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By *an go OP Man over a year ago

huddersfield

recently this afternoon went for a meal social local in Leeds with a lady been chatting to for ages in here on a single lady profile , we arrange a local meet and a social lunch, local for her so she don't have far to travel which is ok for me .

I always like to make sure that the lady if attached has permission etc etc ...but today after an hour into the nice lunch n chat , noticed lots people coming into restaurant specially large group of men , hey ho thought nothing more off it...........

Then I get a note from a waitress handed to me in the restaurant saying HOWS LUNCH GOING WITH MY WIFE ?????... Looks around n see s a guy looking at us both , she was just chatting to me and asked what the note was I hand it to her she reads it turns white and leaves the table, the man follows , I walk to pay the bill n leave the area pronto like , amazed but pissed myself laughing on way home , n wonders can a woman ever be trusted lol .........

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh dear, what a shocker for you! Did you manage to finish your lunch?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Then I get a note from a waitress handed to me in the restaurant saying HOWS LUNCH GOING WITH MY WIFE ?????... "

You had two options. The first one is to send a note back saying, "You missed the apostrophe in 'How's."

The second is to send one back saying, "Great, thanks. I love lunch and anal day."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

WTF!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why didn't he send her a note asking if she was enjoying her lunch too?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hope that's true. It's hilarious ! Lucky the guy wasn't a nut job. Maybe it was all planned by them both !

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

"Why didn't he send her a note asking if she was enjoying her lunch too?

That'll be why she's playing around, he clearly only thinks of himself!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds like they get off on playing games at others expense. Glad you saw the funny side.

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By *eedelightsWoman over a year ago

London

So sorry but that made me chuckle after being shocked

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By *imply_SensualMan over a year ago

warrington

This has happened to me in the past, did the usual due diligence, spoke on phone, called without warning etc etc and all seemed fine. Sat having coffee in Manchester and her face went a funny colour. When I asked what was wrong, she said "My husband has just walked in"

Needless to say, I then went a funny colour, but surprisingly he was quite calm with me because he said it wasn't my fault, she had done it before!!

Tail between my legs, I left and grabbed another coffee elsewhere

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan over a year ago

London

"recently this afternoon went for a meal social local in Leeds with a lady been chatting to for ages in here on a single lady profile , we arrange a local meet and a social lunch, local for her so she don't have far to travel which is ok for me .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lol to funnie that, lucky you escaped with there, don't verify here, at least say what happened in the veri

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The things people do to get a free lunch jeez

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why didn't he send her a note asking if she was enjoying her lunch too?

That'll be why she's playing around, he clearly only thinks of himself! "

Selfish fecker!

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By *sThunderThighsWoman over a year ago

Toy Land

OP Has she sent any sort of apology !? Or explanation since ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know times are hard but thats a little extreme to go for a free lunch. Id have at least wanted a bj...some ppl hey

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By *eggaeloverMan over a year ago

Bristol

"Why didn't he send her a note asking if she was enjoying her lunch too?

That'll be why she's playing around, he clearly only thinks of himself! "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh my I did laugh at this, jeez louise

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sounds like they get off on playing games at others expense. Glad you saw the funny side."

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By *rben112Man over a year ago

worcester

Should of sent one back saying lunch was good but breakfast was better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At first it sounded scary, could have ended differently, but after reading the other replies I reckon they might do it on a regular basis, just playing with people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Where did the significance of noticing a large group of men in the restaurant fit in ? Were they with the husband ?

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By *oodmessMan over a year ago

yumsville

Would have written back asking if he was paying : )

Do wonder why she didnt play it cool and say it was someone she worked with, or failing that explain you were a friend from the local badminton club ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Would have written back asking if he was paying : )

Do wonder why she didnt play it cool and say it was someone she worked with, or failing that explain you were a friend from the local badminton club ?

She hasn't played badminton since the accident in 1998, that would have sent alarm bells ringing for sure.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Where did the significance of noticing a large group of men in the restaurant fit in ? Were they with the husband ?"
Maybe they were there for a gangbang. The op being the victim

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By *ohjaneCouple over a year ago

south staffs

"Where did the significance of noticing a large group of men in the restaurant fit in ? Were they with the husband ? Maybe they were there for a gangbang. The op being the victim

That was what I was worried about at first reading. It has been known for the hapless meet'ee to be roughed up by the riled hubby and his cronies !

Glad you got out unharmed.

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds to me like a set up.

Probably part of their own sex game. If he was genuinely surprised to see her there I'm sure he'd have just confronted her face to face with a 'what the fuck is going on here?'

The fact that he sat down, constructed a note (so he just had a pad of paper handy on him did he? Hmmmm), coolly handed it to a waitress etc suggests it's all part of a pre planned game.

Probably his fantasy, I think you've been used to satisfy their kinks.

Alternatively it may have been a safe escape routine - maybe she didn't fancy you and had him nearby to come rescue her of it wasn't going to plan? Just a quick discreet text and in he comes? Who knows??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree it all sounds a little set up.

Scary though lol!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always like to make sure that uthe lady if attached has permission etc etc ...but today after an hour into the nice lunch n chat , noticed lots people coming into restaurant specially large group of men , hey ho thought nothing more off it...........

You were had mate... They'd have gone home and fucked like rabbits. Completely set up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Meeting close to home is risky, because of travel issues, I've had to do it myself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wasn't her husband. It was her other lover. They had sex all afternoon and laughed at your reaction.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Then I get a note from a waitress handed to me in the restaurant saying HOWS LUNCH GOING WITH MY WIFE ?????...

You had two options. The first one is to send a note back saying, "You missed the apostrophe in 'How's."

The second is to send one back saying, "Great, thanks. I love lunch and anal day."

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By *randmrsminxyCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

So she choses the meet venue and husband just happens to walk in to the very same restaurant on that day at that time

mmmmmmmmmmmm either a set up for revenge

or possibly a ----- you insert your own word here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Where did the significance of noticing a large group of men in the restaurant fit in ? Were they with the husband ?"

Yes me too...what's that all about?

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan over a year ago

London

"Where did the significance of noticing a large group of men in the restaurant fit in ? Were they with the husband ?

Yes me too...what's that all about?"

I presumed the husband walked in the restaurant within the large group of males but it doesn't really matter now does it?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Where did the significance of noticing a large group of men in the restaurant fit in ? Were they with the husband ?

Yes me too...what's that all about?

I presumed the husband walked in the restaurant within the large group of males but it doesn't really matter now does it? "

It doesn't matter at all, you're right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Should have sent a message back, " Fine thanks, if all goes well I am hoping to fuck her later if thats OK with you? " He might have agreed,

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By *eggaeloverMan over a year ago

Bristol

"Why didn't he send her a note asking if she was enjoying her lunch too?

That'll be why she's playing around, he clearly only thinks of himself!

He seems to treat her like his possession and keeps tabs on her movements. I dont think thats good.

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By *eggaeloverMan over a year ago

Bristol

"Why didn't he send her a note asking if she was enjoying her lunch too?

That'll be why she's playing around, he clearly only thinks of himself!

He seems to treat her like his possession and keeps tabs on her movements. I dont think thats good."

Its up to the woman, im quite happy to try to seduce attached people, its testy and dangerous and passionate but ultimately down to the person if they are ready to be seduced, and the jilted party has to accept that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe he makes her do it,, have spoken to a few women in couples who don't want to be playing at all, but are scared to lose the male if they don't

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By *orthyorkypairCouple over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Oh dear, what a shocker for you! Did you manage to finish your lunch? "

more to the point did he get dessert lol

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