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By *aster54 OP Man
over a year ago
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Advice most welcome.
My female sub would like to try her first bi experience.
She would like to be blindfolded,tied to the bed and without any prior knowledge have another female come and take her. The female must be over 30 and have dark pubic hair. I know it is a tall order. But i know it is doable.
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By *aster54 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I can't help with this. But why dark pubes if a blindfold is being used?  that's what I was thinking "
Because she does not want a bald pussy to kiss,also its her scenario. I presume that at some stage she may request that the blindfold be removed.
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By *aster54 OP Man
over a year ago
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"so are you after a female to turn up on a blind date with a fem she has never met?  "
Yes. That happens on this site ,although it is usually a male turning up. Serios question needs serious answer.
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"Advice most welcome.
My female sub would like to try her first bi experience.
She would like to be blindfolded,tied to the bed and without any prior knowledge have another female come and take her. The female must be over 30 and have dark pubic hair. I know it is a tall order. But i know it is doable.
Master "
and your role in this would be what? |
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By *aster54 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Advice most welcome.
My female sub would like to try her first bi experience.
She would like to be blindfolded,tied to the bed and without any prior knowledge have another female come and take her. The female must be over 30 and have dark pubic hair. I know it is a tall order. But i know it is doable.
Master
and your role in this would be what?"
My role would be to set the scene,make sure my girlfriend was safe and achieved her dream and thats it as far as the other lady is concerned.
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"Advice most welcome.
My female sub would like to try her first bi experience.
She would like to be blindfolded,tied to the bed and without any prior knowledge have another female come and take her. The female must be over 30 and have dark pubic hair. I know it is a tall order. But i know it is doable.
Master
and your role in this would be what?
My role would be to set the scene,make sure my girlfriend was safe and achieved her dream and thats it as far as the other lady is concerned.
Master. "
fair enough, I just thought that spelling that out might help you find what you're looking for... |
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By *aster54 OP Man
over a year ago
oxted |
"Advice most welcome.
My female sub would like to try her first bi experience.
She would like to be blindfolded,tied to the bed and without any prior knowledge have another female come and take her. The female must be over 30 and have dark pubic hair. I know it is a tall order. But i know it is doable.
Master
and your role in this would be what?
My role would be to set the scene,make sure my girlfriend was safe and achieved her dream and thats it as far as the other lady is concerned.
Master.
fair enough, I just thought that spelling that out might help you find what you're looking for..."
Just wading through rhe unimaginitive and the usual narrow minded people.
She wants it,so i will make it happen.
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By *aster54 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Advice most welcome.
My female sub would like to try her first bi experience.
She would like to be blindfolded,tied to the bed and without any prior knowledge have another female come and take her. The female must be over 30 and have dark pubic hair. I know it is a tall order. But i know it is doable.
Master
and your role in this would be what?
My role would be to set the scene,make sure my girlfriend was safe and achieved her dream and thats it as far as the other lady is concerned.
Master.
fair enough, I just thought that spelling that out might help you find what you're looking for..."
Just wading through rhe unimaginitive and the usual narrow minded people.
She wants it,so i will make it happen.
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By *aster54 OP Man
over a year ago
oxted |
"Advice most welcome.
My female sub would like to try her first bi experience.
She would like to be blindfolded,tied to the bed and without any prior knowledge have another female come and take her. The female must be over 30 and have dark pubic hair. I know it is a tall order. But i know it is doable.
Master
and your role in this would be what?
My role would be to set the scene,make sure my girlfriend was safe and achieved her dream and thats it as far as the other lady is concerned.
Master.
fair enough, I just thought that spelling that out might help you find what you're looking for..."
Just wading through rhe unimaginitive and the usual narrow minded people.
She wants it,so i will make it happen.
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Well, youre trying to make it happen, at least. I like the scenario. I think the chances of getting what you want via this thread is minimal though so you might like to consider other options too otherwise she might think you're a bit of a let down as a master. |
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"so are you after a female to turn up on a blind date with a fem she has never met?
Yes. That happens on this site ,although it is usually a male turning up. Serios question needs serious answer.
Master. "
It was a serious question and I would agree, I prefer to meet socially first, would hate to turn up and find they are not for me and equally I not for them. A nice idea though |
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"so are you after a female to turn up on a blind date with a fem she has never met?
Yes. That happens on this site ,although it is usually a male turning up. Serios question needs serious answer.
Master.
It was a serious question and I would agree, I prefer to meet socially first, would hate to turn up and find they are not for me and equally I not for them. A nice idea though"
it was a serious question, there may be folk that will meet as a blind date but honesty think that most in this situation would need some kind of meet before hand, op you are saying you will be there for your fems safety, do ypu not think the other party might need something similar  |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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"so are you after a female to turn up on a blind date with a fem she has never met?
Yes. That happens on this site ,although it is usually a male turning up. Serios question needs serious answer.
Master.
It was a serious question and I would agree, I prefer to meet socially first, would hate to turn up and find they are not for me and equally I not for them. A nice idea though
it was a serious question, there may be folk that will meet as a blind date but honesty think that most in this situation would need some kind of meet before hand, op you are saying you will be there for your fems safety, do ypu not think the other party might need something similar "
Definitely this - I would never risk my safety this way.
I don't do blind date and would need to meet the lady socially first to ensure this is about what she really wants and not just something she thinks she needs to do for you.
You will probably struggle to get this one going.
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"Advice most welcome.
My female sub would like to try her first bi experience.
She would like to be blindfolded,tied to the bed and without any prior knowledge have another female come and take her. The female must be over 30 and have dark pubic hair. I know it is a tall order. But i know it is doable.
Master "
Serious Advice Ok
Assuming you have a sub and you are truth telling
Set up a couples profile stating aprox what you want allow her to engage in flirting and phone conversations with prospective ladies , then I'm sure a surprise could easily be arranged as long as your play time is flexible
At the moment it reads like random bloke wants dark haired lady to visit him ? |
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"so are you after a female to turn up on a blind date with a fem she has never met?
Yes. That happens on this site ,although it is usually a male turning up. Serios question needs serious answer.
Master. "
so ... Seriously ... You want a woman who never met either of you ... To turn up, with one woman being a sub and you be the one to safe guard your sub.. Watch, whatever. . Who exactly is watching the other womans back? Two total strangers, Is any woman gonna put herself in that position? Realistically do you think this is possible OP? Good Luck with your Quest  |
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"so are you after a female to turn up on a blind date with a fem she has never met?
Yes. That happens on this site ,although it is usually a male turning up. Serios question needs serious answer.
Master.
It was a serious question and I would agree, I prefer to meet socially first, would hate to turn up and find they are not for me and equally I not for them. A nice idea though
it was a serious question, there may be folk that will meet as a blind date but honesty think that most in this situation would need some kind of meet before hand, op you are saying you will be there for your fems safety, do ypu not think the other party might need something similar
Definitely this - I would never risk my safety this way.
I don't do blind date and would need to meet the lady socially first to ensure this is about what she really wants and not just something she thinks she needs to do for you.
You will probably struggle to get this one going.
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By *aster54 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Well, youre trying to make it happen, at least. I like the scenario. I think the chances of getting what you want via this thread is minimal though so you might like to consider other options too otherwise she might think you're a bit of a let down as a master. "
This is one of a number of options i am following up. My sub knows i deliver,thats why she is my sub.
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By *aster54 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Advice most welcome.
My female sub would like to try her first bi experience.
She would like to be blindfolded,tied to the bed and without any prior knowledge have another female come and take her. The female must be over 30 and have dark pubic hair. I know it is a tall order. But i know it is doable.
Master
Serious Advice Ok
Assuming you have a sub and you are truth telling
Set up a couples profile stating aprox what you want allow her to engage in flirting and phone conversations with prospective ladies , then I'm sure a surprise could easily be arranged as long as your play time is flexible
At the moment it reads like random bloke wants dark haired lady to visit him ?"
Thankyou for your advice. I am very genuine and i will sort this for my sub. She knows this.
True we live in a world of fakes,but there are genuine people out here.
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By *aster54 OP Man
over a year ago
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"so are you after a female to turn up on a blind date with a fem she has never met?
Yes. That happens on this site ,although it is usually a male turning up. Serios question needs serious answer.
Master.
It was a serious question and I would agree, I prefer to meet socially first, would hate to turn up and find they are not for me and equally I not for them. A nice idea though
it was a serious question, there may be folk that will meet as a blind date but honesty think that most in this situation would need some kind of meet before hand, op you are saying you will be there for your fems safety, do ypu not think the other party might need something similar
Definitely this - I would never risk my safety this way.
I don't do blind date and would need to meet the lady socially first to ensure this is about what she really wants and not just something she thinks she needs to do for you.
You will probably struggle to get this one going.
Thankyou for your imput. Like a rubic cube,a problem has many side and everyone will view it differently. My sub knows it will happen and it is the suprise element that she wants. She approached me with the request.
Master.
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By *aster54 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I think maybe an escort is your best option. I know I would not feel safe in such an environment"
There are luke minded adventurous people out here. Otherwise swinging would gave never taken off.
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By *aster54 OP Man
over a year ago
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"so are you after a female to turn up on a blind date with a fem she has never met?
Yes. That happens on this site ,although it is usually a male turning up. Serios question needs serious answer.
Master.
It was a serious question and I would agree, I prefer to meet socially first, would hate to turn up and find they are not for me and equally I not for them. A nice idea though"
We have to have faith and trust. Alas they are in very quantities in todays world.
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"so are you after a female to turn up on a blind date with a fem she has never met?
Yes. That happens on this site ,although it is usually a male turning up. Serios question needs serious answer.
Master.
It was a serious question and I would agree, I prefer to meet socially first, would hate to turn up and find they are not for me and equally I not for them. A nice idea though
it was a serious question, there may be folk that will meet as a blind date but honesty think that most in this situation would need some kind of meet before hand, op you are saying you will be there for your fems safety, do ypu not think the other party might need something similar
Definitely this - I would never risk my safety this way.
I don't do blind date and would need to meet the lady socially first to ensure this is about what she really wants and not just something she thinks she needs to do for you.
You will probably struggle to get this one going.
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Fully agree...I have a friend (not a partner - she has a solo profile). If she meets someone new it is either (a) at my place or (b) I have address/details etc. she texts me when arriving and when leaving and if meet goes over two hours then I get a text saying she ok between. Safety has to be a prime consideration for a single lady. |
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By *aster54 OP Man
over a year ago
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"so are you after a female to turn up on a blind date with a fem she has never met?
Yes. That happens on this site ,although it is usually a male turning up. Serios question needs serious answer.
Master.
It was a serious question and I would agree, I prefer to meet socially first, would hate to turn up and find they are not for me and equally I not for them. A nice idea though
it was a serious question, there may be folk that will meet as a blind date but honesty think that most in this situation would need some kind of meet before hand, op you are saying you will be there for your fems safety, do ypu not think the other party might need something similar
Definitely this - I would never risk my safety this way.
I don't do blind date and would need to meet the lady socially first to ensure this is about what she really wants and not just something she thinks she needs to do for you.
You will probably struggle to get this one going.
Fully agree...I have a friend (not a partner - she has a solo profile). If she meets someone new it is either (a) at my place or (b) I have address/details etc. she texts me when arriving and when leaving and if meet goes over two hours then I get a text saying she ok between. Safety has to be a prime consideration for a single lady."
Yes i agree with b. its still safe and the suprise is genuine.
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"Advice most welcome.
My female sub would like to try her first bi experience.
She would like to be blindfolded,tied to the bed and without any prior knowledge have another female come and take her. The female must be over 30 and have dark pubic hair. I know it is a tall order. But i know it is doable.
Master "
It can be done, however, and reading some of the previous threads.
Moving slowly and cautiously would be my first point.
Secondly, Research the matter deeper with "your" pointing out that social repertoire and ettiqette, interviews, sampling are a prerequesite for completion.
I wish there were more understanding "masters" around, whom grasp the deep knowledge and have the intentions of seeking pleasure by supplying a niche aperture, for their"subs"
Wishing every success. |
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By *aster54 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Well we can see you are sticking to your guns op, hope you find what you are after!
We will keep our eyes on this post "
I have not the slightest doubt that i will deliver as requested. No rush.
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By *aster54 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Advice most welcome.
My female sub would like to try her first bi experience.
She would like to be blindfolded,tied to the bed and without any prior knowledge have another female come and take her. The female must be over 30 and have dark pubic hair. I know it is a tall order. But i know it is doable.
Master :-
It can be done, however, and reading some of the previous threads.
Moving slowly and cautiously would be my first point.
Secondly, Research the matter deeper with "your" pointing out that social repertoire and ettiqette, interviews, sampling are a prerequesite for completion.
I wish there were more understanding "masters" around, whom grasp the deep knowledge and have the intentions of seeking pleasure by supplying a niche aperture, for their"subs"
Wishing every success. "
There is no rush. I seek and know i will find,the forefillment and gratification that my sub seeks. Once again for the blinkered few,this is not for me,but for my sub. Master and sub is not just a one way thing,or completly sexual.
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"Advice most welcome.
My female sub would like to try her first bi experience.
She would like to be blindfolded,tied to the bed and without any prior knowledge have another female come and take her. The female must be over 30 and have dark pubic hair. I know it is a tall order. But i know it is doable.
Master :-
It can be done, however, and reading some of the previous threads.
Moving slowly and cautiously would be my first point.
Secondly, Research the matter deeper with "your" pointing out that social repertoire and ettiqette, interviews, sampling are a prerequesite for completion.
I wish there were more understanding "masters" around, whom grasp the deep knowledge and have the intentions of seeking pleasure by supplying a niche aperture, for their"subs"
Wishing every success.
There is no rush. I seek and know i will find,the forefillment and gratification that my sub seeks. Once again for the blinkered few,this is not for me,but for my sub. Master and sub is not just a one way thing,or completly sexual.
Master. "
^^^^ it is a 1 way thing, you are expecting a single fem to turn up for a blind date, with no one there for her safety, but you insist you are there for your fems safety, not only is it a 1 way thing for you guys.
it also comes across as hypocritical, you continually keep repeating yourself and calling people narrowminded ect but it comes across as you not looking at the big picture while most others are trying to help you see the reality |
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By *aster54 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Advice most welcome.
My female sub would like to try her first bi experience.
She would like to be blindfolded,tied to the bed and without any prior knowledge have another female come and take her. The female must be over 30 and have dark pubic hair. I know it is a tall order. But i know it is doable.
Master :-
It can be done, however, and reading some of the previous threads.
Moving slowly and cautiously would be my first point.
Secondly, Research the matter deeper with "your" pointing out that social repertoire and ettiqette, interviews, sampling are a prerequesite for completion.
I wish there were more understanding "masters" around, whom grasp the deep knowledge and have the intentions of seeking pleasure by supplying a niche aperture, for their"subs"
Wishing every success.
There is no rush. I seek and know i will find,the forefillment and gratification that my sub seeks. Once again for the blinkered few,this is not for me,but for my sub. Master and sub is not just a one way thing,or completly sexual.
Master. ^^^^ it is a 1 way thing, you are expecting a single fem to turn up for a blind date, with no one there for her safety, but you insist you are there for your fems safety, not only is it a 1 way thing for you guys.
it also comes across as hypocritical, you continually keep repeating yourself and calling people narrowminded ect but it comes across as you not looking at the big picture while most others are trying to help you see the reality "
Obviously people see things differently. I see the bigger puicture and so am prepared to wait. If it can be rhought of,it can be done.
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yep, if its thought of it can be done! im currently thinking of a machine that turns old milk cartons into £1 coins, asbestos into gold bars and scrap tyres into new! im in no rush either |
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You will struggle to find what your looking for in the swinging world single women are hard to find and a single woman in that fetish even harder.
You would be better suited to either looking for a couple and outlineing the rules of the meet before hand or looking on a fetish/bdsm site.
Either way you need to get a couples profile with some pictures as not many single women will do blind dates. |
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By *aster54 OP Man
over a year ago
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"You will struggle to find what your looking for in the swinging world single women are hard to find and a single woman in that fetish even harder.
You would be better suited to either looking for a couple and outlineing the rules of the meet before hand or looking on a fetish/bdsm site.
Either way you need to get a couples profile with some pictures as not many single women will do blind dates."
I take onboard your comments and broadly agree with them.
I am in contact with a couple and have arranged to meet the male and chat.
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"Advice most welcome.
My female sub would like to try her first bi experience.
She would like to be blindfolded,tied to the bed and without any prior knowledge have another female come and take her. The female must be over 30 and have dark pubic hair. I know it is a tall order. But i know it is doable.
Master :-
It can be done, however, and reading some of the previous threads.
Moving slowly and cautiously would be my first point.
Secondly, Research the matter deeper with "your" pointing out that social repertoire and ettiqette, interviews, sampling are a prerequesite for completion.
I wish there were more understanding "masters" around, whom grasp the deep knowledge and have the intentions of seeking pleasure by supplying a niche aperture, for their"subs"
Wishing every success.
There is no rush. I seek and know i will find,the forefillment and gratification that my sub seeks. Once again for the blinkered few,this is not for me,but for my sub. Master and sub is not just a one way thing,or completly sexual.
Master. "
Why do you write in this disjointed way? Is English not your first language? Curious is all |
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By *aster54 OP Man
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"Advice most welcome.
My female sub would like to try her first bi experience.
She would like to be blindfolded,tied to the bed and without any prior knowledge have another female come and take her. The female must be over 30 and have dark pubic hair. I know it is a tall order. But i know it is doable.
Master :-
It can be done, however, and reading some of the previous threads.
Moving slowly and cautiously would be my first point.
Secondly, Research the matter deeper with "your" pointing out that social repertoire and ettiqette, interviews, sampling are a prerequesite for completion.
I wish there were more understanding "masters" around, whom grasp the deep knowledge and have the intentions of seeking pleasure by supplying a niche aperture, for their"subs"
Wishing every success.
There is no rush. I seek and know i will find,the forefillment and gratification that my sub seeks. Once again for the blinkered few,this is not for me,but for my sub. Master and sub is not just a one way thing,or completly sexual.
Master.
Why do you write in this disjointed way? Is English not your first language? Curious is all "
I did not know that requests had to be couched in the english language.
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One of the biggest obsticles you have is this is a sub Dom scinario.
A great deal of swingers and indeed bdsm followers believe the 2 don't mix. Lots will pass you by purely because you call yourself master.
To many swingers the scene is about fun everyone doing what they like without control, not what they are told and it's also about mutual satisfaction, so in the scinario you offer what's in it for the female how does she get her satisfaction.
BDSM is more about control and pushing limitations and that is outside many swingers comfort zone.
Having touched on the bdsm/fetish scene in the past I have even noticed the 2 scenes even socialise differently.
As someone who seems to know what they are talking about then you will know all of this, maybe a dedicated bdsm site would suite your needs better. |
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By *aster54 OP Man
over a year ago
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"One of the biggest obsticles you have is this is a sub Dom scinario.
A great deal of swingers and indeed bdsm followers believe the 2 don't mix. Lots will pass you by purely because you call yourself master.
To many swingers the scene is about fun everyone doing what they like without control, not what they are told and it's also about mutual satisfaction, so in the scinario you offer what's in it for the female how does she get her satisfaction.
BDSM is more about control and pushing limitations and that is outside many swingers comfort zone.
Having touched on the bdsm/fetish scene in the past I have even noticed the 2 scenes even socialise differently.
As someone who seems to know what they are talking about then you will know all of this, maybe a dedicated bdsm site would suite your needs better."
I thankyou for your comments. I disagree that the two scenes cannot crossover. Master is just a title not a vocation. People have tobe called something.
The females would enjoy eachother and that would be enough.
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"One of the biggest obsticles you have is this is a sub Dom scinario.
A great deal of swingers and indeed bdsm followers believe the 2 don't mix. Lots will pass you by purely because you call yourself master.
To many swingers the scene is about fun everyone doing what they like without control, not what they are told and it's also about mutual satisfaction, so in the scinario you offer what's in it for the female how does she get her satisfaction.
BDSM is more about control and pushing limitations and that is outside many swingers comfort zone.
Having touched on the bdsm/fetish scene in the past I have even noticed the 2 scenes even socialise differently.
As someone who seems to know what they are talking about then you will know all of this, maybe a dedicated bdsm site would suite your needs better."
Agree with all the above. Including all the cautionary comments.
You might have more success on F**Life, rather than on here.
Basically you are looking for a Domme, I think..??? You should have no problem finding some, but you would have to explain what you are looking for, clearly.
Yes, the 2 scenes do differ but it's not an in bridge able divide...
Go carefully - and good luck ..! |
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There is a cross over between scenes but there are many people on both scenes that don't believe it can.
We attend clubs and all the ones we have been to have dungeons that some people use, you also see people that are into the bdsm scene these are in the minority though.
Hope you find what your looking for, it will be interesting to see if you achieve it. |
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"Advice most welcome.
My female sub would like to try her first bi experience.
She would like to be blindfolded,tied to the bed and without any prior knowledge have another female come and take her. The female must be over 30 and have dark pubic hair. I know it is a tall order. But i know it is doable.
Master :-
It can be done, however, and reading some of the previous threads.
Moving slowly and cautiously would be my first point.
Secondly, Research the matter deeper with "your" pointing out that social repertoire and ettiqette, interviews, sampling are a prerequesite for completion.
I wish there were more understanding "masters" around, whom grasp the deep knowledge and have the intentions of seeking pleasure by supplying a niche aperture, for their"subs"
Wishing every success.
There is no rush. I seek and know i will find,the forefillment and gratification that my sub seeks. Once again for the blinkered few,this is not for me,but for my sub. Master and sub is not just a one way thing,or completly sexual.
Master. ^^^^ it is a 1 way thing, you are expecting a single fem to turn up for a blind date, with no one there for her safety, but you insist you are there for your fems safety, not only is it a 1 way thing for you guys.
it also comes across as hypocritical, you continually keep repeating yourself and calling people narrowminded ect but it comes across as you not looking at the big picture while most others are trying to help you see the reality "
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Just wanted to wade in here.
We are fully into the BDSM scene and there is very very little crossover. There are some couples who swing and are into BDSM but I find that it knly works for certain scenes and scenarios.
What you need to do is find another kinky couple.
if we where closer its something that I could help with, my wife is fully sub to men, but will switch (with help) with women.
It would be safe as we would both be there to maintain the scene.
I will say however that couples like ourselves are very thin on the ground and you will find it difficult to find anyone willing in both the bdsm and swinging world. |
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By *aster54 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Just wanted to wade in here.
We are fully into the BDSM scene and there is very very little crossover. There are some couples who swing and are into BDSM but I find that it knly works for certain scenes and scenarios.
What you need to do is find another kinky couple.
if we where closer its something that I could help with, my wife is fully sub to men, but will switch (with help) with women.
It would be safe as we would both be there to maintain the scene.
I will say however that couples like ourselves are very thin on the ground and you will find it difficult to find anyone willing in both the bdsm and swinging world. "
My thanks for your comments. We have no feet in either camp, but go with how we feel.
Ive done it before,so i know it can be done. The woman no longer plays and i respect that.
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Fair enough.
I will say this though.
I am a full dom and always have been. I care for love and maintain every aspect of my submissive.
She calls me what I ask her to call me, but I would never in a million years refer to myself as Master.
If you are intent on following this line of enquiry in either world, I would stronly suggest you drop the name.
Im afraid it sends the wrong signals. Frankly it smarts of egotism, narcissism and an overactive sense of self.
Others might say that it is exactly what a 'dim dom' might choose as a name.
Just my oppinion, but I bet it causes more avoidance than curiosity.
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"Fair enough.
I will say this though.
I am a full dom and always have been. I care for love and maintain every aspect of my submissive.
She calls me what I ask her to call me, but I would never in a million years refer to myself as Master.
If you are intent on following this line of enquiry in either world, I would stronly suggest you drop the name.
Im afraid it sends the wrong signals. Frankly it smarts of egotism, narcissism and an overactive sense of self.
Others might say that it is exactly what a 'dim dom' might choose as a name.
Just my oppinion, but I bet it causes more avoidance than curiosity.
Xxx"
Funnily enough it was my sub who gave me the name.
She has my upmost respect in and out if role and i think that if people read too much into a name, then perhaps they should stop read frued and get on with playing.
I respect your views though.
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I did not mean to offend, my sub gave me my name too, and I gave her the one she uses.
She may have given it to you, and you may wear it with pride, but it does send the wrong signals I feel.
Anyway, as we say in our circle, your thing is not my thing, but thats ok. X |
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"I did not mean to offend, my sub gave me my name too, and I gave her the one she uses.
She may have given it to you, and you may wear it with pride, but it does send the wrong signals I feel.
Anyway, as we say in our circle, your thing is not my thing, but thats ok. X"
Life goes on and the search continues. Play hard and be safe.
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"You will struggle to find what your looking for in the swinging world single women are hard to find and a single woman in that fetish even harder.
You would be better suited to either looking for a couple and outlineing the rules of the meet before hand or looking on a fetish/bdsm site.
Either way you need to get a couples profile with some pictures as not many single women will do blind dates.
I take onboard your comments and broadly agree with them.
I am in contact with a couple and have arranged to meet the male and chat.
Master. "
I know nothing about this subject but would like to know if either female has any say or input, however minimal, as to if they want to meet each other. A man wouldn't have sex with someone they didn't like |
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I'm sorry but the whole disjointed way these posts are written really gets me. Is as if they are speaking of things we, as mere non BDSM ites would know nothing of. Many are called, but few are chosen keeps echoing in my head?? Is it the parable of the wedding feast or the acolytes of the lady of the green Kirtle in "The Silver Chair" who knows? Maybe just too late for congruent thought on a work night?  |
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By *aster54 OP Man
over a year ago
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Ah i just love the freuden posts. You are thinking of houdini,all smoke and mirrors.
I have found a willing lady through ex swingers,who found her to play out a sumilar scenario for them. Ive met the couple who in turn have verified me to this lady. All that remains is time and place.
I would like to thank all forum members for their imput and witty comments. |
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"Ah i just love the freuden posts. You are thinking of houdini,all smoke and mirrors.
I have found a willing lady through ex swingers,who found her to play out a sumilar scenario for them. Ive met the couple who in turn have verified me to this lady. All that remains is time and place.
I would like to thank all forum members for their imput and witty comments. "
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"Ah i just love the freuden posts. You are thinking of houdini,all smoke and mirrors.
I have found a willing lady through ex swingers,who found her to play out a sumilar scenario for them. Ive met the couple who in turn have verified me to this lady. All that remains is time and place.
I would like to thank all forum members for their imput and witty comments.
Wow, you actually forgot to call yourself Master at the end "
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"so are you after a female to turn up on a blind date with a fem she has never met?
Yes. That happens on this site ,although it is usually a male turning up. Serios question needs serious answer.
Master. "
id say tall order for the fem you want to go and also quite full on for your ladys first fem experience - good luck with it |
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"Ah i just love the freuden posts. You are thinking of houdini,all smoke and mirrors.
I have found a willing lady through ex swingers,who found her to play out a sumilar scenario for them. Ive met the couple who in turn have verified me to this lady. All that remains is time and place.
I would like to thank all forum members for their imput and witty comments.
Wow, you actually forgot to call yourself Master at the end "
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over a year ago
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"Lol not the bi bloke who came for a sound spanking. Ive asked for no verification or published pics as this is both the females wishes. I respect that.
Master. "
Well Done mate. As long as you and your sub enjoyed it, it don't matter what anyone else thinks. J |
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ha ha ha, so you gave a bi fella 'a sound spanking' as part of a male threesome, but your straight? and then you post your thanks on this site to a meet that happened between 2 silent parties and yourself, sir we salute you |
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By *aster54 OP Man
over a year ago
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Doubting thomas has nothing on you. Just for the record it was a mmf meet.
The sub meet was done with a couple off this site.
I feel no need to explain myself further. It has been done . New experiences await.
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"Lol not the bi bloke who came for a sound spanking. Ive asked for no verification or published pics as this is both the females wishes. I respect that.
Master. "
So if the other parties didn't want photos or verifications I expect they wanted to keep it discreet?
So publicly thank them?
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"Lol not the bi bloke who came for a sound spanking. Ive asked for no verification or published pics as this is both the females wishes. I respect that.
Master.
So if the other parties didn't want photos or verifications I expect they wanted to keep it discreet?
So publicly thank them?
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glad you guys noticed this, and also the fact that the op only wanted a single fem but now its turned into a couple lol, 1 out of 7 isn't bad |
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I do love a good giggle at those less fortunate....this site fulfills my need for giggles with no or very little effort from myself. I thank you all. Xxxxxx  |
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"Glad to see the forum police have been busy,making irrational comments with no facts.
Carry on you do make me smile.
Master. "
how is anything irrational with no facts?
you asked for a single fem and argued that you would deliver, you met a couple but well done on your meet off this site with no veri, its all about the fantasy |
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