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How do you all feel about someone just watching you?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've got this fantasy of getting a few genuinely bi couples together and then directing the action, gently pushing their boundaries and wanking furiously on the sidelines without getting any further involved.
Does this creep you guys out?
If I tried doing it at a club, I'm sure I'd be told to mind my own business.
Would it be ok if the whole purpose of my presence was to perve and direct? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh well, that's a real shame. I hoped that it would add to the hedonistic atmosphere.
I was also hoping to direct the action somewhat, you know agitated like Twister.
'Take appendage A and insert into orrifice pink!'
So many fantasies, so few who share them. I guess that's how the soggy biscuit crumbles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely your question would be about how people would feel about being directed?
Being watched? No issue.
Being directed? Sort of loses the spontaneity of it all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely your question would be about how people would feel about being directed?
Being watched? No issue.
Being directed? Sort of loses the spontaneity of it all "
I agree. I used to do webcam stuff and sometimes with my partner. It was always way more fun when they just wanted to watch-being directed is frustrating, stopping and starting mid flow is not fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been the watcher for a few meets in the past, it's great and a good way for anyone starting out and nervous to break the ice and get comfortable with other people being present while they have sex without actually swapping.
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Ive 'directed' couples loads of times over the years - over cam and on meets. It just depends on personalities. I dont do it in an overly serious or sterile way. I tease and have a laugh and a joke as we go - but can be strict with it sometimes. But i love it - and the couples who have requested repeat performances cant have hated it either! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely your question would be about how people would feel about being directed?
Being watched? No issue.
Being directed? Sort of loses the spontaneity of it all "
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"i'd tell you to fuck off if you tried directing me, I tell men to feck off when they direct in non directing rooms"
Like i said - depends on personalities! And im just guessin from your comments but it might not be exactly to your taste! Lol!
And its hard to just try and direct straight away. Much better to get to know them 1st |
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I love watching and being watched.
Was watching a lady in action last week and a guy was wanking and 'accidentally' cum on my feet which was a bit rude, he should've moved back. If he'd have asked, it would have been a different matter all together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh well, that's a real shame. I hoped that it would add to the hedonistic atmosphere.
I was also hoping to direct the action somewhat, you know agitated like Twister.
'Take appendage A and insert into orrifice pink!'
So many fantasies, so few who share them. I guess that's how the soggy biscuit crumbles. "
I was in my comment erring towards the idea not against it, and agreeing with what you said about doing it in a club as it really isn't fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can see it with one or two ladies I know not going as you perhaps intend...
Insert appendage A (Master Marmite) into orifice B (the ladies posterior). Lady uses appendage C (arm) inserts into orifice D (Mr Marmites throat) to remove vital organ E... |
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We love being directed on cam, but never been asked at a club (had plenty of watchers though!)
Our only criticism is the serious lack of imagination. Typical cam comments - 'wow, how big are your tits?' 'Show me your arse' 'suck his cock' 'lick her pussy' 'fuck her doggy style' and similar dull requests when we have a pile of toys and BDSM equipment close at hand... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Watched is our biggest turn on..directed mm not sure.. the guy in the layby the other day did ask for a few things for bus to do..nothing too heavy..so conclusion..depends on the directing |
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"We also love being watched and seeing men wanking. As for being directed - no way, would soon tell you where to go.
Elizabeth"
Same here but have done it the other way round where we have directed the "watcher" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely your question would be about how people would feel about being directed?
Being watched? No issue.
Being directed? Sort of loses the spontaneity of it all
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its common for guys to eank watching couples or more fuck in clubs bro. Most are waiting to be invited to join. If the couple dont want to be watched there are private rooms.
So, wank away! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't like directors. Gets on your nerves. The worst one is can you turn the light up. WTF. Is this supposed to be a film studio or something ? Are we supposed to have a full HD camera or something ? you're lucky we're having a shag on cam anyway. grrrrrrrrrr. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Making a porn movie no as I did that when I was younger and got paid. For a time I found sex was no longer a turn on because every time it felt like i was having to do it for someone else. So directing is a no for me but being filmed is ok or photos as long as someone doesnt start saying can you move a bit or hold that position! |
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