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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"But I want the juices of a pussy "
Perhaps focusing solely on what you want is part of the problem?
Congratulations on not having cock photos all over your profile and for writing a little more than 'will fill in later'.
Those are the only positive points I can see though.
You can't accommodate. That will put some women off. Do you expect to go to their place? They might not be able to/not want to accommodate either.
You have one poor quality photo and a profile, devoid of punctuation which says little about you. It's also a bit demanding in terms of what you expect.
Sending a face photo is your choice. If someone isn't interested why does it matter if they send a photo back? You're not going to meet them, so why does it matter if you find them attractive?
If someone contacts me, I expect them to send a face photo first, (though not necessarily with the first message). I will send mine back if I am interested. If I'm not, I don't see the point.
The way you dictate what you expect would put me off.
You must realise there are far, far more men on here looking for meets than there are women so getting a meet means you need to stand out. It takes effort and time.
Without knowing what your initial messages are like, I can't comment on those. One line messages, text speak, sending cock photos and many other things can put off prospective meets though.
If the first impression isn't good, it's unlikely anyone will make the effort to get to know you.
Also, if you dive right in expecting to arrange to meet for sex straight away, that can be off-putting too. Women are here looking for sex, yes, but we're not usually looking to meet anyone who asks and we often prefer to get to know guys a bit first. |
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over a year ago
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"But I want the juices of a pussy
Perhaps focusing solely on what you want is part of the problem?
Congratulations on not having cock photos all over your profile and for writing a little more than 'will fill in later'.
Those are the only positive points I can see though.
You can't accommodate. That will put some women off. Do you expect to go to their place? They might not be able to/not want to accommodate either.
You have one poor quality photo and a profile, devoid of punctuation which says little about you. It's also a bit demanding in terms of what you expect.
Sending a face photo is your choice. If someone isn't interested why does it matter if they send a photo back? You're not going to meet them, so why does it matter if you find them attractive?
If someone contacts me, I expect them to send a face photo first, (though not necessarily with the first message). I will send mine back if I am interested. If I'm not, I don't see the point.
The way you dictate what you expect would put me off.
You must realise there are far, far more men on here looking for meets than there are women so getting a meet means you need to stand out. It takes effort and time.
Without knowing what your initial messages are like, I can't comment on those. One line messages, text speak, sending cock photos and many other things can put off prospective meets though.
If the first impression isn't good, it's unlikely anyone will make the effort to get to know you.
Also, if you dive right in expecting to arrange to meet for sex straight away, that can be off-putting too. Women are here looking for sex, yes, but we're not usually looking to meet anyone who asks and we often prefer to get to know guys a bit first." to ask for a photo and want 1 sent without sending 1 back shows how unfair women treat blokes yes there a ratio of god knows but look go so far more is on personality.
Can look fit as anything and float ya boat but be vain as anything and have no personality |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"But I want the juices of a pussy
Perhaps focusing solely on what you want is part of the problem?
Congratulations on not having cock photos all over your profile and for writing a little more than 'will fill in later'.
Those are the only positive points I can see though.
You can't accommodate. That will put some women off. Do you expect to go to their place? They might not be able to/not want to accommodate either.
You have one poor quality photo and a profile, devoid of punctuation which says little about you. It's also a bit demanding in terms of what you expect.
Sending a face photo is your choice. If someone isn't interested why does it matter if they send a photo back? You're not going to meet them, so why does it matter if you find them attractive?
If someone contacts me, I expect them to send a face photo first, (though not necessarily with the first message). I will send mine back if I am interested. If I'm not, I don't see the point.
The way you dictate what you expect would put me off.
You must realise there are far, far more men on here looking for meets than there are women so getting a meet means you need to stand out. It takes effort and time.
Without knowing what your initial messages are like, I can't comment on those. One line messages, text speak, sending cock photos and many other things can put off prospective meets though.
If the first impression isn't good, it's unlikely anyone will make the effort to get to know you.
Also, if you dive right in expecting to arrange to meet for sex straight away, that can be off-putting too. Women are here looking for sex, yes, but we're not usually looking to meet anyone who asks and we often prefer to get to know guys a bit first. to ask for a photo and want 1 sent without sending 1 back shows how unfair women treat blokes yes there a ratio of god knows but look go so far more is on personality.
Can look fit as anything and float ya boat but be vain as anything and have no personality"
If you initiate the contact why wouldn't you be willing to send first?
And if they don't fancy you what is the point of them sending one back? Either you won't fancy them, in which case, no loss or it'll be a case of 'look at what you could have won'.
I don't see why you think it's unfair.
If I initiate contact with someone, I expect to send my face pic first. If they aren't interested, having their pic in return is pointless.
You send a face pic to establish interest, not to get a face pic in return. If there's no interest, what's the point. (Genuine question - if they don't want to meet you, why do you care what they look like?) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But I want the juices of a pussy
Perhaps focusing solely on what you want is part of the problem?
Congratulations on not having cock photos all over your profile and for writing a little more than 'will fill in later'.
Those are the only positive points I can see though.
You can't accommodate. That will put some women off. Do you expect to go to their place? They might not be able to/not want to accommodate either.
You have one poor quality photo and a profile, devoid of punctuation which says little about you. It's also a bit demanding in terms of what you expect.
Sending a face photo is your choice. If someone isn't interested why does it matter if they send a photo back? You're not going to meet them, so why does it matter if you find them attractive?
If someone contacts me, I expect them to send a face photo first, (though not necessarily with the first message). I will send mine back if I am interested. If I'm not, I don't see the point.
The way you dictate what you expect would put me off.
You must realise there are far, far more men on here looking for meets than there are women so getting a meet means you need to stand out. It takes effort and time.
Without knowing what your initial messages are like, I can't comment on those. One line messages, text speak, sending cock photos and many other things can put off prospective meets though.
If the first impression isn't good, it's unlikely anyone will make the effort to get to know you.
Also, if you dive right in expecting to arrange to meet for sex straight away, that can be off-putting too. Women are here looking for sex, yes, but we're not usually looking to meet anyone who asks and we often prefer to get to know guys a bit first. to ask for a photo and want 1 sent without sending 1 back shows how unfair women treat blokes yes there a ratio of god knows but look go so far more is on personality.
Can look fit as anything and float ya boat but be vain as anything and have no personality
If you initiate the contact why wouldn't you be willing to send first?
And if they don't fancy you what is the point of them sending one back? Either you won't fancy them, in which case, no loss or it'll be a case of 'look at what you could have won'.
I don't see why you think it's unfair.
If I initiate contact with someone, I expect to send my face pic first. If they aren't interested, having their pic in return is pointless.
You send a face pic to establish interest, not to get a face pic in return. If there's no interest, what's the point. (Genuine question - if they don't want to meet you, why do you care what they look like?)"
I agree to an extent if you're not attracted to someone at all from a picture then it's logical not to carry on the contact as it would be wasting time.
But I do have to admit in the past ive not initially been attracted to the look of someone but something about them and their persinality has built up the attraction.
But it is a sex site after all. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"But I want the juices of a pussy
Perhaps focusing solely on what you want is part of the problem?
Congratulations on not having cock photos all over your profile and for writing a little more than 'will fill in later'.
Those are the only positive points I can see though.
You can't accommodate. That will put some women off. Do you expect to go to their place? They might not be able to/not want to accommodate either.
You have one poor quality photo and a profile, devoid of punctuation which says little about you. It's also a bit demanding in terms of what you expect.
Sending a face photo is your choice. If someone isn't interested why does it matter if they send a photo back? You're not going to meet them, so why does it matter if you find them attractive?
If someone contacts me, I expect them to send a face photo first, (though not necessarily with the first message). I will send mine back if I am interested. If I'm not, I don't see the point.
The way you dictate what you expect would put me off.
You must realise there are far, far more men on here looking for meets than there are women so getting a meet means you need to stand out. It takes effort and time.
Without knowing what your initial messages are like, I can't comment on those. One line messages, text speak, sending cock photos and many other things can put off prospective meets though.
If the first impression isn't good, it's unlikely anyone will make the effort to get to know you.
Also, if you dive right in expecting to arrange to meet for sex straight away, that can be off-putting too. Women are here looking for sex, yes, but we're not usually looking to meet anyone who asks and we often prefer to get to know guys a bit first. to ask for a photo and want 1 sent without sending 1 back shows how unfair women treat blokes yes there a ratio of god knows but look go so far more is on personality.
Can look fit as anything and float ya boat but be vain as anything and have no personality
If you initiate the contact why wouldn't you be willing to send first?
And if they don't fancy you what is the point of them sending one back? Either you won't fancy them, in which case, no loss or it'll be a case of 'look at what you could have won'.
I don't see why you think it's unfair.
If I initiate contact with someone, I expect to send my face pic first. If they aren't interested, having their pic in return is pointless.
You send a face pic to establish interest, not to get a face pic in return. If there's no interest, what's the point. (Genuine question - if they don't want to meet you, why do you care what they look like?)
I agree to an extent if you're not attracted to someone at all from a picture then it's logical not to carry on the contact as it would be wasting time.
But I do have to admit in the past ive not initially been attracted to the look of someone but something about them and their persinality has built up the attraction.
But it is a sex site after all."
I don't have time to chat to every bloke on the site on the off chance I might find something attractive at some point.
If the first message and profile are appealing and the photo isn't a definite 'no thanks', I'll send my photo back and carry on chatting though.
My comment is more that I won't send my photo to someone I definitely don't want to meet, even if they have sent theirs, because I don't see the point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But I want the juices of a pussy
Perhaps focusing solely on what you want is part of the problem?
Congratulations on not having cock photos all over your profile and for writing a little more than 'will fill in later'.
Those are the only positive points I can see though.
You can't accommodate. That will put some women off. Do you expect to go to their place? They might not be able to/not want to accommodate either.
You have one poor quality photo and a profile, devoid of punctuation which says little about you. It's also a bit demanding in terms of what you expect.
Sending a face photo is your choice. If someone isn't interested why does it matter if they send a photo back? You're not going to meet them, so why does it matter if you find them attractive?
If someone contacts me, I expect them to send a face photo first, (though not necessarily with the first message). I will send mine back if I am interested. If I'm not, I don't see the point.
The way you dictate what you expect would put me off.
You must realise there are far, far more men on here looking for meets than there are women so getting a meet means you need to stand out. It takes effort and time.
Without knowing what your initial messages are like, I can't comment on those. One line messages, text speak, sending cock photos and many other things can put off prospective meets though.
If the first impression isn't good, it's unlikely anyone will make the effort to get to know you.
Also, if you dive right in expecting to arrange to meet for sex straight away, that can be off-putting too. Women are here looking for sex, yes, but we're not usually looking to meet anyone who asks and we often prefer to get to know guys a bit first. to ask for a photo and want 1 sent without sending 1 back shows how unfair women treat blokes yes there a ratio of god knows but look go so far more is on personality.
Can look fit as anything and float ya boat but be vain as anything and have no personality
If you initiate the contact why wouldn't you be willing to send first?
And if they don't fancy you what is the point of them sending one back? Either you won't fancy them, in which case, no loss or it'll be a case of 'look at what you could have won'.
I don't see why you think it's unfair.
If I initiate contact with someone, I expect to send my face pic first. If they aren't interested, having their pic in return is pointless.
You send a face pic to establish interest, not to get a face pic in return. If there's no interest, what's the point. (Genuine question - if they don't want to meet you, why do you care what they look like?)
I agree to an extent if you're not attracted to someone at all from a picture then it's logical not to carry on the contact as it would be wasting time.
But I do have to admit in the past ive not initially been attracted to the look of someone but something about them and their persinality has built up the attraction.
But it is a sex site after all.
I don't have time to chat to every bloke on the site on the off chance I might find something attractive at some point.
If the first message and profile are appealing and the photo isn't a definite 'no thanks', I'll send my photo back and carry on chatting though.
My comment is more that I won't send my photo to someone I definitely don't want to meet, even if they have sent theirs, because I don't see the point."
Yeah that's what I was saying if there's nothing there in anything not logical to waste time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But I want the juices of a pussy
Perhaps focusing solely on what you want is part of the problem?
Congratulations on not having cock photos all over your profile and for writing a little more than 'will fill in later'.
Those are the only positive points I can see though.
You can't accommodate. That will put some women off. Do you expect to go to their place? They might not be able to/not want to accommodate either.
You have one poor quality photo and a profile, devoid of punctuation which says little about you. It's also a bit demanding in terms of what you expect.
Sending a face photo is your choice. If someone isn't interested why does it matter if they send a photo back? You're not going to meet them, so why does it matter if you find them attractive?
If someone contacts me, I expect them to send a face photo first, (though not necessarily with the first message). I will send mine back if I am interested. If I'm not, I don't see the point.
The way you dictate what you expect would put me off.
You must realise there are far, far more men on here looking for meets than there are women so getting a meet means you need to stand out. It takes effort and time.
Without knowing what your initial messages are like, I can't comment on those. One line messages, text speak, sending cock photos and many other things can put off prospective meets though.
If the first impression isn't good, it's unlikely anyone will make the effort to get to know you.
Also, if you dive right in expecting to arrange to meet for sex straight away, that can be off-putting too. Women are here looking for sex, yes, but we're not usually looking to meet anyone who asks and we often prefer to get to know guys a bit first. to ask for a photo and want 1 sent without sending 1 back shows how unfair women treat blokes yes there a ratio of god knows but look go so far more is on personality.
Can look fit as anything and float ya boat but be vain as anything and have no personality
If you initiate the contact why wouldn't you be willing to send first?
And if they don't fancy you what is the point of them sending one back? Either you won't fancy them, in which case, no loss or it'll be a case of 'look at what you could have won'.
I don't see why you think it's unfair.
If I initiate contact with someone, I expect to send my face pic first. If they aren't interested, having their pic in return is pointless.
You send a face pic to establish interest, not to get a face pic in return. If there's no interest, what's the point. (Genuine question - if they don't want to meet you, why do you care what they look like?)"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But I want the juices of a pussy
Perhaps focusing solely on what you want is part of the problem?
Congratulations on not having cock photos all over your profile and for writing a little more than 'will fill in later'.
Those are the only positive points I can see though.
You can't accommodate. That will put some women off. Do you expect to go to their place? They might not be able to/not want to accommodate either.
You have one poor quality photo and a profile, devoid of punctuation which says little about you. It's also a bit demanding in terms of what you expect.
Sending a face photo is your choice. If someone isn't interested why does it matter if they send a photo back? You're not going to meet them, so why does it matter if you find them attractive?
If someone contacts me, I expect them to send a face photo first, (though not necessarily with the first message). I will send mine back if I am interested. If I'm not, I don't see the point.
The way you dictate what you expect would put me off.
You must realise there are far, far more men on here looking for meets than there are women so getting a meet means you need to stand out. It takes effort and time.
Without knowing what your initial messages are like, I can't comment on those. One line messages, text speak, sending cock photos and many other things can put off prospective meets though.
If the first impression isn't good, it's unlikely anyone will make the effort to get to know you.
Also, if you dive right in expecting to arrange to meet for sex straight away, that can be off-putting too. Women are here looking for sex, yes, but we're not usually looking to meet anyone who asks and we often prefer to get to know guys a bit first. to ask for a photo and want 1 sent without sending 1 back shows how unfair women treat blokes yes there a ratio of god knows but look go so far more is on personality.
Can look fit as anything and float ya boat but be vain as anything and have no personality
If you initiate the contact why wouldn't you be willing to send first?
And if they don't fancy you what is the point of them sending one back? Either you won't fancy them, in which case, no loss or it'll be a case of 'look at what you could have won'.
I don't see why you think it's unfair.
If I initiate contact with someone, I expect to send my face pic first. If they aren't interested, having their pic in return is pointless.
You send a face pic to establish interest, not to get a face pic in return. If there's no interest, what's the point. (Genuine question - if they don't want to meet you, why do you care what they look like?)
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Curtious if you want to see them then you should show yourself with a polite no thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But I want the juices of a pussy
Perhaps focusing solely on what you want is part of the problem?
Congratulations on not having cock photos all over your profile and for writing a little more than 'will fill in later'.
Those are the only positive points I can see though.
You can't accommodate. That will put some women off. Do you expect to go to their place? They might not be able to/not want to accommodate either.
You have one poor quality photo and a profile, devoid of punctuation which says little about you. It's also a bit demanding in terms of what you expect.
Sending a face photo is your choice. If someone isn't interested why does it matter if they send a photo back? You're not going to meet them, so why does it matter if you find them attractive?
If someone contacts me, I expect them to send a face photo first, (though not necessarily with the first message). I will send mine back if I am interested. If I'm not, I don't see the point.
The way you dictate what you expect would put me off.
You must realise there are far, far more men on here looking for meets than there are women so getting a meet means you need to stand out. It takes effort and time.
Without knowing what your initial messages are like, I can't comment on those. One line messages, text speak, sending cock photos and many other things can put off prospective meets though.
If the first impression isn't good, it's unlikely anyone will make the effort to get to know you.
Also, if you dive right in expecting to arrange to meet for sex straight away, that can be off-putting too. Women are here looking for sex, yes, but we're not usually looking to meet anyone who asks and we often prefer to get to know guys a bit first. to ask for a photo and want 1 sent without sending 1 back shows how unfair women treat blokes yes there a ratio of god knows but look go so far more is on personality.
Can look fit as anything and float ya boat but be vain as anything and have no personality
If you initiate the contact why wouldn't you be willing to send first?
And if they don't fancy you what is the point of them sending one back? Either you won't fancy them, in which case, no loss or it'll be a case of 'look at what you could have won'.
I don't see why you think it's unfair.
If I initiate contact with someone, I expect to send my face pic first. If they aren't interested, having their pic in return is pointless.
You send a face pic to establish interest, not to get a face pic in return. If there's no interest, what's the point. (Genuine question - if they don't want to meet you, why do you care what they look like?)
Curtious if you want to see them then you should show yourself with a polite no thanks "
Why should we? To make it easier to be harrassed in ths street as we said no?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But I want the juices of a pussy
Perhaps focusing solely on what you want is part of the problem?
Congratulations on not having cock photos all over your profile and for writing a little more than 'will fill in later'.
Those are the only positive points I can see though.
You can't accommodate. That will put some women off. Do you expect to go to their place? They might not be able to/not want to accommodate either.
You have one poor quality photo and a profile, devoid of punctuation which says little about you. It's also a bit demanding in terms of what you expect.
Sending a face photo is your choice. If someone isn't interested why does it matter if they send a photo back? You're not going to meet them, so why does it matter if you find them attractive?
If someone contacts me, I expect them to send a face photo first, (though not necessarily with the first message). I will send mine back if I am interested. If I'm not, I don't see the point.
The way you dictate what you expect would put me off.
You must realise there are far, far more men on here looking for meets than there are women so getting a meet means you need to stand out. It takes effort and time.
Without knowing what your initial messages are like, I can't comment on those. One line messages, text speak, sending cock photos and many other things can put off prospective meets though.
If the first impression isn't good, it's unlikely anyone will make the effort to get to know you.
Also, if you dive right in expecting to arrange to meet for sex straight away, that can be off-putting too. Women are here looking for sex, yes, but we're not usually looking to meet anyone who asks and we often prefer to get to know guys a bit first. to ask for a photo and want 1 sent without sending 1 back shows how unfair women treat blokes yes there a ratio of god knows but look go so far more is on personality.
Can look fit as anything and float ya boat but be vain as anything and have no personality
If you initiate the contact why wouldn't you be willing to send first?
And if they don't fancy you what is the point of them sending one back? Either you won't fancy them, in which case, no loss or it'll be a case of 'look at what you could have won'.
I don't see why you think it's unfair.
If I initiate contact with someone, I expect to send my face pic first. If they aren't interested, having their pic in return is pointless.
You send a face pic to establish interest, not to get a face pic in return. If there's no interest, what's the point. (Genuine question - if they don't want to meet you, why do you care what they look like?)
Curtious if you want to see them then you should show yourself with a polite no thanks "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just to say its nice to be nice im genuine dont pester women but find it unfair and rude to ask for a pic and not send 1 back you can make it clear that a meets not gonna happen but happy to stay chatting as looks are skin deep and personality comes through when getting to know someone.
Yes women do get pestered alot i know this through the ladies i have met but some pics dont do justice as ive found with mine and im told im better in person.
Good luck to the fella who asked the question and as you can see people both blokes and women only go for looks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wow that took me a while and I'm really really am great full on everyone's feedback and boom I feel like twat so I apolagise with help from some great people out there I have updated my profile and hope thy this comes across much better yes I admit I rushed and hoped and it was the wrong way and pushy and thus not me really I'm a nice genuine guy who likes to make people happy many many thanks once again love to you all xx |
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts |
U have put on ur status lady's not men please.
Firstly if u dont want men to contact u amend ur filters
Also ladies is spelt thus
Also ladies not men please can read as:
Ladies not,want men please
Or
Ladies,not men,please
Lol i think u mean the latter so just be careful of ur punctuation  |
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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago
South Birmingham waiting for the bf to come back after crimbo |
"U have put on ur status lady's not men please.
Firstly if u dont want men to contact u amend ur filters
Also ladies is spelt thus
Also ladies not men please can read as:
Ladies not,want men please
Or
Ladies,not men,please
Lol i think u mean the latter so just be careful of ur punctuation "
Or simply:
Ladies only please  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"But I want the juices of a pussy
Perhaps focusing solely on what you want is part of the problem?
Congratulations on not having cock photos all over your profile and for writing a little more than 'will fill in later'.
Those are the only positive points I can see though.
You can't accommodate. That will put some women off. Do you expect to go to their place? They might not be able to/not want to accommodate either.
You have one poor quality photo and a profile, devoid of punctuation which says little about you. It's also a bit demanding in terms of what you expect.
Sending a face photo is your choice. If someone isn't interested why does it matter if they send a photo back? You're not going to meet them, so why does it matter if you find them attractive?
If someone contacts me, I expect them to send a face photo first, (though not necessarily with the first message). I will send mine back if I am interested. If I'm not, I don't see the point.
The way you dictate what you expect would put me off.
You must realise there are far, far more men on here looking for meets than there are women so getting a meet means you need to stand out. It takes effort and time.
Without knowing what your initial messages are like, I can't comment on those. One line messages, text speak, sending cock photos and many other things can put off prospective meets though.
If the first impression isn't good, it's unlikely anyone will make the effort to get to know you.
Also, if you dive right in expecting to arrange to meet for sex straight away, that can be off-putting too. Women are here looking for sex, yes, but we're not usually looking to meet anyone who asks and we often prefer to get to know guys a bit first. to ask for a photo and want 1 sent without sending 1 back shows how unfair women treat blokes yes there a ratio of god knows but look go so far more is on personality.
Can look fit as anything and float ya boat but be vain as anything and have no personality
If you initiate the contact why wouldn't you be willing to send first?
And if they don't fancy you what is the point of them sending one back? Either you won't fancy them, in which case, no loss or it'll be a case of 'look at what you could have won'.
I don't see why you think it's unfair.
If I initiate contact with someone, I expect to send my face pic first. If they aren't interested, having their pic in return is pointless.
You send a face pic to establish interest, not to get a face pic in return. If there's no interest, what's the point. (Genuine question - if they don't want to meet you, why do you care what they look like?)
Curtious if you want to see them then you should show yourself with a polite no thanks "
Seriously?
Oookay, well you can expect what you like but I'm not about to start sending my photo to people I'm not interested in meeting.
The things that some people expect on here in the name of courtesy boggle my mind sometimes.
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Looks like someone has. Compared to your old profile, it's now all spelt correctly, paragraphed, correct granmar and punctuation and sets out what you want and what you're like. "
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"Well think what you want its rude not to send pic in reply end of "
Prepare to be very disappointed. Why would anyone feel the need to send a pic to someone they had no intention to meet? |
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Why would i want to send my face pic to every tom dick and harry that i didn't fancy..we always reply with a nice no thanks,,if i wanted everyone to see my face on here it'd be in public pics. Get over yourself. sorry |
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So if he expects a face pic with a "thanks but no thanks" message. AND he expects to keep chatting..
..maybe he also expects a quick fuck out of courtesy? I'm sure it'd be rude not to. |
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"So if he expects a face pic with a "thanks but no thanks" message. AND he expects to keep chatting..
..maybe he also expects a quick fuck out of courtesy? I'm sure it'd be rude not to. "
It does seem that he's deeming it rude for someone to break off contact if they decide that no interest that way lies, yet should keep chatting on the slim offchance that on one lonely Friday night they might change their mind and invite them round for a shag.
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"So if he expects a face pic with a "thanks but no thanks" message. AND he expects to keep chatting..
..maybe he also expects a quick fuck out of courtesy? I'm sure it'd be rude not to.
It does seem that he's deeming it rude for someone to break off contact if they decide that no interest that way lies, yet should keep chatting on the slim offchance that on one lonely Friday night they might change their mind and invite them round for a shag.
Mental. "
Or ridiculously optimistic? |
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Not read all the posts as not time. Op - I'd suggest trying socials and clubs, getting more, clear, public pics - And try re-writing your profile to make it funny but informative rather than demanding? Many women respond positively to humour.
Also send a clear face aand torso pic when you first message someone - some of us get hundreds of messages a day so this is helpful. Good luck hunX |
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"So if he expects a face pic with a "thanks but no thanks" message. AND he expects to keep chatting..
..maybe he also expects a quick fuck out of courtesy? I'm sure it'd be rude not to.
It does seem that he's deeming it rude for someone to break off contact if they decide that no interest that way lies, yet should keep chatting on the slim offchance that on one lonely Friday night they might change their mind and invite them round for a shag.
Mental.
Or ridiculously optimistic?"
I was thinking "handles rejection poorly, unwilling to take no for an answer". |
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"Help me
Looks like someone has. Compared to your old profile, it's now all spelt correctly, paragraphed, correct granmar and punctuation and sets out what you want and what you're like. "
Thanks dude it was with many help of from all you guys |
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"Help me
Looks like someone has. Compared to your old profile, it's now all spelt correctly, paragraphed, correct granmar and punctuation and sets out what you want and what you're like.
Thanks dude it was with many help of from all you guys "
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