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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all, we're on here to hopefully try out all the varities of swinging available. One in particular is a fantasy of ours. A single bi female to play with both of us.
Just wondering what are the chances of finding this as they seem very elusive so far.
Any couples got views, opinions on this? |
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"Hi all, we're on here to hopefully try out all the varities of swinging available. One in particular is a fantasy of ours. A single bi female to play with both of us.
Just wondering what are the chances of finding this as they seem very elusive so far.
Any couples got views, opinions on this?"
Our only ffms have been in vanilla land, there are plenty out there |
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Your profile makes no mention of a single bi female.
It might be worthwhile adding what you are looking for from a sbf and what you can offer her should she choose you from the 1000's of others looking for her. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your profile makes no mention of a single bi female.
It might be worthwhile adding what you are looking for from a sbf and what you can offer her should she choose you from the 1000's of others looking for her. "
we mention that she is bi cur x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi all, we're on here to hopefully try out all the varities of swinging available. One in particular is a fantasy of ours. A single bi female to play with both of us.
Just wondering what are the chances of finding this as they seem very elusive so far.
Any couples got views, opinions on this?
Our only ffms have been in vanilla land, there are plenty out there"
what is vanilla land? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not impossible to meet single bi-fems on here but there are countless threads on here testifying how difficult it is. We have had several FFMs but non as a direct result of this site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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to be honest most single women prefer to know that the female half of the couple is thoroughly bisexual and not doing it to please a boyfriend or test themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's not impossible to meet single bi-fems on here but there are countless threads on here testifying how difficult it is. We have had several FFMs but non as a direct result of this site. "
how do you meet women then?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"to be honest most single women prefer to know that the female half of the couple is thoroughly bisexual and not doing it to please a boyfriend or test themselves."
we state she's had some experience as a teenager and she wants to please herself lol hence why we're looking for men aswell.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not impossible to meet single bi-fems on here but there are countless threads on here testifying how difficult it is. We have had several FFMs but non as a direct result of this site. how do you meet women then?"
The real world we go to clubs and social events oh and then there's private parties. You will find single ladies at those places.
Please do not sit in cyber land and get frustrated as many other people do. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's not impossible to meet single bi-fems on here but there are countless threads on here testifying how difficult it is. We have had several FFMs but non as a direct result of this site. how do you meet women then?
The real world we go to clubs and social events oh and then there's private parties. You will find single ladies at those places.
Please do not sit in cyber land and get frustrated as many other people do."
we're not ready for clubs yet, maybe in the future? |
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"It's not impossible to meet single bi-fems on here but there are countless threads on here testifying how difficult it is. We have had several FFMs but non as a direct result of this site. how do you meet women then?
The real world we go to clubs and social events oh and then there's private parties. You will find single ladies at those places.
Please do not sit in cyber land and get frustrated as many other people do. we're not ready for clubs yet, maybe in the future?"
Clubs are far better than virtual land.
and you don't do anything you don't want to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not impossible to meet single bi-fems on here but there are countless threads on here testifying how difficult it is. We have had several FFMs but non as a direct result of this site. how do you meet women then?"
In the real world. Most of our FFMs have been people we've initially met on the Fet scene at socials. People that have met us and can see our dynamic are far more receptive than strangers online |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we meet single fems - we look at profiles and chat with them - see if we click at all - have us girlie chat on the phone - social meet first if needed and then play meet - if youre lucky you get at least one you see a few times  |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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It's not impossible to meet bi fems here by any means...we've had a couple of amazing FFMs through Fab, and have had opportunities for more but chose not to...but that is in three years of being on the site, pretty much, so be prepared to be patient.
Very, very patient.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not impossible to meet single bi females we have been lucky enough to have met a few.
Your profile has no mention of wanting to meet single ladies!
It does take time so don't expect to meet a single lady over night!
It's much easier to meet at clubs and at socials |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not impossible to meet single bi-fems on here but there are countless threads on here testifying how difficult it is. We have had several FFMs but non as a direct result of this site. "
99.9% of my f/f fun has been off site and not from Fab ... Best place to have f/f fun is in a club where you can (if lucky) have a f/f/f/f hmmm  Angel |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive met a few couples and had a great time but the problem is I find its mostly the men that chat and want to meet. I suspect a lot of women in couples say they want ffm but won't go through with it. Therefore I've been let down several times so I don't really put much effort in to meet couples now.
Maybe it's a question of insecurity or not wanting to share their man?  |
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hello peeps (waves) i see no single ladies have replied as yet ,you only have to read some of the threads to see that some bi girls not meet cpls as they get the male wanting to meet them alone its happened to me ,also i got contacted by a couple we arranged a meet then suddenly not hear anything so then wonder if it was just the guy that wants to meet and the lady doesnt ,good luck hope you find what your looking for  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't try to hard. It can become frustrating. Just chat and enjoy the site, if they are interested, they will let you know. The hard part is finding a lady attracted to you both. They are definately out there! |
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"Ive met a few couples and had a great time but the problem is I find its mostly the men that chat and want to meet. I suspect a lot of women in couples say they want ffm but won't go through with it. Therefore I've been let down several times so I don't really put much effort in to meet couples now.
Maybe it's a question of insecurity or not wanting to share their man? "
oops quoted then on wrong bit so not just me finds its like this then x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we meet single fems - we look at profiles and chat with them - see if we click at all - have us girlie chat on the phone - social meet first if needed and then play meet - if youre lucky you get at least one you see a few times "
Us too no prob |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The advice given to go to socials and clubs is very good advice. I think your chances of finding that elusive bi fem on here are very slim if you don't.
Your profile says nothing about what the woman would get out of meeting you. It seems to have been written from only a male perspective. Also the partner being bi curious would put some off. Plenty of bi fem couples to chose from on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"hello peeps (waves) i see no single ladies have replied as yet ,you only have to read some of the threads to see that some bi girls not meet cpls as they get the male wanting to meet them alone its happened to me ,also i got contacted by a couple we arranged a meet then suddenly not hear anything so then wonder if it was just the guy that wants to meet and the lady doesnt ,good luck hope you find what your looking for "
yep, been there!
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I'll flip it round, I'm a bi fem that looks for couples, but those that meet MY critea are very few and far between.
Way too many couples want their fantasy fulfilled, not thinking about what's wanted by the female they are looking for
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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"I'll flip it round, I'm a bi fem that looks for couples, but those that meet MY critea are very few and far between.
Way too many couples want their fantasy fulfilled, not thinking about what's wanted by the female they are looking for
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I do, and have met couples, but I'd pass you by. Your profile doesn't actually sell a great experience for anyone meeting you.
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