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over a year ago
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I went to a couple of clubs with friends then went on my own. I was nervous but figured it was just like going to a pub on my own. Just chat to people and wander around a bit.
I understand it will be harder for single guys than women though. |
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I first went to a club with a couple I had met at a social as they invited me along. I was a bit nervous, wortied about seeing someone I knew from the vanilla world and not sure what to expect, not helped by the woman from the couple being tied to a cross and 'tortured' with ice the minute she walked in!!! (It was her birthday, so she knew it was coming lol).
After that the couple dragged me off to join them and I loved it.
I went back loads of times on my own and got to know the regulars and became quite sucessful there 
Go for it! Just be patient and confident and avoid being pushy and you should do okay |
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Don't think I'd be brave enough to go to a club totally on my own, would like to meet someone there.
Would do kestrels on my own but that's a different set up. |
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" I understand it will be harder for single guys than women though.
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Yes it is! Nerve racking it is, just sit back observe, mingle a bit, and slowly you will gain confidence. But always remember you need to respect and not cross lines!
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"Do you feel comfortable going to a club on your own? Been to Adam & Eves with a lady friend,really fancy a Sunday afternoon session, but can't seem to pluck up the courage"
I do yes |
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I've never been to a club before but am off to Mingles next Thursday on my own. Nervous, but am always nervous before a meet anyway. It's part of the attraction for me!
Oh and if anyone reading this sees me at Mingles next week, come and say Hi! |
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