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"No chance of that. But thanks anyway"
That's what I thought till I sucked a guys cock.
Seriously though, you've had meets so just keep doing what you have been doing. Join in on the forum lounge and swingers bit more and get the ladies to see your photos.  |
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It's the ratio of 1 woman to every 200 men mate don't worry about it , plus must be 50% of profile are dreamers 30% are fake so that leaves you with 20% and 10% them are nutters , so your chasing 10% good luck dude lol
Yes I'm a mathematician and next week I will be posted the lotto numbers lol .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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80% of men in here are rude, some have a couple profile while they are on their own which kills the trust. This is a big jungle you need to be courteous and people are not animals even if we all want some fun still we need a bit of charm. The libertine world is art of fun and delicate pleasure not a jungle like in here  that's why it is different in Germany, France and Spain.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's the ratio of 1 woman to every 200 men mate don't worry about it , plus must be 50% of profile are dreamers 30% are fake so that leaves you with 20% and 10% them are nutters , so your chasing 10% good luck dude lol
Yes I'm a mathematician and next week I will be posted the lotto numbers lol .
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And 72% of all statistics are made up.   Do you have any basis for those figures or have they just been picked at random? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's the ratio of 1 woman to every 200 men mate don't worry about it , plus must be 50% of profile are dreamers 30% are fake so that leaves you with 20% and 10% them are nutters , so your chasing 10% good luck dude lol
Yes I'm a mathematician and next week I will be posted the lotto numbers lol .
And 72% of all statistics are made up. Do you have any basis for those figures or have they just been picked at random?"
I love it when people bemoan their lack of success here and blame it on a fictional 100:1 ratio (when its more like 10:1) rather than look at how crap their profile and choices are.
OP, you've been on a few weeks and have 4 veris. Did you think you'd be fighting them off with a shitty stick every day? Lower your expectations as you're doing better than most. |
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"OP, if you click on 'reply and quote' we can all tell who you are replying to  "
Although in a nice long thread, if you don't, you can get away with saying stuff like 'what a stupid and WRONG opinion' and no one will know who youre referring to haha!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd agree that the name you've chosen doesn't help hun! I see a lovely black guy regularly - but i'd be disgusted if someone implied that it was because he's a 'bbc' - he's simply a lovely man!!
The 'nsa' bit is what most of us are obviously looking for too - but to spell it out in your name may give the impression that you're only interested in as many one-off's as possible?
That said - you've a good body - you can string a sentence together - and most guys on here can only dream of four meets in two months!
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"Its down to luck usually cos the ratio is 100 men to 1 woman or so."
its down to what you put into it, if you are just going to sit and send messages on a website and hope for the best, then yes you will need a bit of luck, if you want to put some effort in and get out to clubs and socials, get yourself known, you can make your own luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its down to luck usually cos the ratio is 100 men to 1 woman or so.
its down to what you put into it, if you are just going to sit and send messages on a website and hope for the best, then yes you will need a bit of luck, if you want to put some effort in and get out to clubs and socials, get yourself known, you can make your own luck."
YEs that's right. Personally I hardly email at all. I mostly use the forum, more fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'am always nice and polite. But finding it really hard to get meets. Why?"
You only 5 public pics are various angles of your cock?
Ever notice that porn mags for both men an women are not just high res close ups of flaps an cocks?
People tend to like to look at the body much more than the gonads |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'am always nice and polite. But finding it really hard to get meets. Why?
You only 5 public pics are various angles of your cock?
Ever notice that porn mags for both men an women are not just high res close ups of flaps an cocks?
People tend to like to look at the body much more than the gonads"
and action shot! *vom!* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile suggests little about what you bring to the table. Just that you want people for NSA and maybe an FF. Not good enough on here when there are many men to choose from. I do wonder where people get their statistics though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Too many cock pics for me, is that all you have to offer or is there more to you than that? I can't speak for all women obviously, but many are more interested in what the cock is attached to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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whinhing isnt going to help either...we keep saying!! You are trying to get a free fuck with someone else's girlfriend/wife/fuckbuddy!!! put a bit more effort into your profile....or try the bbfc meets and try and find your own...and seems strange you can accommodate single females but NOT couples...would ring alarm bells with a lot of folk on here...and agree with all the other posts..You arnt the only single guy on here and people are becoming more choosy..Its as difficult for couples too..This isnt a free fuck site!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think maybe your expectations of this site are unrealistic. You have had meets in a relatively short timeframe and you are expecting to meet a FF couple. They are the rarest breed on here. I think you have 0.1% of being successful but I maybe over exaggerating. Cock shots, user name and action pics all a massive turn off for me. |
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By *r jbl OP Man
over a year ago
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"I think maybe your expectations of this site are unrealistic. You have had meets in a relatively short timeframe and you are expecting to meet a FF couple. They are the rarest breed on here. I think you have 0.1% of being successful but I maybe over exaggerating. Cock shots, user name and action pics all a massive turn off for me."
Thanks I will take that on board   |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Wait a second, the OP is struggling to get meets when he's had FOUR over the last two months? What the....... "
............. which would lead me to ask what the OP thought the expectations would be? because I could think of a lot of single guys thinking "what the hell is he complaining about!"
the unrealistic expectations vs the realities of swinging..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wait a second, the OP is struggling to get meets when he's had FOUR over the last two months? What the.......
............. which would lead me to ask what the OP thought the expectations would be? because I could think of a lot of single guys thinking "what the hell is he complaining about!"
the unrealistic expectations vs the realities of swinging....."
Again wise words |
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