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To stay or not to stay!!! this is a question

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi all

I've read loads of of posts on the forum and I'm reaching a dilemma in my short fab life so far .

To stay or go !!!

I've wrote some epic messages to single women and couples ,not Dan Brown material but well worded, well punctuated and spelt correctly and no text speak what so ever, I do know that is a big thing on here that you should write in English as we were taught at school.

It's not as though I've not chatted to a few people and I'm not at all pushy I'm a very confident chap comes from my past as a rugby player.

So I ask you all is it worth staying or go and forever wonder what if !!!

Your comments would be appreciated as well as your sarcasm !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You have Been on for 8 weeks and have two verifications more than some who been on 8 months !

Swinging is about socialising as much as anythibg else , try giving that a go

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By *rsIdiotWoman over a year ago

Bedworth

Only you can make that decision........ But, you're not doing too badly. Two meet verifications and only been here 8 weeks, most guys on here would give their right arm for that kind of success

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi all

I've read loads of of posts on the forum and I'm reaching a dilemma in my short fab life so far .

To stay or go !!!

It's not as though I've not chatted to a few people and I'm not at all pushy I'm a very confident chap comes from my past as a rugby player.

So I ask you all is it worth staying or go and forever wonder what if !!!

Your comments would be appreciated as well as your sarcasm !! "

Joines 8 weeks ago and youve had 2 verified meets in 4 weeks

.....Yes definately time to go

Or at least do a Dr Who and come back as someone else.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your not doing so bad for the time you have been here, some guys have been on here a year without a meet.

The thing is this do you see yourself as a swinger or a fabber?

What do I mean?

Internet swinging is one part of the scene, along with parties, socials and clubs.

Many people who worry they are not doing so well tend to be the ones that only network on fab and don't utilise the real world environment.

Some of the people in our friends lists would never have met us and didn't know we were on fab until we met at a club or party (we haven't done a social yet as our area is dry of them).

Swinging is about networking and it did very well before the internet and will continue to do well with or without it.

Just a few thoughts there.

Happy swinging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm a big believer in networking and I take on board about the social side of swinging, and maybe I need to broaden my horizon a bit more and search a bit further than 20 miles from me .

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By *rixieswTV/TS over a year ago

S.Westerly

I cannot believe that you have not enjoyed lots of sexy meets!

Are the Ladies and Couples on here blind?

Stay would be my advice and maybe approach those that appreciate a man in fine physical form. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe a few public pics to back ip what you say on your profile. You have had meets in a relatively short period of time so maybe it's your expectations of this site that need looking at.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I cannot believe that you have not enjoyed lots of sexy meets!

Are the Ladies and Couples on here blind?

Stay would be my advice and maybe approach those that appreciate a man in fine physical form. x"

Ha ha thank you I'm trying my best to get into better shape as my profile states ,but you have to remember that it's not just about form on here I think you have to have character to ,plus a whole load of other things to meet the criteria of women and couples

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Really not sure why your asking, you've been on site for 8 weeks and you have had 2 meets! So what's the problem?

As to whether to stay or go that's your choice

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By *ombshellWoman over a year ago

islington

not another shall i stay or shall i go thread!

if your going ...go! if your staying... stay ! simples.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi all

I've read loads of of posts on the forum and I'm reaching a dilemma in my short fab life so far .

To stay or go !!!

It's not as though I've not chatted to a few people and I'm not at all pushy I'm a very confident chap comes from my past as a rugby player.

So I ask you all is it worth staying or go and forever wonder what if !!!

Your comments would be appreciated as well as your sarcasm !! "

Pondered myself lately.

Ask yourself if you've had a good time, had a lot of meets etc... If you have, then... Why leave? :P

I've been getting a lot of good conversations, and such - then suspected meets, but silence afterwards. That's my reasons for considering to move on, but .. that's just me ; )

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Please don't think I'm whining in any way it's just a bit of advice from the more experienced people on here you all at sometimes have been in a similar position as me and if you didn't your lying to your self

As big and tough as I am I have faced some seriously big fellas who wanted to destroy me and to say I didn't feel fear was a understatement I just couldn't show it , on here I'm just trying to fit in

Putting a face pic is a bit of a no no ,for me my career is to important how would I deal with knowing somebody it could affect my work , this is the reason I have this dilemma

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Please don't think I'm whining in any way it's just a bit of advice from the more experienced people on here you all at sometimes have been in a similar position as me and if you didn't your lying to your self

As big and tough as I am I have faced some seriously big fellas who wanted to destroy me and to say I didn't feel fear was a understatement I just couldn't show it , on here I'm just trying to fit in

Putting a face pic is a bit of a no no ,for me my career is to important how would I deal with knowing somebody it could affect my work , this is the reason I have this dilemma "

Well. Fab does allow a certain degree of anonymity but only if your profile allows / is set up to not show your face, other things etc.

Perhaps stay but only meet people a little way out?

I've never had any recognitions outside from Fab thus far, but .. maybe I've been lucky?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How much sex were you expecting from being here? Even if you only meet a couple of times a year and it's amazing sex,isn't that worth it? Or do you think you are putting in too many hours when you could be making better use of your time?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you've had to resort to tedious bleeding heart look-at-me threads because you feel you should be getting more than you are, then yes it's time to go.

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By *renchbambi xWoman over a year ago

Need to know basis

I would have to perve your pics before i can advise you...Sit down, release a few sexy shots of the rugby build of yours in public and I'll see what i can do for you....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Still not sure what your asking advice about?

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By *obbytupperMan over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"If you've had to resort to tedious bleeding heart look-at-me threads because you feel you should be getting more than you are, then yes it's time to go. "

In a nutshell

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Now now I expected some negative comments is there really any need for it I'm just asking for advice that's all !!!

I didn't write this for people to view my profile I'm not that crass

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Now now I expected some negative comments is there really any need for it I'm just asking for advice that's all !!!

I didn't write this for people to view my profile I'm not that crass "

Well we have viewed and as was mentioned above we need some hot bod pics to perv....errr I mean look over before we can truly make a comment as to whether you should stay

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Id stay..just have a more realistic view of what you can expect from here.

And I reckon you should have more pics available..just muscular thighs and gluts need to be seen! Of course feel free to show them privately...

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