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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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had my first experience of this on a meet this week!! i loved it and it completely took me by surprise didnt know i was capable! to all you wet women and men with experience will this be something that happens more often now??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a gusher,but all depends on the guy or woman if they know what they are doing..
Paul has now mastered how to make me gush and other women thanks to a lovely couple on here x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes, not always, but yes...enjoy the bloody inconvenience of it!
fresh sheets on the bed today....20 mins on! my afternoon spent doing the laundry. marvellous!
took me a good 30mins to iron that quilt cover too.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am a gusher,but all depends on the guy or woman if they know what they are doing..
Paul has now mastered how to make me gush and other women thanks to a lovely couple on here x"
was this with practice or a taught technique?? i dont really know what it was that made me gush it just happened |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"yes, not always, but yes...enjoy the bloody inconvenience of it!
fresh sheets on the bed today....20 mins on! my afternoon spent doing the laundry. marvellous!
took me a good 30mins to iron that quilt cover too...."
lol hadnt considered how inconvenient it might be! is there no stopping it once you do it regularly then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some women squirt (Sasha) some gush, some of those that don't, could but as the sensation you get before it happens is similar to wanting a pee many women either rush of to the loo or hold back till the feeling has passed.
Many women struggle to let themselves go because they feel a mental stigma to it, Men tend to love the sensation and the "knowing we did it for them" feeling.
Once you are over the barrier it gets easier each time but does not happen everytime.
Sasha started when I used a vibrator on her, now I can make her squirt with my tongue, willy, fingers or the egg whisk.
Squirts, she rivals the fountain in Lac Leman (Lake Geneva)  |
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I started gushing in my teens, well when i say gushing thought i was peeing myself, it only happened about 3 times in 10 years then it got slightly more still didnt know what was happening (no internet in those days lol) anyway when i hit about 35 it started happening maybe 50% of the time and increased more so after the age of 40. Now i would say i do it 95% of the time. There is no way i could physically hold back it just literally gushes out of me resembling when your waters break, there is not control. As far as squirting i dont squirt as often but i know what particularly makes me squirt.
As far as bedding goes i bought a really cheap shower curtain i put that over my bedding then an old duvet so my bed doesnt get ruined its ok getting it off the bedding but its a swine when it soaks through the mattress. |
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I gush 99% of the time and just recently a man at chams made me squirt for the first time. We have not met a woman yet that my husband can't make do it. He just recently managed to make myself and another woman gush simultaneously at a party (he was very pleased with himself). Like someone else said i couldn't hold it back if i wanted to. |
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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago
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Mrs new gushes (check out our verifications!) however it has come to be our sort of trademark.. (and we always carry two rubber backed towels on meets.)
Watch mrs new gush in 3 seconds (we kid you not..) - the most impressive being a shoot up in the air about 7-8 inches (similar to a pee I guess) - rather than a drenching of the hand
ahh bless her... just one of our tricks - fortunately my trick involves self fellation (what can I say - I was a lonely teenage boy I had to find some comfort)
ohh we are available for party bookings lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have never been lucky enough for it to happen to me, but I did see for the first time a lady squirt and it was amazing!!!!. I was at least 6 ft from her and the men told me to move back.. Silly me smiled and said I would be ok... I was not  .. My legs were totally covered and i mean covered- it was so much fun knowing how much she was enjoying it and I was so shocked...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sasha as I said is a squirter so she can write my name in the snow, she can squirt for 2-3 minutes and repeat a few minutes later, range can be a couple of yards.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i want to be able to but dont think i can...  ,tried what is says on websites all without result maybe im not destined. Is there a special technique i need to get my partner to try ? |
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By *heRainManMan
over a year ago
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"i want to be able to but dont think i can... ,tried what is says on websites all without result maybe im not destined. Is there a special technique i need to get my partner to try ?"
I find that my technique works on some girls and not on others. It may be that another technique would work for them but not for others! But some general rules, based on experience:
1) Relax - it might happen, it might not, don't worry about it. Enjoy!
2) No, RELAX!!
3) I'm told that, until you get used to it, the sensation is like having a pee. This tends to put some girls off and they "hold back". If you find that happening, I'd suggest trying it in the shower or the bath, if you can get comfortable (see 1 above!).
4) If at first you don't succeed, (but you enjoy trying), try, try again!!
Oh, and the difference between gushing and squirting - think about the difference between spilling a glass of water and firing it at the ceiling using a syringe!  |
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There is deffinately a technique to it my hubby has not failed to make a woman do it yet he is looking for challenges he wants to try with someone who thinks they can't do it. If you want to try pm us lol. Not told him i'm offering his services lol he loves it though so i know he won't mind  |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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OK..serious question...does it "feel" better? Particularly looking to the ladies who can but don't always do so...
Is it a better orgasm as a result of all this moisture being flung around?
I see descriptions of feeling like one is weeing...does that heighten sexual pleasure?
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By *heRainManMan
over a year ago
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"3) I'm told that, until you get used to it, the sensation is like having a pee. This tends to put some girls off and they "hold back". If you find that happening, I'd suggest trying it in the shower or the bath, if you can get comfortable (see 1 above!)."
_havenangel1,
As a woman, do you have a better description of the slightly off-putting feeling, rather than mine. Difficult for me, not having experienced it, but that's the way its been described to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it does and once i've started my god does it flow lol. I've now got to the stage where once i've started it carries on through penetration (the male ends up as wet as i do lol)."
I squirted once quite recently. It completely floored me and I had to go hide in the bathroom for 10 mins
Since then I have gushed loads, unfortunately for me its not the same as cumming the clitoral stimulation but knowing how much it turns the guy on is more than enough pleasure for me.
I can't believe I've just typed that on a 'public' forum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same here, never did it before till i started swinging and if a guy, or woman for that matter, knows what they are doing, its everytime, just havent managed to do it with clit play only penetrative sex.
Had to buy some new sheets though  and need plastic sheet for hotel plays too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK..serious question...does it "feel" better? Particularly looking to the ladies who can but don't always do so...
Is it a better orgasm as a result of all this moisture being flung around?
I see descriptions of feeling like one is weeing...does that heighten sexual pleasure?
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No it doesnt, i always held back as ive no desire whatsoever to pee myself, but when one gushes or squirts, its from the vagina, very strange the first time, and thereafter but i know when it is coming. Trouble is because its on my profile, its expected everytime and if my partner at the time isnt all that, it wont happen
Not sure id say it was an orgasm either, to me its just cumming  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same here, never did it before till i started swinging and if a guy, or woman for that matter, knows what they are doing, its everytime, just havent managed to do it with clit play only penetrative sex.
Had to buy some new sheets though and need plastic sheet for hotel plays too"
My experiences of gushing have usually been with fingers but very recently it has been with tongue and penetrative sex.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think since swinging and yes having variety Im more intune with my own body and am in my sexual prime or is that hitting my 30s and im not afraid to say what pushes my buttons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sam gushes everytime she cums once she starts it's like Niagra falls mmmmmmmmmm,she also squirts sometimes too,
We always use a cheap shower curtain and spare sheet saves on getting a bill from the hotels lol
She says it only started when she started awinging,
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i started off as a squirter now im a gusher...
would say the experience is more intense than an orgasm for me...
but have only experienced it thro a mixture of tongue and fingers so far...lol... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have always always wondered about squirting or gushing and its a phenomena that im not entirely 100% sure about.
I have never gushed or squirted, I have been very turned on, I have though, had the feeling of wanting to go to the loo and have got a bit scared that I would go to the loo so have held myself back until that feeling has gone. I always cum through gspot touching though and its fantastic and whilst I have been very very wet, ive never squirted or gushed. Ive never seen a real life woman do it either (seen various pornos but I dont believe them). Its like ghosts for me, until I see it with my own eyes then I wont truly believe it can happen - maybe it is urine (ill probably be killed now for saying this lol, well there goes all our future potential meets lol) |
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"I have always always wondered about squirting or gushing and its a phenomena that im not entirely 100% sure about.
I have never gushed or squirted, I have been very turned on, I have though, had the feeling of wanting to go to the loo and have got a bit scared that I would go to the loo so have held myself back until that feeling has gone. I always cum through gspot touching though and its fantastic and whilst I have been very very wet, ive never squirted or gushed. Ive never seen a real life woman do it either (seen various pornos but I dont believe them). Its like ghosts for me, until I see it with my own eyes then I wont truly believe it can happen - maybe it is urine (ill probably be killed now for saying this lol, well there goes all our future potential meets lol) "
I had a friend who thought exactly the same as you until.............she gushed lol. I was really proud of myself as i gave her step by step instructions on telling her partner what to do lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yeah i actually do believe that it does happen - too many women have said it for it not to be true, its just that i havent been able to do it. I think if i was to just let go and stop clamping my muscles when i get the wanting to go to the loo feeling, it might work - ill keep working at it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a guy says on his profile he has 'magic fingers' go for it, you'll then know if you gush or squirt after! Look for cocks that slightly bend does it for me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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must admit,,,havn been with a gusher i dint like it,,,was ok to start with but after a while it just got mental...i mean lying in wet sheets ffs no ta
just my opinion but i wouldnt meet a woman that gushes again,,,jas would so maybe a guy thing?
auds xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i want to be able to but dont think i can... ,tried what is says on websites all without result maybe im not destined. Is there a special technique i need to get my partner to try ?"
Yes relax, dont try to make it come, its uncomfortable, let it happen, dont think about it, its like watching a kettle boil, ive only started doing it since i came on here, not bad for 49 now i love it, just had to buy some more sheets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK..serious question...does it "feel" better? Particularly looking to the ladies who can but don't always do so...
Is it a better orgasm as a result of all this moisture being flung around?
I see descriptions of feeling like one is weeing...does that heighten sexual pleasure?
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Personally i think coming and orgasm are 2 different things, ive just started coming and gush all over a blokes cock but have never had an orgasm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Egg whisk........... pmsl
yes im wondering about that too "
Just make sure you use the old fashioned stainless steel type with the cogs and handle to turn it - a molineux food mixer just doesn't work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if your having sex with a woman and it looks and feels like her waters have just broke she is a gusher.
If she is a squirter like Sasha there is a sudden gush followed by what looks like her pissing but clinical tests have shown that it is a liquid that bears no resembelence to pee.
Google Squirting and Wiki will tell you all about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I suspect you,ll be doing it much more now that you have experianced your 1st gushing.
My partner "Missgusher" with the very fitting name is doing it all the time, its really horny and I have found out that on meets most guys love it.
The down side is.... always remember to take a few towels with you when playing in the bedroom or buy a water bed, snorkle and goggles...lol.
Good luck to all your future Gushing sessions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i want to be able to but dont think i can... ,tried what is says on websites all without result maybe im not destined. Is there a special technique i need to get my partner to try ?I find that my technique works on some girls and not on others. It may be that another technique would work for them but not for others! But some general rules, based on experience:
1) Relax - it might happen, it might not, don't worry about it. Enjoy!
2) No, RELAX!!
3) I'm told that, until you get used to it, the sensation is like having a pee. This tends to put some girls off and they "hold back". If you find that happening, I'd suggest trying it in the shower or the bath, if you can get comfortable (see 1 above!).
4) If at first you don't succeed, (but you enjoy trying), try, try again!!
Oh, and the difference between gushing and squirting - think about the difference between spilling a glass of water and firing it at the ceiling using a syringe! "
The way people make such a big deal of this gets on my nerves. tut |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OK..serious question...does it "feel" better? Particularly looking to the ladies who can but don't always do so...
Is it a better orgasm as a result of all this moisture being flung around?
I see descriptions of feeling like one is weeing...does that heighten sexual pleasure?
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Its a different kind of pleasure, not better just different, almost a total relaxation, smooth and the extra lubrication makes any following activity lush. (in my opinion) xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a guy says on his profile he has 'magic fingers' go for it, you'll then know if you gush or squirt after! Look for cocks that slightly bend does it for me lol"
yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never gushed or squirted. Felt totally embarrassed when first doing this and asked by one guy if I did either. Had to ask him what he meant as I had never even heard of it! Obviously I have led a very sheltered life until we started this adventure.
Still don't do it and don't have any urge to either. Am I the only one who was so naive? Hope not. That would be embarrassing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well we both decided to try and make me gush. We set the scene, were both relaxed etc. He started touching me, having sex with me, licking me - i didnt gush as such, but I did get very very wet.
We ended up him lying down, me sitting and riding his face with his thumb inside me pressing on my gspot - I was soaking wet but it didnt exactly gush out like a waterfall. I dont care that i didnt, it was an absolutely fantastic orgasm and I absolutely loved it - thats all that matters to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have to say that my guy does have magic fingers and its not just me saying it. He is fantastic at oral but his combined oral and gspot technique is amazing. With all the women hes played with, every one of them has come and fairly quickly too. I always come too and its absolutely mmm yummy but i dont gush or squirt and I think that if I dont do this with him, then im not gonna do it with anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Most definitely a technique. It does require a bit of sensitivity.I can make it happen regullarly. always pleased to give a demo xxx
Chris"
I would love to experience it, but no one, not even hubby can make it happen Must be a non gusher. |
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i love to makewomen gush or squirt and have dun both many many times there is a technique to it you have to just find the right spot normaly with just two fingers in or around the G SPOT not had many women that i cant make gush or squirt or at the very least make very verywet so just love you women who can flood the bed and room out thanks girls trev,xx all the best to you all.xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was always one of those that thought it would never happen to
I was'nt fussed about ever being able to do it,but one day it just happened completely unexpectedly and shocked me
Its enjoyable in a different way to a clitoral orgasm,I always make sure that playmates like it too,as if they did'nt like it then I would'nt feel comfy doing it
There is a certain technique that works with me so if I don't want to squirt I make sure they don't do anything thats going to make it happen  |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"There is a certain technique that works with me so if I don't want to squirt I make sure they don't do anything thats going to make it happen "
For some reason that made me think of a masonic handshake...
"No, I'm sorry, she can't squirt if your left knee is bent at anyhting other than 62 degrees" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is a certain technique that works with me so if I don't want to squirt I make sure they don't do anything thats going to make it happen
For some reason that made me think of a masonic handshake...
"No, I'm sorry, she can't squirt if your left knee is bent at anyhting other than 62 degrees""
You been talking to people again |
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"yes, not always, but yes...enjoy the bloody inconvenience of it!
fresh sheets on the bed today....20 mins on! my afternoon spent doing the laundry. marvellous!
took me a good 30mins to iron that quilt cover too....
lol hadnt considered how inconvenient
it might be! is there no stopping it once you do it regularly then?"
Once i start gushing it just builds and builds untill only dehydration stops me.
i recently managed to hit a couple playing 4 feet away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just find it odd though that lots of women on here say they do it, now ok im relatively new to swinging but i would say i go very regularly to Chams - over a 2 week period a month ago we went four times a week but now with partners work its had to go down to once a week ,anyway ive been a lot of times and i have never ever seen any woman in there squirt. Ive also been to a club in London and no squirting was to be seen there either, so until i see it with my own eyes i guess i wont truly believe it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just find it odd though that lots of women on here say they do it, now ok im relatively new to swinging but i would say i go very regularly to Chams - over a 2 week period a month ago we went four times a week but now with partners work its had to go down to once a week ,anyway ive been a lot of times and i have never ever seen any woman in there squirt. Ive also been to a club in London and no squirting was to be seen there either, so until i see it with my own eyes i guess i wont truly believe it. "
he he I was a skeptic like you until a fem squirted all over my easy chair! Later an experienced couple managed to make me gush but I couldn't do it myself for ages and ages. Took me about 6 months or more of exploration till I managed to do it for myself and it was well strange, so I did it several times that evening, just to check mind! True though, it does not always work so there must be a brain thing there too. |
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"If somebody runs a master-class on this technique, put my name on the list?
Also can anybody help me improve my two handed backhand? "
i have on good authority feel for the tyre track hee hee.
The most worrying thing about this thread is that squirting or gushing seems by some to be a sign of greater sexiness.Pleasure should be the point,how that is acchieved is irrelevant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sasha started when I used a vibrator on her, now I can make her squirt with my tongue, willy, fingers or the egg whisk.
Squirts, she rivals the fountain in Lac Leman (Lake Geneva) ............................and how may i ask does the egg whisk work lol never heard of that before |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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medical and clever boffs say there is only one place that quantity of fluid can come from and thats the bladder, a turn on, a spectacle,a show. whatever you want to call it so long as its accompanied by a lovely orgasm i do not know any women who do not enjoy it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I plucked up courage and asked a doctor about squirting once and he said that women differ in the amount of vaginal fluid they produce and this can be down to how aroused they are, and their age as older women can experience a decline in vaginal fluid, but he said to achieve the amount of fluid to be able to gush out like a fountain can only come from the bladder.
im not sure if that is correct and i expect we will hear loads of ladies say thats not correct.
i also agree that sometimes its hinted that the non squirters amongst us are somehow not as sexy or as talented as the squirters and that is not the case. As long as its enjoyable then thats all that matters and i dont feel less of a woman cos i cant squirt |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Change your doctor. Normal women do it every time. Even when they are only thinking about it. It comes out of my ears on a good day. Great feeling but very embarrasing in Tesco's. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I plucked up courage and asked a doctor about squirting once and he said that women differ in the amount of vaginal fluid they produce and this can be down to how aroused they are, and their age as older women can experience a decline in vaginal fluid, but he said to achieve the amount of fluid to be able to gush out like a fountain can only come from the bladder.
im not sure if that is correct and i expect we will hear loads of ladies say thats not correct.
i also agree that sometimes its hinted that the non squirters amongst us are somehow not as sexy or as talented as the squirters and that is not the case. As long as its enjoyable then thats all that matters and i dont feel less of a woman cos i cant squirt "
your Doctor is talking balderdash and you are right mwah xxx |
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"medical and clever boffs say there is only one place that quantity of fluid can come from and thats the bladder, a turn on, a spectacle,a show. whatever you want to call it so long as its accompanied by a lovely orgasm i do not know any women who do not enjoy it. "
ok geroff with the "they say" who are they anyway. Give us a source, give us some facts. bla bla |
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