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"I wouldn't care what sex they were, I would be more interested in finding out the diagnosis. Go to the docs, there is nothing to be embarrassed about, they have seen it all before. Good luck" Absolutely! You can ask for a chaperone and have a female nurse in with you during the examination if you are feeling a bit unsure. Don't ignore lumps, it's not worth risking your health because of embarrassment. | |||
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"LADIES IF U FOUND A UN WANTED LUMP IN INTIMATE AREA ,,WUD U WANT A FEMALE DOCTOR 2 EXAMINE U ,OR MALE DOCTOR ,,THIS ISNT A JOKE IN ANY WAY ,,SO SERIOUS REPLYS PLEASE ,,THANX IN ADVANCE [FEM] "Any doc! If it's unwanted I wouldn't care if it was a medically trained chimp. | |||
"HAVE BEEn n seen my own doctor she sent request 2 oncology n they say ive got 2 c male doctor ,,n they dnt do chaperone either ,,," I don't think they can refuse to let you have someone in with you. | |||
"HAVE BEEn n seen my own doctor she sent request 2 oncology n they say ive got 2 c male doctor ,,n they dnt do chaperone either ,,," Take a friend in with you if you're concerned. Is it the specialist who's male? | |||
"HAVE BEEn n seen my own doctor she sent request 2 oncology n they say ive got 2 c male doctor ,,n they dnt do chaperone either ,,," Is there more than one hospital in your area ? if so, ask if there are female consultants in oncology in a another hospital. Then ask to be referred to that hospital. You have choices now in where you are treated. | |||
"HAVE BEEn n seen my own doctor she sent request 2 oncology n they say ive got 2 c male doctor ,,n they dnt do chaperone either ,,," It's normally a male consultant with female nurses, or take a good friend with you. | |||
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"HAVE BEEn n seen my own doctor she sent request 2 oncology n they say ive got 2 c male doctor ,,n they dnt do chaperone either ,,," You have the right to ask for a chaperone and they're obliged to provide one,no male Dr that I know would examine a female without asking for a chaperone or asking if you want one I hope it all turns out ok x | |||
"I have massive panic attacks wen out of my comfort zone ,,wich make me black out after being attacked ,,,,its hard 2 explain ...." You don't need to explain, it's understandable. Do you feel able to tell the hospital this? | |||
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"consultant oncologist is male ,,,nurse rang me today n I tried 2 explain things 2 her ,,,,in her kind sweet way she basicly sed I was being vry silly n they cant always garuntee sum 1 wud b available 2 go in with me ,,,thank u all 4 ur sincere kindness n best wishes ,,vry much appreciated ,,,," Can't your partner go with you? Mom? Friend? If I lived nearer I would come with you x | |||
"HAVE BEEn n seen my own doctor she sent request 2 oncology n they say ive got 2 c male doctor ,,n they dnt do chaperone either ,,, It's normally a male consultant with female nurses, or take a good friend with you. " I'm sure there are plenty of female Consultants too x | |||
"consultant oncologist is male ,,,nurse rang me today n I tried 2 explain things 2 her ,,,,in her kind sweet way she basicly sed I was being vry silly n they cant always garuntee sum 1 wud b available 2 go in with me ,,,thank u all 4 ur sincere kindness n best wishes ,,vry much appreciated ,,,," Strange....seen a few docs lately and there's always a female nurse present. .. Insist upon it xx | |||
"consultant oncologist is male ,,,nurse rang me today n I tried 2 explain things 2 her ,,,,in her kind sweet way she basicly sed I was being vry silly n they cant always garuntee sum 1 wud b available 2 go in with me ,,,thank u all 4 ur sincere kindness n best wishes ,,vry much appreciated ,,,," Well you know you're not being silly and we know you're not being silly. Good luck | |||
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"consultant oncologist is male ,,,nurse rang me today n I tried 2 explain things 2 her ,,,,in her kind sweet way she basicly sed I was being vry silly n they cant always garuntee sum 1 wud b available 2 go in with me ,,,thank u all 4 ur sincere kindness n best wishes ,,vry much appreciated ,,,," Speak to your hospitals patient advice liason service about this because you are entitled to have a chaperone,that nurse is very wrong to tell you you're being silly | |||
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"thank u ,,my familylive to far away ,,n my real best friend passed away ,,,my partner is takin time off work 2 look after my dogs,, since being attacked I take my dogs everywhere with me ,,,," Are your dogs not able to be left alone for a few hours while your partner goes with you? Do you have a good neighbour who you could take? As honeypot suggested, contact PALS and explain the situation to them. Do they have a female vicar,hospitals always have a chaplain on site xxx | |||
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"consultant oncologist is male ,,,nurse rang me today n I tried 2 explain things 2 her ,,,,in her kind sweet way she basicly sed I was being vry silly n they cant always garuntee sum 1 wud b available 2 go in with me ,,,thank u all 4 ur sincere kindness n best wishes ,,vry much appreciated ,,,," You're not being silly & I am sure somewhere in the building they can find a female to chaperone you. Be firm but calm in your approach. good luck xx | |||
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"It's normally a male consultant with female nurses " That's a big sweeping generalisation! Anywho - take a friend with you. If you've been given an appointment already I'd advise sticking with it and taking a "safe person" with you if you're unsure. A re-referral to somewhere with a female consultant would take more time on top, whereas it sounds like you're near enough ready to be seen through this referral. Being seen in a timely manner is important for these issues. Good luck. X | |||
"HAVE BEEn n seen my own doctor she sent request 2 oncology n they say ive got 2 c male doctor ,,n they dnt do chaperone either ,,," they have to chaperone.. All male doctors that are examining you intimately have to.. Code of ethics.. If they don't, its within your right to refuse...  | |||
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"LADIES IF U FOUND A UN WANTED LUMP IN INTIMATE AREA ,,WUD U WANT A FEMALE DOCTOR 2 EXAMINE U ,OR MALE DOCTOR ,,THIS ISNT A JOKE IN ANY WAY ,,SO SERIOUS REPLYS PLEASE ,,THANX IN ADVANCE [FEM] "The most qualified person no matter what gender for me. | |||
