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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Please tell me you thoughts on showing verifications.

I have noticed some of you do not show them and then there are profiles with many on show.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just personal choice really.

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By *oodmessMan over a year ago

yumsville

I took all mine off as I was thinking about leaving, thought the number may have put people off too. Hasn't made a any difference in the amount of interest. I'm not dubious of people not showing their verifications. I am when they dont show the summary also though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do worry that sometimes the amount we show puts people off, but we've been on the club scene and met a lot of people we haven't fucked them all, but we have nothing to hide

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I just don't feel the need to have them on display,all verifications are good so it seems pointless to me

They're like reading the same thing over and over again on different people's profiles

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't mind if people have them or not, but for me personally I just don't want anyone to know who I've fucked so I don't let anyone see mine. Had one guy message me about one of my veri's and then heard all kinds of shit can start over this so stopping trouble before it starts.

Got lovely veris too, shame that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I show all my party organisers ones of parties I have enjoyed and recommend.

I just show a handful of recent just to show yes I meet

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By *thwalescplCouple over a year ago

brecon

We show all of ours, even the bad ones, and yes there is one in there lol!

Why?

Well we use other peoples veries to get an idea of what they are like, and we feel that we should show ours so others can get an idea about us, more chance of a meet going well if they already feel that they know us a little.

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

I don't show all of mine; Single guys show a few to demonstrate that they are genuine, but does not necessarily guarantee that they will turn up...

(I always do by the way)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We take pleasure in our veris and appreciate the effort gone into writing them hence show them all

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By *orn_To_PerformCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

We've generally found that unverified profiles with a year or more of membership belong to time-wasting people. We know that a lot of people only use the site for chatting, but when we're looking to meet, it is a good indicator of who is likely to turn up!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like having them but I'm quite a private person really so prefer not to show them. Also when I did display them in the past, every time a new one went one I'd get a load of "you've met him/her so why won't you meet me" messages.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you have them show them, though when you have collected a few it's worth being selective with them or you can end up with a list longer than your actual profile. We tend to show a couple of early ones and the latest ones with a few nice ones inbetween we also dont tend to show repeat ones.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We show all of ours, even the bad ones, and yes there is one in there lol!

Why?

I couldn't see a bad one

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"We show all of ours, even the bad ones, and yes there is one in there lol!

Why?

I couldn't see a bad one "

There are never likely to be any bad ones....