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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello,
We're looking to get a gangbang sorted, and was wondering if its easier to get an organiser to sort it for us?
We want to do it on a hotel with about 8 guys plus husband. Pref want to pick see the guys on fab before.
Any advice out there? xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have very similar interest too but seems very daunting to sort guy that show plus the same with group guy that no each other all the same we're to start uuuummmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you want to pick the guys then organise yourself. I have organised GB's before now...but at my place rather than hotels.
I won't offer this time as my advice above is valid if you want to pick the guys yourselves.
Allow time for the selection process etc. and make sure you choose a few extra...some won't turn up. Also avoid men who can't accommodate. 99% of them are married! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The round room at Chams on a friday...all done  x"
This is a good idea. If it isnt your cup of tea your better off to organise it yourself by getting a group of trusted males together people you know.
Its ok to try and get random people to come but often many love the fantasy but back out at the last moment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The round room at Chams on a friday...all done x
This is a good idea. If it isnt your cup of tea your better off to organise it yourself by getting a group of trusted males together people you know.
Its ok to try and get random people to come but often many love the fantasy but back out at the last moment."
The ones who "can't accommodate" for sure. Normally means married! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are quite a few ready made groups out there. Generally the guys know each other and have played together before, so you know it's not going to get awkward. I'm not sure how you go about finding them though, they usually contact me.
I would be wary of anyone who claims they can organise a GB for you from scratch, they may not deliver, or may not understand your requirements etc. But doing it yourself could be equally frustrating.
Clubs/parties could be a good solution. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Myself and a trusted female friend are about to set up a private members club to hold just such events in Oxfordshire. (I wonder if david cameron will open it for us? Lol). Anyway i'm running a pole, gangbang or group sex, in the swingers club section, but happy to answer any question or put you in touch with the female half of the event organising to make sure this is genuine. We're not talking a premmiere inn somewhere but safe secure premises for smaller events. Please just private message me for details etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are quite a few ready made groups out there. Generally the guys know each other and have played together before, so you know it's not going to get awkward. I'm not sure how you go about finding them though, they usually contact me.
I would be wary of anyone who claims they can organise a GB for you from scratch, they may not deliver, or may not understand your requirements etc. But doing it yourself could be equally frustrating.
Clubs/parties could be a good solution."
Disagree we have used organised groups and all my priorities and preferences have been taken into account.... Not been disappointed yet x |
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"Thanks guys.
I'm abit put off with doing a gang bang at a club as I guess you cant choose who is there. Or the number of guys there. "
but you can choose from those who are there, and control the numbers. Your rules still apply even in a club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The round room at Chams on a friday...all done x
This is a good idea. If it isnt your cup of tea your better off to organise it yourself by getting a group of trusted males together people you know.
Its ok to try and get random people to come but often many love the fantasy but back out at the last moment.
The ones who "can't accommodate" for sure. Normally means married!"
No it doesn't. That's bullshit. |
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"Myself and a trusted female friend are about to set up a private members club to hold just such events in Oxfordshire. (I wonder if david cameron will open it for us? Lol). Anyway i'm running a pole, gangbang or group sex, in the swingers club section, but happy to answer any question or put you in touch with the female half of the event organising to make sure this is genuine. We're not talking a premmiere inn somewhere but safe secure premises for smaller events"
Sorry but when you say pole, do you mean pole dancing?  |
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By *ay2571Man
over a year ago
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I've organised 3 but only 2 have come off!! The one that didn't happen was down to the girl getting cold feet the day before and rather than create a difficult situation I canned it. But she did have fun at the second and third ones I organised.
It does help if you can get a core of guys, I'm fortunate enough to know 3 other guys who I've played with before who make up the core of my invitees. On one I think only 20% of the other guys showed and it was about 50 the other time.
On the accommodation thing, I don't accom because I like to keep this part if my life private. Also it's a security thing. I once had a guy turn up at 3 am on my door step. Fortunately I was in London!
Other things to consider- what does the girl want out of it? Sounds daft, but does she want a procession of guys cumming or them all to cum on her around the same time.
Porn is also useful, it keeps guys in the mood when they are not busy.
Finally be prepared for some stage fright!! |
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"The round room at Chams on a friday...all done x
This is a good idea. If it isnt your cup of tea your better off to organise it yourself by getting a group of trusted males together people you know.
Its ok to try and get random people to come but often many love the fantasy but back out at the last moment."
That's totally been my experience last week! Tried to get 10 men to take care of two women. Scores of men bombarded me with messages.
Only one actually turned up. |
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"There are quite a few ready made groups out there. Generally the guys know each other and have played together before, so you know it's not going to get awkward. I'm not sure how you go about finding them though, they usually contact me.
I would be wary of anyone who claims they can organise a GB for you from scratch, they may not deliver, or may not understand your requirements etc. But doing it yourself could be equally frustrating.
Clubs/parties could be a good solution.
Disagree we have used organised groups and all my priorities and preferences have been taken into account.... Not been disappointed yet x"
I would love to know how to get in touch with those groups! Tried to sort out a GB last week, which was an Epic Fail due to men simply not turning up. Would love to find reliable folk |
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Invite more guys than you want, as a few won't turn up. Also make sure they know your ground rules before the event, exactly what you want and don't want, and how far they can take things, ie can they cum on your tits, spank you, etc. Your partner will need to keep an eye on things and make sure your wishes are respected. After all, it's for your pleasure!
Also choose a hotel or motel with easy access to rooms, you don't want a procession through the foyer.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not all men who can't accommodate are married, there are other reasons for example ones who have sole custody of their kids like myself.
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I'd have to agree with NobbyNobbs earlier comment, when he said that 99% of guys who cannot accommodate are married. (That's what he said, check).
And that the other 1% will be made up of people who just don't want a stranger in their home and/or have kids.
Although I don't quite get the kids angle. So they're never out, at school, staying with other parent/grandparent? So you're never going to have a sexual relationship again if you have kids living with you? With anyone? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"avoid men who can't accommodate. 99% of them are married!
absolutely nonsense! Show me the proof or satistics to backup such a claim"
Certainly. Set up a profile as a TV and put a looking to meet up. Then see how many of the men who contact you can accommodate.
Walk a mile in these heels..... |
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"avoid men who can't accommodate. 99% of them are married!
absolutely nonsense! Show me the proof or satistics to backup such a claim
Certainly. Set up a profile as a TV and put a looking to meet up. Then see how many of the men who contact you can accommodate.
Walk a mile in these heels....."
such a foolish response why would I set up a TV profile?? And even if I did that it wouldn't prove a single thing definitely not enough evidence to stake such a claim about 99% of single guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"avoid men who can't accommodate. 99% of them are married!
absolutely nonsense! Show me the proof or satistics to backup such a claim
Certainly. Set up a profile as a TV and put a looking to meet up. Then see how many of the men who contact you can accommodate.
Walk a mile in these heels.....
such a foolish response why would I set up a TV profile?? And even if I did that it wouldn't prove a single thing definitely not enough evidence to stake such a claim about 99% of single guys"
Its hardly foolish, you wanted proof so I suggested a way for you to get it. As the one who is looking for single men I'd say I'm better qualified to make my statement than you are to say it's wrong.
99% of the guys who contact me cannot accommodate because they are married. And the ones who contact me are both openly Bisexual on here and also guys who say they are like yourself, straight-not looking for guys/TVs. So that's a pretty good cross section of the male membership. |
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"avoid men who can't accommodate. 99% of them are married!
absolutely nonsense! Show me the proof or satistics to backup such a claim"
Why avoid men who can't accommodate? Who cares if they are married or not? What they do with their lives is up to them. You're not going out on a date!
A lot of guys in clubs may well be married, but so what? It's their own personal business, no-one else's!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I also would say go to a club, if you arrange one you can guarentee half won't show on the day, I've done a few in the past and always invite a few more than wanted to compensate for the drop outs and no shows |
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"avoid men who can't accommodate. 99% of them are married!
absolutely nonsense! Show me the proof or satistics to backup such a claim
Certainly. Set up a profile as a TV and put a looking to meet up. Then see how many of the men who contact you can accommodate.
Walk a mile in these heels.....
such a foolish response why would I set up a TV profile?? And even if I did that it wouldn't prove a single thing definitely not enough evidence to stake such a claim about 99% of single guys
Its hardly foolish, you wanted proof so I suggested a way for you to get it. As the one who is looking for single men I'd say I'm better qualified to make my statement than you are to say it's wrong.
99% of the guys who contact me cannot accommodate because they are married. And the ones who contact me are both openly Bisexual on here and also guys who say they are like yourself, straight-not looking for guys/TVs. So that's a pretty good cross section of the male membership. "
yes it is foolish because it proves nothing using your words 99% the guys who contacted you yes maybe so but NOT 99% of all the single guys on the site which is a big difference
and setting up a TV profile would prove anything the only way to make such claims is if you conducted a survey of all the single men and worked out the percentage from there but nobody has done that so can't say 99% for sure |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"avoid men who can't accommodate. 99% of them are married!
absolutely nonsense! Show me the proof or satistics to backup such a claim
Why avoid men who can't accommodate? Who cares if they are married or not? What they do with their lives is up to them. You're not going out on a date!
A lot of guys in clubs may well be married, but so what? It's their own personal business, no-one else's!!"
I think that the point was they are more likely to not show up, be that through guilt, having got off on the fantasy and lost the hardon, or just that the Mrs called up and asked them to go to the shops on the way home instead. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"avoid men who can't accommodate. 99% of them are married!
absolutely nonsense! Show me the proof or satistics to backup such a claim
Certainly. Set up a profile as a TV and put a looking to meet up. Then see how many of the men who contact you can accommodate.
Walk a mile in these heels....."
most of the guys who contact me don't accommodate but all because they don't that does not mean they can't, I can accommodate but choose not to and I'm not married, of course some are married but I think 99% is a bit high |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"avoid men who can't accommodate. 99% of them are married!
absolutely nonsense! Show me the proof or satistics to backup such a claim
Certainly. Set up a profile as a TV and put a looking to meet up. Then see how many of the men who contact you can accommodate.
Walk a mile in these heels.....
such a foolish response why would I set up a TV profile?? And even if I did that it wouldn't prove a single thing definitely not enough evidence to stake such a claim about 99% of single guys
Its hardly foolish, you wanted proof so I suggested a way for you to get it. As the one who is looking for single men I'd say I'm better qualified to make my statement than you are to say it's wrong.
99% of the guys who contact me cannot accommodate because they are married. And the ones who contact me are both openly Bisexual on here and also guys who say they are like yourself, straight-not looking for guys/TVs. So that's a pretty good cross section of the male membership.
yes it is foolish because it proves nothing using your words 99% the guys who contacted you yes maybe so but NOT 99% of all the single guys on the site which is a big difference
and setting up a TV profile would prove anything the only way to make such claims is if you conducted a survey of all the single men and worked out the percentage from there but nobody has done that so can't say 99% for sure"
But turn that around, you can't say for definite that I'm wrong, and on the balance of probability I'm right, as of the two of us I'm the only one who gets contact with single men when I'm looking to meet. Therefore the only one of us with any reference.
Sure a few men like yourself might jump on here now to back you up. But bearing in mind only a tiny proportion of registered users use the forums then that's more ammo for my case, not yours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Went to a club with the intention of having a mini gang bang for Bev but gotta say it wasnt a good experience.
Maybe were too fussy but the sight of horrible drooling guys whipping their cocks out trying to slide a condom on as they thought it was a free for all and Bev was there for their entertainment was a real turn off.
Didnt seem to be one half decent guy they all appeared like your stereotypical pervert with drooling mouths and that pervert smile you notice with guys in sex shops. |
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"avoid men who can't accommodate. 99% of them are married!
absolutely nonsense! Show me the proof or satistics to backup such a claim
Certainly. Set up a profile as a TV and put a looking to meet up. Then see how many of the men who contact you can accommodate.
Walk a mile in these heels.....
such a foolish response why would I set up a TV profile?? And even if I did that it wouldn't prove a single thing definitely not enough evidence to stake such a claim about 99% of single guys
Its hardly foolish, you wanted proof so I suggested a way for you to get it. As the one who is looking for single men I'd say I'm better qualified to make my statement than you are to say it's wrong.
99% of the guys who contact me cannot accommodate because they are married. And the ones who contact me are both openly Bisexual on here and also guys who say they are like yourself, straight-not looking for guys/TVs. So that's a pretty good cross section of the male membership.
yes it is foolish because it proves nothing using your words 99% the guys who contacted you yes maybe so but NOT 99% of all the single guys on the site which is a big difference
and setting up a TV profile would prove anything the only way to make such claims is if you conducted a survey of all the single men and worked out the percentage from there but nobody has done that so can't say 99% for sure
But turn that around, you can't say for definite that I'm wrong, and on the balance of probability I'm right, as of the two of us I'm the only one who gets contact with single men when I'm looking to meet. Therefore the only one of us with any reference.
Sure a few men like yourself might jump on here now to back you up. But bearing in mind only a tiny proportion of registered users use the forums then that's more ammo for my case, not yours. "
Yes I can't say for sure you wrong that is right but I certainly can't say your right either and you only get contacted by the single guys looking to meet TV/TS so you certainly can not comment on the single guys that are not interested those types fact!
You have had no contact with them the only possible way to tell is with a survey and untill that day no one should be making claims and stating them as facts like the guy with the 99%
I have no idea how the fact only a small percentage use the forums is more ammo for you or how you come to that conclusion either  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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But as I've said, I don't just get contacted by guys looking to meet TV's. I get the closet cases too, and there's rather a lot of them. Plus a lot of the guys who say they can accommodate on their profile, when you push them on that subject will then come clean and say "yes I can sometimes when the wife is out". Which is usually daytimes only.
I'm sorry, but I'll stand by my assertation that 99% of guys who cannot accommodate (and some who can) are married. And on the balance of probability due to the fact that I've contact with a wide variety of the guys in question, it's more likely I'm right. |
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"If you want to pick the guys then organise yourself. I have organised GB's before now...but at my place rather than hotels.
I won't offer this time as my advice above is valid if you want to pick the guys yourselves.
Allow time for the selection process etc. and make sure you choose a few extra...some won't turn up. Also avoid men who can't accommodate. 99% of them are married!"
Well i duno bout 99% of them
I have dont accomm on my profile but thats cos i houseshare with friends, so can only accomm when i get a free house, due to wanting to be descrete. |
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"There are quite a few ready made groups out there. Generally the guys know each other and have played together before, so you know it's not going to get awkward. I'm not sure how you go about finding them though, they usually contact me.
I would be wary of anyone who claims they can organise a GB for you from scratch, they may not deliver, or may not understand your requirements etc. But doing it yourself could be equally frustrating.
Clubs/parties could be a good solution."
Could you point me in the direction of those ready-made groups?
I don't want to disappoint next time I'm asked to organise one  |
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"But as I've said, I don't just get contacted by guys looking to meet TV's. I get the closet cases too, and there's rather a lot of them. Plus a lot of the guys who say they can accommodate on their profile, when you push them on that subject will then come clean and say "yes I can sometimes when the wife is out". Which is usually daytimes only.
I'm sorry, but I'll stand by my assertation that 99% of guys who cannot accommodate (and some who can) are married. And on the balance of probability due to the fact that I've contact with a wide variety of the guys in question, it's more likely I'm right. "
I'm sorry but your wrong because you have not been contacted by 100% of single guys who can't accommodate to state as a fact that 99% of them are married bottem line so stop state you're opinion as fact because it's not.
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I have dont accomm on my profile but thats cos i houseshare with friends, so can only accomm when i get a free house, due to wanting to be descrete."
see my point exactly just one of many reason why a single guy can't accommodate sometimes |
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"But as I've said, I don't just get contacted by guys looking to meet TV's. I get the closet cases too, and there's rather a lot of them. Plus a lot of the guys who say they can accommodate on their profile, when you push them on that subject will then come clean and say "yes I can sometimes when the wife is out". Which is usually daytimes only.
I'm sorry, but I'll stand by my assertation that 99% of guys who cannot accommodate (and some who can) are married. And on the balance of probability due to the fact that I've contact with a wide variety of the guys in question, it's more likely I'm right. "
how good is this a thread about a gang bang turns into a pram fight at lidl!! Who cares if they can't accommodate surely that is there buisness and if they can't and you can then alls good if you want them to accommodate and they can't because they are married or whatever then maybe you should jog on to the ones that can only saying !!! |
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I have dont accomm on my profile but thats cos i houseshare with friends, so can only accomm when i get a free house, due to wanting to be descrete.
see my point exactly just one of many reason why a single guy can't accommodate sometimes"
Yep, and I'm saying he's possibly one of the one percent that are not married. If what he says is true. I've met a guy who said that before. Found out he was lying a few weeks later from a female he'd met. |
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"Hello,
We're looking to get a gangbang sorted, and was wondering if its easier to get an organiser to sort it for us?
We want to do it on a hotel with about 8 guys plus husband. Pref want to pick see the guys on fab before.
Any advice out there? xxx"
I would suggest a gang bang group. For one, the guys are used to performing in front of each other, two, they have their own membership sorted out and any decent group have probably ed out time wasters ,etc. Finally, most are likely to turn up as if you are part of a gang bang group chances are you are a serious player. Good luck. |
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I have dont accomm on my profile but thats cos i houseshare with friends, so can only accomm when i get a free house, due to wanting to be descrete.
see my point exactly just one of many reason why a single guy can't accommodate sometimes
Yep, and I'm saying he's possibly one of the one percent that are not married. If what he says is true. I've met a guy who said that before. Found out he was lying a few weeks later from a female he'd met. "
oh stop talking crap it's getting old now you will never convince me to believe your made up frankly ridiculous statistics you believe them and move on and stop picking at everything I post we have a difference of opinion my is backed up by facts yours is not but whatever can't be bothered to keep banging my head against a brick wall keep on judging people it will get you far |
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I have dont accomm on my profile but thats cos i houseshare with friends, so can only accomm when i get a free house, due to wanting to be descrete.
see my point exactly just one of many reason why a single guy can't accommodate sometimes
Yep, and I'm saying he's possibly one of the one percent that are not married. If what he says is true. I've met a guy who said that before. Found out he was lying a few weeks later from a female he'd met.
oh stop talking crap it's getting old now you will never convince me to believe your made up frankly ridiculous statistics you believe them and move on and stop picking at everything I post we have a difference of opinion my is backed up by facts yours is not but whatever can't be bothered to keep banging my head against a brick wall keep on judging people it will get you far "
How you can say your claims are backed up by facts when you do not look to meet men, therefore have never had any dialogue with them with regards to meeting is beyond me. When you've had to wade through messages from guys, none of whom can accomodate, or only certain hours of the day, or outside only, or plain just because they admit it, THEN you can spout off about what I say being a pile of crap. Until then wind your neck in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The round room at Chams on a friday...all done x
This is a good idea. If it isnt your cup of tea your better off to organise it yourself by getting a group of trusted males together people you know.
Its ok to try and get random people to come but often many love the fantasy but back out at the last moment.
The ones who "can't accommodate" for sure. Normally means married!"
What absolute crap!! I don't accommodate as many don't because this is supposedly a swinging site not a dating site and perhaps I just don't want other fabbers to know where I live, after all there are plenty of nutters out there!! |
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I have dont accomm on my profile but thats cos i houseshare with friends, so can only accomm when i get a free house, due to wanting to be descrete.
see my point exactly just one of many reason why a single guy can't accommodate sometimes
Yep, and I'm saying he's possibly one of the one percent that are not married. If what he says is true. I've met a guy who said that before. Found out he was lying a few weeks later from a female he'd met.
oh stop talking crap it's getting old now you will never convince me to believe your made up frankly ridiculous statistics you believe them and move on and stop picking at everything I post we have a difference of opinion my is backed up by facts yours is not but whatever can't be bothered to keep banging my head against a brick wall keep on judging people it will get you far
How you can say your claims are backed up by facts when you do not look to meet men, therefore have never had any dialogue with them with regards to meeting is beyond me. When you've had to wade through messages from guys, none of whom can accomodate, or only certain hours of the day, or outside only, or plain just because they admit it, THEN you can spout off about what I say being a pile of crap. Until then wind your neck in. "
like I said a thousand times already unless you have conducted a survey of ALl single guy that can't accommodate your talking crap about your personal experiences and stating them as facts which is wrong you made up your 99% statistic and running around like it's fact and it's not it's YOUR wrong opinion so untill you conduct that survey stop talking crap end of! |
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Getting tedious now. You can't say it's crap, because you've had ZERO input from men to form any opinion. ZERO. 0. NIL.
I have. Therefore my opinion is more valid. It's like a hairdresser telling a rocket scientist he's doing it wrong.
You're just spouting off because you think I've slighted you in some way.
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"Getting tedious now. You can't say it's crap, because you've had ZERO input from men to form any opinion. ZERO. 0. NIL.
I have. Therefore my opinion is more valid. It's like a hairdresser telling a rocket scientist he's doing it wrong.
You're just spouting off because you think I've slighted you in some way.
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now your just talking nonsense |
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"Getting tedious now. You can't say it's crap, because you've had ZERO input from men to form any opinion. ZERO. 0. NIL.
I have. Therefore my opinion is more valid. It's like a hairdresser telling a rocket scientist he's doing it wrong.
You're just spouting off because you think I've slighted you in some way.
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now go conducted the survey like I said then you can back up your ridiculous claims and show me I was wrong |
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"Getting tedious now. You can't say it's crap, because you've had ZERO input from men to form any opinion. ZERO. 0. NIL.
I have. Therefore my opinion is more valid. It's like a hairdresser telling a rocket scientist he's doing it wrong.
You're just spouting off because you think I've slighted you in some way.
now go conducted the survey like I said then you can back up your ridiculous claims and show me I was wrong"
Don't need to. Done it already, every damn time I put the looking to meet flag up, or send a message to a guy round here.
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"The round room at Chams on a friday...all done x
This is a good idea. If it isnt your cup of tea your better off to organise it yourself by getting a group of trusted males together people you know.
Its ok to try and get random people to come but often many love the fantasy but back out at the last moment.
The ones who "can't accommodate" for sure. Normally means married!"
I can't accomodate and I'm not married.....be careful with your sweeping generalisations!
To the OP you're better off trying to arrange yourself preferably from people you've met before and as others suggested clubs are a great opportunity, if not to have a GB at least arrange one face to face with guys there. |
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"Getting tedious now. You can't say it's crap, because you've had ZERO input from men to form any opinion. ZERO. 0. NIL.
I have. Therefore my opinion is more valid. It's like a hairdresser telling a rocket scientist he's doing it wrong.
You're just spouting off because you think I've slighted you in some way.
now go conducted the survey like I said then you can back up your ridiculous claims and show me I was wrong
Don't need to. Done it already, every damn time I put the looking to meet flag up, or send a message to a guy round here.
What have you done?"
like I said nonsense go do the survey and stop putting all single guys that can't accommodate in the same category of the few you have messaged or spoken to end of come back once you done it untill then your talking crap |
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"Getting tedious now. You can't say it's crap, because you've had ZERO input from men to form any opinion. ZERO. 0. NIL.
I have. Therefore my opinion is more valid. It's like a hairdresser telling a rocket scientist he's doing it wrong.
You're just spouting off because you think I've slighted you in some way.
now go conducted the survey like I said then you can back up your ridiculous claims and show me I was wrong
Don't need to. Done it already, every damn time I put the looking to meet flag up, or send a message to a guy round here.
What have you done?
like I said nonsense go do the survey and stop putting all single guys that can't accommodate in the same category of the few you have messaged or spoken to end of come back once you done it untill then your talking crap "
I'm sorry but when it comes to men in my experience this is true, I'm sure there are some that have other reasons but I've been here over a year now and only a handful of guys that can't accommodate were genuinely single |
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"Getting tedious now. You can't say it's crap, because you've had ZERO input from men to form any opinion. ZERO. 0. NIL.
I have. Therefore my opinion is more valid. It's like a hairdresser telling a rocket scientist he's doing it wrong.
You're just spouting off because you think I've slighted you in some way.
now go conducted the survey like I said then you can back up your ridiculous claims and show me I was wrong
Don't need to. Done it already, every damn time I put the looking to meet flag up, or send a message to a guy round here.
What have you done?
like I said nonsense go do the survey and stop putting all single guys that can't accommodate in the same category of the few you have messaged or spoken to end of come back once you done it untill then your talking crap
I'm sorry but when it comes to men in my experience this is true, I'm sure there are some that have other reasons but I've been here over a year now and only a handful of guys that can't accommodate were genuinely single "
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I sorted a gang bang out for a friend for her birthday. She left it all to me so i got her 5 men and for a treat a woman. Booked mtself and her and hubby in a hotel opposite each other and get her ready, sent her hubby down to the bar and txt all the men the room number. I did photography. If you need to see veri just message x |
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* handful of guys I've spoken to........ Sorry "
which is the key point you haven't spoken to every single guy that can't accommodate so you can only speak about your personal experiences which is fine I have no problem with that but when people start making up statistics based on their own personal interactions with however many guys that they have spoken to and attribute those limited experiences to all of the single guys on the site that can't accommodate is just wrong in my opinion and judging the amount of singles guys that can't accommodate on this thread that have stated they are not married and can't host for a number of reasons just adds to my point
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* handful of guys I've spoken to........ Sorry
which is the key point you haven't spoken to every single guy that can't accommodate so you can only speak about your personal experiences which is fine I have no problem with that but when people start making up statistics based on their own personal interactions with however many guys that they have spoken to and attribute those limited experiences to all of the single guys on the site that can't accommodate is just wrong in my opinion and judging the amount of singles guys that can't accommodate on this thread that have stated they are not married and can't host for a number of reasons just adds to my point
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* handful of guys I've spoken to........ Sorry
which is the key point you haven't spoken to every single guy that can't accommodate so you can only speak about your personal experiences which is fine I have no problem with that but when people start making up statistics based on their own personal interactions with however many guys that they have spoken to and attribute those limited experiences to all of the single guys on the site that can't accommodate is just wrong in my opinion and judging the amount of singles guys that can't accommodate on this thread that have stated they are not married and can't host for a number of reasons just adds to my point
Just because they've posted that on here doesn't mean they're actually telling the truth though does it? "
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* handful of guys I've spoken to........ Sorry
which is the key point you haven't spoken to every single guy that can't accommodate so you can only speak about your personal experiences which is fine I have no problem with that but when people start making up statistics based on their own personal interactions with however many guys that they have spoken to and attribute those limited experiences to all of the single guys on the site that can't accommodate is just wrong in my opinion and judging the amount of singles guys that can't accommodate on this thread that have stated they are not married and can't host for a number of reasons just adds to my point
Just because they've posted that on here doesn't mean they're actually telling the truth though does it?
and it doesn't mean that it's a lie either"
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* handful of guys I've spoken to........ Sorry
which is the key point you haven't spoken to every single guy that can't accommodate so you can only speak about your personal experiences which is fine I have no problem with that but when people start making up statistics based on their own personal interactions with however many guys that they have spoken to and attribute those limited experiences to all of the single guys on the site that can't accommodate is just wrong in my opinion and judging the amount of singles guys that can't accommodate on this thread that have stated they are not married and can't host for a number of reasons just adds to my point
Just because they've posted that on here doesn't mean they're actually telling the truth though does it?
and it doesn't mean that it's a lie either
Exactly and that's why most people use the lack of accommodation as a cheat filter"
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* handful of guys I've spoken to........ Sorry
which is the key point you haven't spoken to every single guy that can't accommodate so you can only speak about your personal experiences which is fine I have no problem with that but when people start making up statistics based on their own personal interactions with however many guys that they have spoken to and attribute those limited experiences to all of the single guys on the site that can't accommodate is just wrong in my opinion and judging the amount of singles guys that can't accommodate on this thread that have stated they are not married and can't host for a number of reasons just adds to my point
Just because they've posted that on here doesn't mean they're actually telling the truth though does it?
and it doesn't mean that it's a lie either
Exactly and that's why most people use the lack of accommodation as a cheat filter
which is wrong in my opinion people are not all the same "
No but if the signs are there why would you ignore them just because says they're not? I'm all for giving giving chances but personally every time I've done that my first impression was correct, I'm sure that's the same for a lot of people on here, if tour gut says they're married they usually are |
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* handful of guys I've spoken to........ Sorry
which is the key point you haven't spoken to every single guy that can't accommodate so you can only speak about your personal experiences which is fine I have no problem with that but when people start making up statistics based on their own personal interactions with however many guys that they have spoken to and attribute those limited experiences to all of the single guys on the site that can't accommodate is just wrong in my opinion and judging the amount of singles guys that can't accommodate on this thread that have stated they are not married and can't host for a number of reasons just adds to my point
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Firstly, quote me properly. Dont spin what I said to your own ends. I never said ALL single guys who can't accommodate. I said 99%.
Secondly No, it doesn't add to your point at all. The very few guys who have answered to back you up are a tiny % of the amount of men on this site. And they are from diverse areas of the country, not just one place. So in the place they live in, they are part of the 1% of men who can't accommodate for other reasons.
No man is going to leap on here to back me up because they lie about it to increase their chances of getting laid. Look at the current thread about married guys in the lounge to see the guy getting shot down.
So as I said, when you have ANY experience of what you are talking about, then cone back and debate me. By the way, the phrase "that's a pile of crap" is not a debate. It's you having no argument. |
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* handful of guys I've spoken to........ Sorry
which is the key point you haven't spoken to every single guy that can't accommodate so you can only speak about your personal experiences which is fine I have no problem with that but when people start making up statistics based on their own personal interactions with however many guys that they have spoken to and attribute those limited experiences to all of the single guys on the site that can't accommodate is just wrong in my opinion and judging the amount of singles guys that can't accommodate on this thread that have stated they are not married and can't host for a number of reasons just adds to my point
Just because they've posted that on here doesn't mean they're actually telling the truth though does it?
and it doesn't mean that it's a lie either
Exactly and that's why most people use the lack of accommodation as a cheat filter
which is wrong in my opinion people are not all the same
No but if the signs are there why would you ignore them just because says they're not? I'm all for giving giving chances but personally every time I've done that my first impression was correct, I'm sure that's the same for a lot of people on here, if tour gut says they're married they usually are "
what signs? Like what exactly?
Sorry but you can't speak for other people or there experiences and the part about your gut instinct is subjective to each individual as you meet them is it not? And I'm sure you or anybody else hasn't meet every single guy that can't accommodate on this site to come to the conclusion 99% of them are married in some cases you may very well be right more than likely you are but I'm just against making up ridiculous statistics and stating them as facts that's all really don't see the big deal |
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* handful of guys I've spoken to........ Sorry
which is the key point you haven't spoken to every single guy that can't accommodate so you can only speak about your personal experiences which is fine I have no problem with that but when people start making up statistics based on their own personal interactions with however many guys that they have spoken to and attribute those limited experiences to all of the single guys on the site that can't accommodate is just wrong in my opinion and judging the amount of singles guys that can't accommodate on this thread that have stated they are not married and can't host for a number of reasons just adds to my point
Firstly, quote me properly. Dont spin what I said to your own ends. I never said ALL single guys who can't accommodate. I said 99%.
Secondly No, it doesn't add to your point at all. The very few guys who have answered to back you up are a tiny % of the amount of men on this site. And they are from diverse areas of the country, not just one place. So in the place they live in, they are part of the 1% of men who can't accommodate for other reasons.
No man is going to leap on here to back me up because they lie about it to increase their chances of getting laid. Look at the current thread about married guys in the lounge to see the guy getting shot down.
So as I said, when you have ANY experience of what you are talking about, then cone back and debate me. By the way, the phrase "that's a pile of crap" is not a debate. It's you having no argument. "
fistly nobody was talking to you and nobody quoted you so get your fatcs straight before you jump in again and talk more nonsense
secondly your doing it all again stating your opinion as fact when that's just your opinion about the percentages nothing more you base it on nothing but your opinion
like I said already god knows how many times the only way to make such claims is to conduct a survey untill then it is just your opinion nothing more you have nothing to back up such ridiculous statistics apart from you own experience and given the size of fab I honestly find that ridiculous and laughable |
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* handful of guys I've spoken to........ Sorry
which is the key point you haven't spoken to every single guy that can't accommodate so you can only speak about your personal experiences which is fine I have no problem with that but when people start making up statistics based on their own personal interactions with however many guys that they have spoken to and attribute those limited experiences to all of the single guys on the site that can't accommodate is just wrong in my opinion and judging the amount of singles guys that can't accommodate on this thread that have stated they are not married and can't host for a number of reasons just adds to my point
Just because they've posted that on here doesn't mean they're actually telling the truth though does it?
and it doesn't mean that it's a lie either
Exactly and that's why most people use the lack of accommodation as a cheat filter
which is wrong in my opinion people are not all the same
No but if the signs are there why would you ignore them just because says they're not? I'm all for giving giving chances but personally every time I've done that my first impression was correct, I'm sure that's the same for a lot of people on here, if tour gut says they're married they usually are
what signs? Like what exactly?
Sorry but you can't speak for other people or there experiences and the part about your gut instinct is subjective to each individual as you meet them is it not? And I'm sure you or anybody else hasn't meet every single guy that can't accommodate on this site to come to the conclusion 99% of them are married in some cases you may very well be right more than likely you are but I'm just against making up ridiculous statistics and stating them as facts that's all really don't see the big deal"
I think perhaps your taking things people have said a bit too literally, and your making a big deal of it because although not statically sound what being said is true. I can't speak for EVERYONES experiences no, but I've chatted to a lot of people that agree with whats been said |
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* handful of guys I've spoken to........ Sorry
which is the key point you haven't spoken to every single guy that can't accommodate so you can only speak about your personal experiences which is fine I have no problem with that but when people start making up statistics based on their own personal interactions with however many guys that they have spoken to and attribute those limited experiences to all of the single guys on the site that can't accommodate is just wrong in my opinion and judging the amount of singles guys that can't accommodate on this thread that have stated they are not married and can't host for a number of reasons just adds to my point
Just because they've posted that on here doesn't mean they're actually telling the truth though does it?
and it doesn't mean that it's a lie either
Exactly and that's why most people use the lack of accommodation as a cheat filter
which is wrong in my opinion people are not all the same
No but if the signs are there why would you ignore them just because says they're not? I'm all for giving giving chances but personally every time I've done that my first impression was correct, I'm sure that's the same for a lot of people on here, if tour gut says they're married they usually are
what signs? Like what exactly?
Sorry but you can't speak for other people or there experiences and the part about your gut instinct is subjective to each individual as you meet them is it not? And I'm sure you or anybody else hasn't meet every single guy that can't accommodate on this site to come to the conclusion 99% of them are married in some cases you may very well be right more than likely you are but I'm just against making up ridiculous statistics and stating them as facts that's all really don't see the big deal
I think perhaps your taking things people have said a bit too literally, and your making a big deal of it because although not statically sound what being said is true. I can't speak for EVERYONES experiences no, but I've chatted to a lot of people that agree with whats been said"
True in your opinion not mine we all have the right to have an opinion and we happen to disagree on this what's the big deal? And in my opinion speaking to alot of people is not enough to base such claim about 99% of single guys that can't accommodate but you can choose to believe that if you like entirely up to you and i respect that I choose not to believe those made up baseless statistics |
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But as I've said, your opinion on this means less than nothing, because the issue of single men being able to accommodate or not doesn't matter to you. You're not one of the many people looking to meet them and having difficulty finding one who can accommodate.
And you're arguing with people with lots of experience on this subject.
That's laughable. |
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* handful of guys I've spoken to........ Sorry
which is the key point you haven't spoken to every single guy that can't accommodate so you can only speak about your personal experiences which is fine I have no problem with that but when people start making up statistics based on their own personal interactions with however many guys that they have spoken to and attribute those limited experiences to all of the single guys on the site that can't accommodate is just wrong in my opinion and judging the amount of singles guys that can't accommodate on this thread that have stated they are not married and can't host for a number of reasons just adds to my point
Just because they've posted that on here doesn't mean they're actually telling the truth though does it?
and it doesn't mean that it's a lie either
Exactly and that's why most people use the lack of accommodation as a cheat filter
which is wrong in my opinion people are not all the same
No but if the signs are there why would you ignore them just because says they're not? I'm all for giving giving chances but personally every time I've done that my first impression was correct, I'm sure that's the same for a lot of people on here, if tour gut says they're married they usually are
what signs? Like what exactly?
Sorry but you can't speak for other people or there experiences and the part about your gut instinct is subjective to each individual as you meet them is it not? And I'm sure you or anybody else hasn't meet every single guy that can't accommodate on this site to come to the conclusion 99% of them are married in some cases you may very well be right more than likely you are but I'm just against making up ridiculous statistics and stating them as facts that's all really don't see the big deal
I think perhaps your taking things people have said a bit too literally, and your making a big deal of it because although not statically sound what being said is true. I can't speak for EVERYONES experiences no, but I've chatted to a lot of people that agree with whats been said
True in your opinion not mine we all have the right to have an opinion and we happen to disagree on this what's the big deal? And in my opinion speaking to alot of people is not enough to base such claim about 99% of single guys that can't accommodate but you can choose to believe that if you like entirely up to you and i respect that I choose not to believe those made up baseless statistics"
Ok that's fair enough, I guess yoy don't have a lot of experience with single guys really!! Maybe if you did you would understand where I'm coming from |
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"But as I've said, your opinion on this means less than nothing, because the issue of single men being able to accommodate or not doesn't matter to you. You're not one of the many people looking to meet them and having difficulty finding one who can accommodate.
This
And you're arguing with people with lots of experience on this subject.
That's laughable. "
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* handful of guys I've spoken to........ Sorry
which is the key point you haven't spoken to every single guy that can't accommodate so you can only speak about your personal experiences which is fine I have no problem with that but when people start making up statistics based on their own personal interactions with however many guys that they have spoken to and attribute those limited experiences to all of the single guys on the site that can't accommodate is just wrong in my opinion and judging the amount of singles guys that can't accommodate on this thread that have stated they are not married and can't host for a number of reasons just adds to my point
Just because they've posted that on here doesn't mean they're actually telling the truth though does it?
and it doesn't mean that it's a lie either
Exactly and that's why most people use the lack of accommodation as a cheat filter
which is wrong in my opinion people are not all the same
No but if the signs are there why would you ignore them just because says they're not? I'm all for giving giving chances but personally every time I've done that my first impression was correct, I'm sure that's the same for a lot of people on here, if tour gut says they're married they usually are
what signs? Like what exactly?
Sorry but you can't speak for other people or there experiences and the part about your gut instinct is subjective to each individual as you meet them is it not? And I'm sure you or anybody else hasn't meet every single guy that can't accommodate on this site to come to the conclusion 99% of them are married in some cases you may very well be right more than likely you are but I'm just against making up ridiculous statistics and stating them as facts that's all really don't see the big deal
I think perhaps your taking things people have said a bit too literally, and your making a big deal of it because although not statically sound what being said is true. I can't speak for EVERYONES experiences no, but I've chatted to a lot of people that agree with whats been said
True in your opinion not mine we all have the right to have an opinion and we happen to disagree on this what's the big deal? And in my opinion speaking to alot of people is not enough to base such claim about 99% of single guys that can't accommodate but you can choose to believe that if you like entirely up to you and i respect that I choose not to believe those made up baseless statistics
Ok that's fair enough, I guess yoy don't have a lot of experience with single guys really!! Maybe if you did you would understand where I'm coming from"
Ok that's fair enough and if you was a single guy who got put into a category because the actions of some other single guys who your completely different to then you would maybe understand where I'm coming from like I siad before we just have a difference of opinion no big deal |
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"But as I've said, your opinion on this means less than nothing, because the issue of single men being able to accommodate or not doesn't matter to you. You're not one of the many people looking to meet them and having difficulty finding one who can accommodate.
And you're arguing with people with lots of experience on this subject.
That's laughable. "
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* handful of guys I've spoken to........ Sorry
which is the key point you haven't spoken to every single guy that can't accommodate so you can only speak about your personal experiences which is fine I have no problem with that but when people start making up statistics based on their own personal interactions with however many guys that they have spoken to and attribute those limited experiences to all of the single guys on the site that can't accommodate is just wrong in my opinion and judging the amount of singles guys that can't accommodate on this thread that have stated they are not married and can't host for a number of reasons just adds to my point
Just because they've posted that on here doesn't mean they're actually telling the truth though does it?
and it doesn't mean that it's a lie either
Exactly and that's why most people use the lack of accommodation as a cheat filter
which is wrong in my opinion people are not all the same
No but if the signs are there why would you ignore them just because says they're not? I'm all for giving giving chances but personally every time I've done that my first impression was correct, I'm sure that's the same for a lot of people on here, if tour gut says they're married they usually are
what signs? Like what exactly?
Sorry but you can't speak for other people or there experiences and the part about your gut instinct is subjective to each individual as you meet them is it not? And I'm sure you or anybody else hasn't meet every single guy that can't accommodate on this site to come to the conclusion 99% of them are married in some cases you may very well be right more than likely you are but I'm just against making up ridiculous statistics and stating them as facts that's all really don't see the big deal
I think perhaps your taking things people have said a bit too literally, and your making a big deal of it because although not statically sound what being said is true. I can't speak for EVERYONES experiences no, but I've chatted to a lot of people that agree with whats been said
True in your opinion not mine we all have the right to have an opinion and we happen to disagree on this what's the big deal? And in my opinion speaking to alot of people is not enough to base such claim about 99% of single guys that can't accommodate but you can choose to believe that if you like entirely up to you and i respect that I choose not to believe those made up baseless statistics
Ok that's fair enough, I guess yoy don't have a lot of experience with single guys really!! Maybe if you did you would understand where I'm coming from
Ok that's fair enough and if you was a single guy who got put into a category because the actions of some other single guys who your completely different to then you would maybe understand where I'm coming from like I siad before we just have a difference of opinion no big deal "
But you can accommodate so I'm not sure what the problem is? I'm not putting you into any category!! And yes people do put me into a category but that's their choice to, I don't get upset about it! |
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* handful of guys I've spoken to........ Sorry
which is the key point you haven't spoken to every single guy that can't accommodate so you can only speak about your personal experiences which is fine I have no problem with that but when people start making up statistics based on their own personal interactions with however many guys that they have spoken to and attribute those limited experiences to all of the single guys on the site that can't accommodate is just wrong in my opinion and judging the amount of singles guys that can't accommodate on this thread that have stated they are not married and can't host for a number of reasons just adds to my point
Just because they've posted that on here doesn't mean they're actually telling the truth though does it?
and it doesn't mean that it's a lie either
Exactly and that's why most people use the lack of accommodation as a cheat filter
which is wrong in my opinion people are not all the same
No but if the signs are there why would you ignore them just because says they're not? I'm all for giving giving chances but personally every time I've done that my first impression was correct, I'm sure that's the same for a lot of people on here, if tour gut says they're married they usually are
what signs? Like what exactly?
Sorry but you can't speak for other people or there experiences and the part about your gut instinct is subjective to each individual as you meet them is it not? And I'm sure you or anybody else hasn't meet every single guy that can't accommodate on this site to come to the conclusion 99% of them are married in some cases you may very well be right more than likely you are but I'm just against making up ridiculous statistics and stating them as facts that's all really don't see the big deal
I think perhaps your taking things people have said a bit too literally, and your making a big deal of it because although not statically sound what being said is true. I can't speak for EVERYONES experiences no, but I've chatted to a lot of people that agree with whats been said
True in your opinion not mine we all have the right to have an opinion and we happen to disagree on this what's the big deal? And in my opinion speaking to alot of people is not enough to base such claim about 99% of single guys that can't accommodate but you can choose to believe that if you like entirely up to you and i respect that I choose not to believe those made up baseless statistics
Ok that's fair enough, I guess yoy don't have a lot of experience with single guys really!! Maybe if you did you would understand where I'm coming from
Ok that's fair enough and if you was a single guy who got put into a category because the actions of some other single guys who your completely different to then you would maybe understand where I'm coming from like I siad before we just have a difference of opinion no big deal
But you can accommodate so I'm not sure what the problem is? I'm not putting you into any category!! And yes people do put me into a category but that's their choice to, I don't get upset about it!"
I'm not sure what the problem is. The statement I made had no bearing on his situation at all. Perhaps I should write it again so he can read it and inwardly digest.
I think that 99% of single men on here who say they CANNOT accommodate, do so because they are married.
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* handful of guys I've spoken to........ Sorry
which is the key point you haven't spoken to every single guy that can't accommodate so you can only speak about your personal experiences which is fine I have no problem with that but when people start making up statistics based on their own personal interactions with however many guys that they have spoken to and attribute those limited experiences to all of the single guys on the site that can't accommodate is just wrong in my opinion and judging the amount of singles guys that can't accommodate on this thread that have stated they are not married and can't host for a number of reasons just adds to my point
Just because they've posted that on here doesn't mean they're actually telling the truth though does it?
and it doesn't mean that it's a lie either
Exactly and that's why most people use the lack of accommodation as a cheat filter
which is wrong in my opinion people are not all the same
No but if the signs are there why would you ignore them just because says they're not? I'm all for giving giving chances but personally every time I've done that my first impression was correct, I'm sure that's the same for a lot of people on here, if tour gut says they're married they usually are
what signs? Like what exactly?
Sorry but you can't speak for other people or there experiences and the part about your gut instinct is subjective to each individual as you meet them is it not? And I'm sure you or anybody else hasn't meet every single guy that can't accommodate on this site to come to the conclusion 99% of them are married in some cases you may very well be right more than likely you are but I'm just against making up ridiculous statistics and stating them as facts that's all really don't see the big deal
I think perhaps your taking things people have said a bit too literally, and your making a big deal of it because although not statically sound what being said is true. I can't speak for EVERYONES experiences no, but I've chatted to a lot of people that agree with whats been said
True in your opinion not mine we all have the right to have an opinion and we happen to disagree on this what's the big deal? And in my opinion speaking to alot of people is not enough to base such claim about 99% of single guys that can't accommodate but you can choose to believe that if you like entirely up to you and i respect that I choose not to believe those made up baseless statistics
Ok that's fair enough, I guess yoy don't have a lot of experience with single guys really!! Maybe if you did you would understand where I'm coming from
Ok that's fair enough and if you was a single guy who got put into a category because the actions of some other single guys who your completely different to then you would maybe understand where I'm coming from like I siad before we just have a difference of opinion no big deal
But you can accommodate so I'm not sure what the problem is? I'm not putting you into any category!! And yes people do put me into a category but that's their choice to, I don't get upset about it!"
I never said I couldn't accommodate the problem(if you wanna call it that) started when somebody stated 99% of guy who can accommodate are married and I as well as others questioned what those statistics were based on, I never said you was putting me in any category at all |
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* handful of guys I've spoken to........ Sorry
which is the key point you haven't spoken to every single guy that can't accommodate so you can only speak about your personal experiences which is fine I have no problem with that but when people start making up statistics based on their own personal interactions with however many guys that they have spoken to and attribute those limited experiences to all of the single guys on the site that can't accommodate is just wrong in my opinion and judging the amount of singles guys that can't accommodate on this thread that have stated they are not married and can't host for a number of reasons just adds to my point
Just because they've posted that on here doesn't mean they're actually telling the truth though does it?
and it doesn't mean that it's a lie either
Exactly and that's why most people use the lack of accommodation as a cheat filter
which is wrong in my opinion people are not all the same
No but if the signs are there why would you ignore them just because says they're not? I'm all for giving giving chances but personally every time I've done that my first impression was correct, I'm sure that's the same for a lot of people on here, if tour gut says they're married they usually are
what signs? Like what exactly?
Sorry but you can't speak for other people or there experiences and the part about your gut instinct is subjective to each individual as you meet them is it not? And I'm sure you or anybody else hasn't meet every single guy that can't accommodate on this site to come to the conclusion 99% of them are married in some cases you may very well be right more than likely you are but I'm just against making up ridiculous statistics and stating them as facts that's all really don't see the big deal
I think perhaps your taking things people have said a bit too literally, and your making a big deal of it because although not statically sound what being said is true. I can't speak for EVERYONES experiences no, but I've chatted to a lot of people that agree with whats been said
True in your opinion not mine we all have the right to have an opinion and we happen to disagree on this what's the big deal? And in my opinion speaking to alot of people is not enough to base such claim about 99% of single guys that can't accommodate but you can choose to believe that if you like entirely up to you and i respect that I choose not to believe those made up baseless statistics
Ok that's fair enough, I guess yoy don't have a lot of experience with single guys really!! Maybe if you did you would understand where I'm coming from
Ok that's fair enough and if you was a single guy who got put into a category because the actions of some other single guys who your completely different to then you would maybe understand where I'm coming from like I siad before we just have a difference of opinion no big deal
But you can accommodate so I'm not sure what the problem is? I'm not putting you into any category!! And yes people do put me into a category but that's their choice to, I don't get upset about it!
I'm not sure what the problem is. The statement I made had no bearing on his situation at all. Perhaps I should write it again so he can read it and inwardly digest.
I think that 99% of single men on here who say they CANNOT accommodate, do so because they are married.
If you can accommodate, go nuts. You're not included in this. Unless you're not telling the whole truth yourself?"
and I think your wrong stating baseless statistics as facts I AM ALOUD TO HAVE AN OPINION regardless if you like it or not |
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"So finally, a this has been because you can't read!
Thats not what he or I said. Read my last post."
errr yeah can't read and been reading and reply makes so much sense doesn't it so foolish! don't start getting personal because I don't agree with your baseless statistics |
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Sigh....yes you are allowed an opinion dear. Trouble is, as I stated above, your opinion is worthless as you've no experience of trying to find men who can accomodate. Just saying my opinion is crap isn't an argument. Particularly when you've nothing to back it up. And clearly you misread the original post that annoyed you and are now having a tizzy fit about it.
That's all from me. You're not worth the time anymore. |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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"Sigh....yes you are allowed an opinion dear. Trouble is, as I stated above, your opinion is worthless as you've no experience of trying to find men who can accomodate. Just saying my opinion is crap isn't an argument. Particularly when you've nothing to back it up. And clearly you misread the original post that annoyed you and are now having a tizzy fit about it.
That's all from me. You're not worth the time anymore. "
Ok can you two drop it now please. Thanks. |
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"Thanks guys.
I'm abit put off with doing a gang bang at a club as I guess you cant choose who is there. Or the number of guys there. "
You could always choose a few guys then go into a private room xx |
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"But as I've said, I don't just get contacted by guys looking to meet TV's. I get the closet cases too, and there's rather a lot of them. Plus a lot of the guys who say they can accommodate on their profile, when you push them on that subject will then come clean and say "yes I can sometimes when the wife is out". Which is usually daytimes only.
I'm sorry, but I'll stand by my assertation that 99% of guys who cannot accommodate (and some who can) are married. And on the balance of probability due to the fact that I've contact with a wide variety of the guys in question, it's more likely I'm right. "
..so what you are saying is only 1% of men are straight on this site and the other 99% are either in the closet or out......and all 100% of men have contacted you off this site and that's how you have come up with your conclusion?????
Personally I find your assumption that 99% of men who don't accommodate are married totally ridiculous.... When really what you should of put 99% of men who contact you are married ......simples ....I'm now starting to think I should not believe any surveys I see carried out incase they were carried out by someone with your mentality  |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"There are quite a few ready made groups out there. Generally the guys know each other and have played together before, so you know it's not going to get awkward. I'm not sure how you go about finding them though, they usually contact me.
I would be wary of anyone who claims they can organise a GB for you from scratch, they may not deliver, or may not understand your requirements etc. But doing it yourself could be equally frustrating.
Clubs/parties could be a good solution.
Disagree we have used organised groups and all my priorities and preferences have been taken into account.... Not been disappointed yet x"
This
If you do a search for MM couples you should find some. |
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"But as I've said, I don't just get contacted by guys looking to meet TV's. I get the closet cases too, and there's rather a lot of them. Plus a lot of the guys who say they can accommodate on their profile, when you push them on that subject will then come clean and say "yes I can sometimes when the wife is out". Which is usually daytimes only.
I'm sorry, but I'll stand by my assertation that 99% of guys who cannot accommodate (and some who can) are married. And on the balance of probability due to the fact that I've contact with a wide variety of the guys in question, it's more likely I'm right.
..so what you are saying is only 1% of men are straight on this site and the other 99% are either in the closet or out......and all 100% of men have contacted you off this site and that's how you have come up with your conclusion?????
Personally I find your assumption that 99% of men who don't accommodate are married totally ridiculous.... When really what you should of put 99% of men who contact you are married ......simples ....I'm now starting to think I should not believe any surveys I see carried out incase they were carried out by someone with your mentality "
I rest my case
Now I will never post on this again and would like to take this opportunity to apologise to the OP for taking over your thread hope you have found the answer or advice you was looking for happy swinging people! |
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