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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi, new to the site and finding it rather difficult to get any replies, responses, from anybody.
I'm attracted to older women, appreciate it's not everybody's thing.
I'm a totally reliable, respectful person but must be going wrong somewhere.
Any help/advice would be much appreciated..."
Advice I love giving advice about dating not swinging as I presume this guy is after a long term relationship as at 30 it's easy to get casual sex if you don't smell or have a severe personality disorder in real life
I noted that you were 30 and you were after women older than you , how much older is the question.
your 30 why waste your time online, juggling with the 1,000s and 1,0000s of other single guys. Get a mate and go to town a pub, club etc you get one to one interaction, the girl has all your attention, can see you none of this messaging back and forth looking to see what you like whilst competing with the other guys messaging her .
The mix of girls online compared to the mix in a pub is totally different . The background is different , women in town do not have 100 people in a queue trying to chat them up and do not have a few guys chatting to them at one time and pick the best one.
If you can't pull a girl in real life who is out happy having fun , with none of the stress of kids and work . At least you know that the time may be right. What can go wrong on a night out , we'll you have never seen a woman punching a guy for talking to her
What can go wrong when you message a girl on the net , she is at work had deleted message because boss came in. Her kids threw a tantrum , and had 200 messages since yours and deleted it .
Women like confident guys who they generally know is too good for them , men always go for the easy option . Work it out for yourself where you have the most competiton
I always chat up 25 to 35 year olds when single and if online would go for 30 to 40 year olds.i am a womanizer and always have been .
I always go for the better looking slimmer and we'll dressed girl , and yes I am a shallow and go for looks rather than personality
If the reason you look online is because you are shy approaching women practice on shop assistants they have to be polite to you they get paid for it have a flirt and tease , if you can get them to laugh or try to hit you jokingly ,
The moral is even if you can arrange a meet online it won't go far if you can't interact offline . If you have not got the skills to sleep with a girl from real life chances are you won't do it here as I have just pointed out the competition is way much higher .
I am right in my single days I used to date etc women from real life, dating sites and here . My highest success rate was real life , followed by dating sites , then here, which was 0
Good luck let us know how you get on . I have given some advice on how to behave on dates , have look at my previous dates for some expert advice that works |
now confused. But I think I agree x
