopped things dead and saved me meeting people who definitely not what I'm after . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a pretty bad meet with a guy that I met a few hours after first messaging in the throes of lust, so now I'm more sensible and meet after at least a week of chatting x |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I'm the type that likes to get a feel for people on here first, so I fall into a few weeks category
I'm the same .suss out if there's a rapport .Also surprised what comes to light in the normal conversation that have stopped things dead and saved me meeting people who definitely not what I'm after . "
Oh yes, I've had this as well, started off thinking this could be a bit of fun, then bam, they say or do something that makes you think, back to the drawing board and lucky escape, I'll stick to the way I do things!  |
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