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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Struggling to get meets or even chat here can some genuine couples or females give me advice? "
Even though you aren't what we look for, just at a quick glance two things stand out.
1. No photos.
2. You are in a relationship.
We are sure you understand that there are hundreds of single guys to every couple who may be looking, so you really need to stand out from the others.
If we were looking for a single guy, those two things alone would send us walking straight past your profile.
You can do something about the photos, however you will just have to accept that being attached may well limit your chances on here. |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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"Even though it is in the support and advice section
Pssst it is - because I moved it like I said....dont understand that can you even move a post?"
I can cos Im a moderator. People cant move their own posts around though, but no-one was answering you in the other forum so thats why I moved it as youre more likely to get advice in here.
Like they have done ^^^^ up there  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Even though it is in the support and advice section
Pssst it is - because I moved it like I said....dont understand that can you even move a post?
I can cos Im a moderator. People cant move their own posts around though, but no-one was answering you in the other forum so thats why I moved it as youre more likely to get advice in here.
Like they have done ^^^^ up there "
cheers duck so your like a boss on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile text is somewhat bunched up, OP, and while there's nothing really wrong with sentence construction or punctuation, at first sight it does look somewhat like you've rushed to get it down. It's just my view, but first impressions and all that.
One comment I will make, other than the obvious one about no photos, is that you mention that you have fantasies you'd like to fulfil, but don't mention what they are.
You might want to consider expanding on this in order to attract the right people. If you're hoping people are going to message you to find out what they are, you're likely to be in for a long wait. Most simply don't have the time, especially if the next profile they look at gives them all the information they need. |
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By *leepyangelCouple
over a year ago
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Don't want to burst your bubble but
1) you are attached
2) no photos
3) not a very good use of the English language
4) no verifications
5) do you actually have any idea of the male/female ratio on here?
I don't think you have much chance Hun
Perhaps you need to go back to your girlfriend
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't want to burst your bubble but
1) you are attached
2) no photos
3) not a very good use of the English language
4) no verifications
5) do you actually have any idea of the male/female ratio on here?
I don't think you have much chance Hun
Perhaps you need to go back to your girlfriend
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no bubble burst, going to put some new pics on i do have pics in my friends album and writing is not a strong point of mine I must admit , thanks for advice xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many comments have been made and lots refer to you being attached.
You reply to all comments but sidestep the attached bits. Do you do this on purpose?
You want to speak about the being attached bit? Do we guess that she doesn't have a clue about you being on here? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes she doesn't know.. I guess this is the bit where I get a lecture
Pffft. Wasted effort lecturing a liar and a cheat isn't it?!
Just means people like me can avoid you like the plague. "
being honest am not only one on here and it's my choice to make and I wrote it on my profile so people like you can avoid me like the plague
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes she doesn't know.. I guess this is the bit where I get a lecture
Pffft. Wasted effort lecturing a liar and a cheat isn't it?!
Just means people like me can avoid you like the plague. being honest am not only one on here and it's my choice to make and I wrote it on my profile so people like you can avoid me like the plague
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Lecture? No. To be honest there are loads like you on here. But it still doesn't make it right.
The site is called Fabswingers, so let us ask you this; are you a swinger, or are you just a cheating partner using the title of swinger to help you cheat?
By putting yourself in lights on a thread, you open yourself to wide open viewing.
And before people start slamming what we say, what part of the above isn't true?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes she doesn't know.. I guess this is the bit where I get a lecture
Pffft. Wasted effort lecturing a liar and a cheat isn't it?!
Just means people like me can avoid you like the plague. being honest am not only one on here and it's my choice to make and I wrote it on my profile so people like you can avoid me like the plague
Lecture? No. To be honest there are loads like you on here. But it still doesn't make it right.
The site is called Fabswingers, so let us ask you this; are you a swinger, or are you just a cheating partner using the title of swinger to help you cheat?
By putting yourself in lights on a thread, you open yourself to wide open viewing.
And before people start slamming what we say, what part of the above isn't true?appreciate what your saying but swung on another when was single and meet gf so stopped but can't resist (yes I know it's bad) just thinking of an approach to hit the gf with me liking swinging
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"Yes she doesn't know.. I guess this is the bit where I get a lecture
Pffft. Wasted effort lecturing a liar and a cheat isn't it?!
Just means people like me can avoid you like the plague. being honest am not only one on here and it's my choice to make and I wrote it on my profile so people like you can avoid me like the plague
Lecture? No. To be honest there are loads like you on here. But it still doesn't make it right.
The site is called Fabswingers, so let us ask you this; are you a swinger, or are you just a cheating partner using the title of swinger to help you cheat?
By putting yourself in lights on a thread, you open yourself to wide open viewing.
And before people start slamming what we say, what part of the above isn't true?appreciate what your saying but swung on another when was single and meet gf so stopped but can't resist (yes I know it's bad) just thinking of an approach to hit the gf with me liking swinging
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Show her your profile on here, i'm sure she'll love it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes she doesn't know.. I guess this is the bit where I get a lecture
Pffft. Wasted effort lecturing a liar and a cheat isn't it?!
Just means people like me can avoid you like the plague. being honest am not only one on here and it's my choice to make and I wrote it on my profile so people like you can avoid me like the plague
Lecture? No. To be honest there are loads like you on here. But it still doesn't make it right.
The site is called Fabswingers, so let us ask you this; are you a swinger, or are you just a cheating partner using the title of swinger to help you cheat?
By putting yourself in lights on a thread, you open yourself to wide open viewing.
And before people start slamming what we say, what part of the above isn't true?appreciate what your saying but swung on another when was single and meet gf so stopped but can't resist (yes I know it's bad) just thinking of an approach to hit the gf with me liking swinging
Show her your profile on here, i'm sure she'll love it. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes she doesn't know.. I guess this is the bit where I get a lecture
Pffft. Wasted effort lecturing a liar and a cheat isn't it?!
Just means people like me can avoid you like the plague. being honest am not only one on here and it's my choice to make and I wrote it on my profile so people like you can avoid me like the plague
Lecture? No. To be honest there are loads like you on here. But it still doesn't make it right.
The site is called Fabswingers, so let us ask you this; are you a swinger, or are you just a cheating partner using the title of swinger to help you cheat?
By putting yourself in lights on a thread, you open yourself to wide open viewing.
And before people start slamming what we say, what part of the above isn't true?appreciate what your saying but swung on another when was single and meet gf so stopped but can't resist (yes I know it's bad) just thinking of an approach to hit the gf with me liking swinging
Show her your profile on here, i'm sure she'll love it. "
Now now puff puff, however it is perfectly true. Swinging is about being open and not having to cheat, isn't it?
Honesty is a very strong value in our books, but hey, each to their own |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes she doesn't know.. I guess this is the bit where I get a lecture
Pffft. Wasted effort lecturing a liar and a cheat isn't it?!
Just means people like me can avoid you like the plague. being honest am not only one on here and it's my choice to make and I wrote it on my profile so people like you can avoid me like the plague
Lecture? No. To be honest there are loads like you on here. But it still doesn't make it right.
The site is called Fabswingers, so let us ask you this; are you a swinger, or are you just a cheating partner using the title of swinger to help you cheat?
By putting yourself in lights on a thread, you open yourself to wide open viewing.
And before people start slamming what we say, what part of the above isn't true?appreciate what your saying but swung on another when was single and meet gf so stopped but can't resist (yes I know it's bad) just thinking of an approach to hit the gf with me liking swinging
Show her your profile on here, i'm sure she'll love it.
Now now puff puff, however it is perfectly true. Swinging is about being open and not having to cheat, isn't it?
Honesty is a very strong value in our books, but hey, each to their own"
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