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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Evening all. What tips would established single fems and cpls give to single guys?
Or even tips from established single guys...?"
Yep....that too lol. ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Tips on anything really. What do girls like to see in a profile. What would they like to see in your personal statement. In your pics. I know it's going to differ from person to person but there must be some common likes and dislikes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In a word. EFFORT ....as in more effort in your profile than you have put into this thread. I know you looked at my profile...would have messages you personally but guys blocked from doing that.
You will have seen that I have 200 meet verifications.
Glad to give personal tips! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I had a very thorough profile prior to my current one which is just a bit tongue in cheek. The 200 plus verifications isn't really what I'm looking for as I'm not a hardened swinger and neither do I wish to become one in a numerical sense. Basically I'd like to meet one or two like minded females and possible a cpl to meet with on a regular basis. This was all in my previous profile statement. I'm not knocking anyone that has lots of meets, each to their own and all that, but it's not what I'm looking for. That said, it's nice to have input from all sorts  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't read the threads if you don't like them. Who's got time to trawl through all that?? "
This may sounds harsh but this statement to me basically says you dont care as long as your getting your dick wet! Thee effort you put into it merit the results you get out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if that is all you've got put it away  how many cock pics do you think women on here see???"
Lol Gary....you're not wrong mate. Plenty on here putting me to shame!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't read the threads if you don't like them. Who's got time to trawl through all that??
This may sounds harsh but this statement to me basically says you dont care as long as your getting your dick wet! Thee effort you put into it merit the results you get out"
Fair comment I guess. But I was looking for something a little more constructive than he gave. Basically he was just having a moan about another newbie posting the same old thing. My take on that is fine...if you don't like it then don't read/reply to it. Simples really x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if that is all you've got put it away how many cock pics do you think women on here see???
Lol Gary....you're not wrong mate. Plenty on here putting me to shame!! "
my point was that you are just a cock, that's not the way to go, ditch the cock pic |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if that is all you've got put it away how many cock pics do you think women on here see???
Lol Gary....you're not wrong mate. Plenty on here putting me to shame!!
my point was that you are just a cock, that's not the way to go, ditch the cock pic"
I've used other pics...I just kind of like that one. The lighting is good and semi shade highlights the shape of my manhood quite nicely I feel.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if that is all you've got put it away how many cock pics do you think women on here see???
Lol Gary....you're not wrong mate. Plenty on here putting me to shame!!
my point was that you are just a cock, that's not the way to go, ditch the cock pic
I've used other pics...I just kind of like that one. The lighting is good and semi shade highlights the shape of my manhood quite nicely I feel. "
OP - its all about perception you may like the pic - but if the people you are trying attract do not: well then you are not going to get anywhere - as you say "simples".
Everything so far with your comments in this thread gives the impression you are just after an easy lay and cannot be bothered to make an effort. Not saying its true its just the impression you are giving.
Perception and impressions are everything - you are in a very competitive market and need to sell yourself better than the rest.
Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Face pics are vital in our opinion a cock pic is fine but not as your profile pic tasteful torso pics are good too .The only other advice is read profiles make sure your interest is going to be welcomed there's plenty of couples and single females looking for single men and of course be polite you are looking to join in on a couples most intimate act hope this helps xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't read the threads if you don't like them. Who's got time to trawl through all that??
This may sounds harsh but this statement to me basically says you dont care as long as your getting your dick wet! Thee effort you put into it merit the results you get out
Fair comment I guess. But I was looking for something a little more constructive than he gave. Basically he was just having a moan about another newbie posting the same old thing. My take on that is fine...if you don't like it then don't read/reply to it. Simples really x "
Fair point, but in that case why should anyone read your thread? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, look at your own profile and ask yourself if you would meet yourself on what's on your profile!
The only problem with giving advice on others profiles is that then it's not a true _iew of their profile as others have had an input. |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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For me.
Never have a cock pic as an avatar. Have tasteful as well as suggestive pictures visivle and some saucy pics/face pics in private gallery.
Have a great profile text selling yourself. Imagine it as your shop window selling you. |
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"Evening all. What tips would established single fems and cpls give to single guys? "
. Your profile needs some face pictures and you need to give some information about yourself such as hobbies and interests . Currently it only reads that you are a man looking for sex. Body pictures would also help.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Evening all. What tips would established single fems and cpls give to single guys? "
An honest tip though.
There are hundreds of you single guys on here who think that a simple appearance means a guaranteed fuck-we see loads of them most days moaning on here!!
You look exactly the same as everyone of them. Very little effort put into your profile, and that is the trademark of those type of single guys.
You want to separate yourself from those type, then it is entirely down to you.
At this moment in time you are just another same old single guy asking the same old single' guy's question. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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always be yourself
don't follow the crowd
be honest and say no, if appropriate.
enjoy... positivity attracts positivity.
maintaining your integrity is more important than emptying your balls.... |
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"Don't read the threads if you don't like them. Who's got time to trawl through all that??
This may sounds harsh but this statement to me basically says you dont care as long as your getting your dick wet! Thee effort you put into it merit the results you get out
Fair comment I guess. But I was looking for something a little more constructive than he gave. Basically he was just having a moan about another newbie posting the same old thing. My take on that is fine...if you don't like it then don't read/reply to it. Simples really x "
Actually my point, if you actually read what I wrote, was that there are hundreds of threads that address the same problem, the implication being that they can easily be researched to give some positive advice and suggestions
However, your reply indicated that you don't have the time to do that, so it seems it's now up to others on here then to spend time making the same suggestions and giving the same advice all over again....
What's wrong with this picture? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't matter what you put on your profile if you have a cock pic avatar then I think that's all you have to offer - message deleted unopened. (I know I'm not alone in that)
Things will not happen overnight. Don't expect them to. Effort in - rewards! You would be wise to listen to the advice of the successful single men on here. They know the score. |
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I read your profile and looked at your pics..I think a little more about yourself, likes/dislikes, lose 2 of the 3 cock pics and put more up of your body..personally I like more artistic pics..
Good luck
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you all for your comments and advice. My profile is very tongue in cheek as I'd written a fairly well detailed one previously with my likes/dislikes and a little more info on my self and had no more response than I have with the current one. As for face pics that's a bit of a dilemma for me, I have them in my private pics which I'm happy to share but living in a small town I'd rather keep them private. I'll try to get some less intimate and hopefully more tasteful pics up and have another bash at the profile tonight. I'm not looking for loads of meets or notches on the bed post, quite the opposite really.
Thanks again everyone, I hope you've all been having a fab weekend xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being a single guy on here is kind of being like a small family run shop going up against the likes of tesco, asda etc.
You're not going to be favourite to the majority but keep at it and there will definitely be a minority that are looking for exactly what you have to offer |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Being a single guy on here is kind of being like a small family run shop going up against the likes of tesco, asda etc.
You're not going to be favourite to the majority but keep at it and there will definitely be a minority that are looking for exactly what you have to offer"
I like that analogy....not sure I wanna be the lidl of the swinging world tho lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if that is all you've got put it away how many cock pics do you think women on here see???
Lol Gary....you're not wrong mate. Plenty on here putting me to shame!!
my point was that you are just a cock, that's not the way to go, ditch the cock pic
I've used other pics...I just kind of like that one. The lighting is good and semi shade highlights the shape of my manhood quite nicely I feel. "
cock pic as a profile pic will get your message deleted before being read by a lot of people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me.
Never have a cock pic as an avatar. Have tasteful as well as suggestive pictures visivle and some saucy pics/face pics in private gallery.
Have a great profile text selling yourself. Imagine it as your shop window selling you."
I get really bored of constant cock pics I have to say but what's the difference in him or other guys having his cock as his avatar and you having your arse as yours or my tits as mine? Not having a go at all just feel for the single guys on here sometimes, they can't seem to win. Although a few don't help themselves I have to say xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me.
Never have a cock pic as an avatar. Have tasteful as well as suggestive pictures visivle and some saucy pics/face pics in private gallery.
Have a great profile text selling yourself. Imagine it as your shop window selling you.
I get really bored of constant cock pics I have to say but what's the difference in him or other guys having his cock as his avatar and you having your arse as yours or my tits as mine? Not having a go at all just feel for the single guys on here sometimes, they can't seem to win. Although a few don't help themselves I have to say xx"
Tbh it's more like having your minge as your avatar.
guys can have thier chest an bums as avatars. It's just let's face it a genital pic avatar ain't great for either sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Evening all. What tips would established single fems and cpls give to single guys? "
Turn up on time when you agree on a meet .
Be clean and smell nice .
Be polite .
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Evening all. What tips would established single fems and cpls give to single guys?
Turn up on time when you agree on a meet .
Be clean and smell nice .
Be polite .
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Fortunately I'm all of those things. It's getting to meet people in the first instance that's the problem :-/ xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me.
Never have a cock pic as an avatar. Have tasteful as well as suggestive pictures visivle and some saucy pics/face pics in private gallery.
Have a great profile text selling yourself. Imagine it as your shop window selling you.
I get really bored of constant cock pics I have to say but what's the difference in him or other guys having his cock as his avatar and you having your arse as yours or my tits as mine? Not having a go at all just feel for the single guys on here sometimes, they can't seem to win. Although a few don't help themselves I have to say xx"
I'd thought the same thing. I look at other profiles, with pics not dissimilar from mine, and they have lots of verifications. Maybe they've changed pics over time, I don't know, but I'd say it's unlikely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me.
Never have a cock pic as an avatar. Have tasteful as well as suggestive pictures visivle and some saucy pics/face pics in private gallery.
Have a great profile text selling yourself. Imagine it as your shop window selling you.
I get really bored of constant cock pics I have to say but what's the difference in him or other guys having his cock as his avatar and you having your arse as yours or my tits as mine? Not having a go at all just feel for the single guys on here sometimes, they can't seem to win. Although a few don't help themselves I have to say xx
I'd thought the same thing. I look at other profiles, with pics not dissimilar from mine, and they have lots of verifications. Maybe they've changed pics over time, I don't know, but I'd say it's unlikely. "
They've probably gone to clubs and socials and parties to meet people if you don't do that then you'll need to make yourt profile a lot beget |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In a word. EFFORT ....as in more effort in your profile than you have put into this thread. I know you looked at my profile...would have messages you personally but guys blocked from doing that.
You will have seen that I have 200 meet verifications.
Glad to give personal tips!"
Bloody hell that's some effort you have put into your profile you deserve your rewards  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if that is all you've got put it away how many cock pics do you think women on here see???
Lol Gary....you're not wrong mate. Plenty on here putting me to shame!!
my point was that you are just a cock, that's not the way to go, ditch the cock pic
I've used other pics...I just kind of like that one. The lighting is good and semi shade highlights the shape of my manhood quite nicely I feel. "
I like it too. It's unusual. If you like it, keep it.
I like your profile and from your posts you seem normal, friendly and chilled. The main issue single guys have is that they are desperate for a fuck.
I don't blame you for not wanting to trawl through the forums, I couldn't be arsed either. They rarely have a title that you can search on anyway.
I don't like advice threads but you seem different. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if that is all you've got put it away how many cock pics do you think women on here see???
Lol Gary....you're not wrong mate. Plenty on here putting me to shame!!
my point was that you are just a cock, that's not the way to go, ditch the cock pic
I've used other pics...I just kind of like that one. The lighting is good and semi shade highlights the shape of my manhood quite nicely I feel.
I like it too. It's unusual. If you like it, keep it.
I like your profile and from your posts you seem normal, friendly and chilled. The main issue single guys have is that they are desperate for a fuck.
I don't blame you for not wanting to trawl through the forums, I couldn't be arsed either. They rarely have a title that you can search on anyway.
I don't like advice threads but you seem different. Good luck. "
Thank you, nice to have some positive feedback. Although, I have already reworked my profile a bit. What I am learning from this is that there are lots of different opinions, all valid, so I'm glad I posted my question. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In a word. EFFORT ....as in more effort in your profile than you have put into this thread. I know you looked at my profile...would have messages you personally but guys blocked from doing that.
You will have seen that I have 200 meet verifications.
Glad to give personal tips!
Bloody hell that's some effort you have put into your profile you deserve your rewards "
Do I detect a hint of sarcasm? lol. The profile as it is now isn't too dissimilar to how I originally had it. Which leads me to believe that the pic could be the issue. I'm not about to go prancing in front of the mirror tonight though so that can wait for now.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You say you have an athletic body type why not show it off with some torso pics? Much better than cock shots.
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Thanks for your comments...I agree that the pics need to change. Watch this space I guess.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You say you have an athletic body type why not show it off with some torso pics? Much better than cock shots.
Thanks for your comments...I agree that the pics need to change. Watch this space I guess.
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A good torso that is actually athletic and not someone just sucking their belly in catches our eye indeed! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You say you have an athletic body type why not show it off with some torso pics? Much better than cock shots.
Thanks for your comments...I agree that the pics need to change. Watch this space I guess.
A good torso that is actually athletic and not someone just sucking their belly in catches our eye indeed! "
Hmmmmm...I may be sucking in a little after the Sunday roast I just ate haha!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually feel for the genuine single guys on here... Unfortunately there's a lot of 'single' men on here that aren't genuinely into the scene that ruin it for the good ones, hence a lot of people blocking single men. You seem like a nice guy, my advice would to be spend time when composing your initial message. Make it original, don't include your cock pics in a message. Be yourself and your genuineness will shine through. In my opinion, Swinging isn't just about sex, it's making new friends, meeting likeminded people, exploring yourself. Good Luck xx
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I actually feel for the genuine single guys on here... Unfortunately there's a lot of 'single' men on here that aren't genuinely into the scene that ruin it for the good ones, hence a lot of people blocking single men. You seem like a nice guy, my advice would to be spend time when composing your initial message. Make it original, don't include your cock pics in a message. Be yourself and your genuineness will shine through. In my opinion, Swinging isn't just about sex, it's making new friends, meeting likeminded people, exploring yourself. Good Luck xx
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That's what I'm looking for. Some like minded friends with some common interests outside of the whole swinging thing. I'd be uncomfortable meeting someone with too many verifications, not saying there's anything wrong with that but it's not what I'm looking for. I don't want to date in the usual sense but I'd like a bit more than just a sex partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tips on anything really. What do girls like to see in a profile. What would they like to see in your personal statement. In your pics. I know it's going to differ from person to person but there must be some common likes and dislikes. "
The forums are a great place to socialise. I've learnt s lot from being in the forums and I can guarantee most of my meets are from people I've gotten to know in this section.
That being said, decent pictures that show a tad of imagination or that leave something for the imagination can go a long way.
The way you interact with people is important. Couples and woman get a lot of messages so you need to make sure your approach is that of one that stands out. When messaging people find something in their profile you like and mention that to them and always always attach a face photo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good to see you have asked for advice and taken it on OP. It's funny you had the cock pic, proudly displayed on your page and now with the torso pic you are being shy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tips on anything really. What do girls like to see in a profile. What would they like to see in your personal statement. In your pics. I know it's going to differ from person to person but there must be some common likes and dislikes.
The forums are a great place to socialise. I've learnt s lot from being in the forums and I can guarantee most of my meets are from people I've gotten to know in this section.
That being said, decent pictures that show a tad of imagination or that leave something for the imagination can go a long way.
The way you interact with people is important. Couples and woman get a lot of messages so you need to make sure your approach is that of one that stands out. When messaging people find something in their profile you like and mention that to them and always always attach a face photo "
Best advice yet I think. Thank you! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Good to see you have asked for advice and taken it on OP. It's funny you had the cock pic, proudly displayed on your page and now with the torso pic you are being shy "
Well....it seems a little bit of mystery is the order of the day lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Face pics are vital in our opinion a cock pic is fine but not as your profile pic tasteful torso pics are good too .The only other advice is read profiles make sure your interest is going to be welcomed there's plenty of couples and single females looking for single men and of course be polite you are looking to join in on a couples most intimate act hope this helps xx "
Thank you! Pics changed now xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure if it's been said but the way I approach it is just talk to ppeople as i would if I was face to face and don't expect anything and all will come to you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure if it's been said but the way I approach it is just talk to ppeople as i would if I was face to face and don't expect anything and all will come to you "
Exactly the way it should be.
Profiles read first, then contact made only if it is suitable. Treat everyone as you would face to face, and how you want to be treated.
Wouldn't this be a much better site if everyone behaved like this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not sure if it's been said but the way I approach it is just talk to ppeople as i would if I was face to face and don't expect anything and all will come to you "
this is a good attitude,I think some people have massively high expectations of entitlement and can't understand when its doesn't happen as they thought it would because they have joined a site where sex is available |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel a good personality goes along way on here. The ability to smile, have a laugh and make others laugh. We are all here for a good time with people so being a people's person really helps.
Arrogance gets you know where, respect and honesty will get you everywhere. |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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"For me.
Never have a cock pic as an avatar. Have tasteful as well as suggestive pictures visivle and some saucy pics/face pics in private gallery.
Have a great profile text selling yourself. Imagine it as your shop window selling you.
I get really bored of constant cock pics I have to say but what's the difference in him or other guys having his cock as his avatar and you having your arse as yours or my tits as mine? Not having a go at all just feel for the single guys on here sometimes, they can't seem to win. Although a few don't help themselves I have to say xx"
Your tits and my arse are not our main sexual organ (yes to me its the brain) but a mans cock and a ladies pussy are the main course. They are the main sexual organs. A man is going to put his cock in a ladies pussy to have intercourse. Yes I know he can put it into an arse/tits but its like showing an open pussy. How much thought went into a cock pic as an avatar? Much the same way as I find an open pussy showing all the goods unattractive as an avatar.
Without looking at your profile I have no idea what other visible pics you have and which you have as your avatar. For me, I change mine regularly but never have an open pussy shot as I find most people like to unwrap interesting wrapped packages xx |
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"Don't read the threads if you don't like them. Who's got time to trawl through all that?? "
In a nutshell...you are telling me and everyone else that the time spent giving others valuable advice was a waste of time because You can't be bothered to read it...
Why would anyone want to waste more time on your request? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't read the threads if you don't like them. Who's got time to trawl through all that??
In a nutshell...you are telling me and everyone else that the time spent giving others valuable advice was a waste of time because You can't be bothered to read it...
Why would anyone want to waste more time on your request? "
Not at all. He didn't offer any advice other than to look through the many previous threads of the same nature. But, as someone new, how would I know of the existence of these threads? So basically he was just having a moan about another newbie posting the same old thing and my response to him is don't read it. No one is forcing any one to read the threads and if it doesn't interest you then why bother to comment? I've had an awful lot of encouraging and helpful feedback on this thread so I feel justified in my original post and in my comments to him. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me.
Never have a cock pic as an avatar. Have tasteful as well as suggestive pictures visivle and some saucy pics/face pics in private gallery.
Have a great profile text selling yourself. Imagine it as your shop window selling you.
I get really bored of constant cock pics I have to say but what's the difference in him or other guys having his cock as his avatar and you having your arse as yours or my tits as mine? Not having a go at all just feel for the single guys on here sometimes, they can't seem to win. Although a few don't help themselves I have to say xx
Your tits and my arse are not our main sexual organ (yes to me its the brain) but a mans cock and a ladies pussy are the main course. They are the main sexual organs. A man is going to put his cock in a ladies pussy to have intercourse. Yes I know he can put it into an arse/tits but its like showing an open pussy. How much thought went into a cock pic as an avatar? Much the same way as I find an open pussy showing all the goods unattractive as an avatar.
Without looking at your profile I have no idea what other visible pics you have and which you have as your avatar. For me, I change mine regularly but never have an open pussy shot as I find most people like to unwrap interesting wrapped packages xx"
Lots of advice on the pics so all changed. Still not an awful lot more interest really aside from _iews from readers of this thread. However, I think the general consensus is a bit of discretion goes a long way
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"I feel a good personality goes along way on here. The ability to smile, have a laugh and make others laugh. We are all here for a good time with people so being a people's person really helps.
Arrogance gets you know where, respect and honesty will get you everywhere. "
Absolutely. I think you have to have a sense of humour to be here in the first place and nothing breaks the ice better than having a good giggle. |
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"Not sure if it's been said but the way I approach it is just talk to ppeople as i would if I was face to face and don't expect anything and all will come to you
this is a good attitude,I think some people have massively high expectations of entitlement and can't understand when its doesn't happen as they thought it would because they have joined a site where sex is available"
On the whole I'd say most comments have been helpful and positive, this included. I'm not one for just sending a "fancy a shag" message. I think my current profile states that I'd like to meet socially in most cases just go see if there's a spark or a connection. Thanks for your feedback |
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Read the profile. If it says no single males they mean no single males. There is no harm in looking. A fab, a wink is o.k. but don't request to be friends. Good luck and happy hunting. |
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"Don't read the threads if you don't like them. Who's got time to trawl through all that??
In a nutshell...you are telling me and everyone else that the time spent giving others valuable advice was a waste of time because You can't be bothered to read it...
Why would anyone want to waste more time on your request?
Not at all. He didn't offer any advice other than to look through the many previous threads of the same nature. But, as someone new, how would I know of the existence of these threads? So basically he was just having a moan about another newbie posting the same old thing and my response to him is don't read it. No one is forcing any one to read the threads and if it doesn't interest you then why bother to comment? I've had an awful lot of encouraging and helpful feedback on this thread so I feel justified in my original post and in my comments to him. "
Now you know here are 100's of very helpful threads...my advice is to read some of them. They all say the same...effort in...success out. |
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"Don't read the threads if you don't like them. Who's got time to trawl through all that??
In a nutshell...you are telling me and everyone else that the time spent giving others valuable advice was a waste of time because You can't be bothered to read it...
Why would anyone want to waste more time on your request?
Not at all. He didn't offer any advice other than to look through the many previous threads of the same nature. But, as someone new, how would I know of the existence of these threads? So basically he was just having a moan about another newbie posting the same old thing and my response to him is don't read it. No one is forcing any one to read the threads and if it doesn't interest you then why bother to comment? I've had an awful lot of encouraging and helpful feedback on this thread so I feel justified in my original post and in my comments to him. "
Now you know here are 100's of very helpful threads...my advice is to read some of them. They all say the same...effort in...success out. |
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"Don't read the threads if you don't like them. Who's got time to trawl through all that??
In a nutshell...you are telling me and everyone else that the time spent giving others valuable advice was a waste of time because You can't be bothered to read it...
Why would anyone want to waste more time on your request?
Not at all. He didn't offer any advice other than to look through the many previous threads of the same nature. But, as someone new, how would I know of the existence of these threads? So basically he was just having a moan about another newbie posting the same old thing and my response to him is don't read it. No one is forcing any one to read the threads and if it doesn't interest you then why bother to comment? I've had an awful lot of encouraging and helpful feedback on this thread so I feel justified in my original post and in my comments to him.
Now you know here are 100's of very helpful threads...my advice is to read some of them. They all say the same...effort in...success out."
See, if they all say the same it'd make more sense just sticking to this one and the advice I'm getting here |
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"Read the profile. If it says no single males they mean no single males. There is no harm in looking. A fab, a wink is o.k. but don't request to be friends. Good luck and happy hunting. "
Thank you. I usually use the search options to filter out the ones not looking for single guys. Best of luck to you both too x |
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"Read the profile. If it says no single males they mean no single males. There is no harm in looking. A fab, a wink is o.k. but don't request to be friends. Good luck and happy hunting. "
I've just seen you're from San Antonio! I was a very frequent visitor to the river walk when I lived in the states. I lived in Houston for close to 4yrs and used to visit about 3 or 4 times a year!! |
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