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By *eemore OP Man over a year ago

derby

Hi all

I hope to have my first night at a club tomorrow im a bit nervous any advice would be welcome

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Clubs vary which club are you going to ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The first time hubby came to chams with me we just took it easy. Had a nosey around, chatted, drank, dipped in the jacuzzi etc.

He only felt comfortable with us playing alone that night and that was fine. There's no need to pressure yourself into anything you're not ready for.

We're going again this weekend.... he's hungry for more now!

Enjoy

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By *eemore OP Man over a year ago

derby

The Attic

sorry i should have put that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

relax

be polite

don't stand there like a wallflower socialize

don't presume , ask......

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Hi all

I hope to have my first night at a club tomorrow im a bit nervous any advice would be welcome

Thanks"

be yourself!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi all

I hope to have my first night at a club tomorrow im a bit nervous any advice would be welcome

Thanks

be yourself!!!"

lets hope he isn't a sadistic serial killer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You could search "first time at a club".

There are a few threads with stuff to go at in there.

Good luck with it.

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By * times sexyCouple over a year ago

Staffs

Yes be polite, confidet but not pushy, alays get to know the staff its they who initailly make you feel at ease. I agree ALWAYS ASk NEVER PRESUME

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By *xstephbxxCouple over a year ago

hyde

Ask the owner/manager to show you round and also, if he/she wouldnt mind, introduce you to a few regulars, a great way to ge your " foot in the door "...

Dont, what ever you do, be a sheep !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ask the owner/manager to show you round and also, if he/she wouldnt mind, introduce you to a few regulars, a great way to ge your " foot in the door "...

Dont, what ever you do, be a sheep !!!!"
One of the club owner will show him round let him know the club rule not that there are many & introduce him the all the ppl there that night.

* sits on coffin*

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By *eemore OP Man over a year ago

derby

Thanks to all

For the advice i had a great night at the Attic

Don't know what all the nervs were about

Thanks

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By *he BananamanMan over a year ago

WORCESTERSHIRE

the first time at a club is very nerve- wracking but your second time it's as though you are an old timer,a regular there!,you just sort of slot in effortlessly!.

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By *onyMad123Couple over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

You are fine at the attic, be polite not pushy, just mingle and chill and away you go

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By *onyMad123Couple over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

By all accounts you had a good time looking at your profile, why not add a couple of piccies !

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