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Real or Fake

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

After a week of chatting to a couple and swapping face pics and countless messages then even a phone chat we decided to organise a meeting for last night (sat), then when we were virtually outside their door they rang us to tell us a family member has turned up without notice and they are sorry to have to cancel.

Ok we understand their concern for discretion as well as ours but then they have gone and deleted us from their friend list and even blocked us .

Now we feel as though we have done something wrong .

FAKE OR REAL ????

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

who cares? they have blocked you, is it really worth worrying about?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im guessing they are very much real.. just lost their bottle last minute.

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By *a-ra-ra-boom-de-ayCouple over a year ago

Wish it was the Algarve! Aberdeenshire

"After a week of chatting to a couple and swapping face pics and countless messages then even a phone chat we decided to organise a meeting for last night (sat), then when we were virtually outside their door they rang us to tell us a family member has turned up without notice and they are sorry to have to cancel.

Ok we understand their concern for discretion as well as ours but then they have gone and deleted us from their friend list and even blocked us .

Now we feel as though we have done something wrong .

FAKE OR REAL ????"

Real people yes. But did they get cold feet? How long had they been swinging for? Did they have veries? Some questions sometimes cant be answered. Sorry that they wasted your time and hopefully you will meet a geniune couple in the future

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Probably real but bottled it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Who knows, chalk it up to experience and don't worry too much about it.

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By *andJ2227Couple over a year ago

Swadlincote

I'd be curious to know why too but I doubt you'll get any answers. I'm guessing they panicked and cancelled due to nerves. Better luck next time x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did you go off on one when they cancelled the meet so late in the day? Perhaps that's why they blocked you,or as others said,they lost their bottle.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

Why would you have done something wrong?

There are loads of reasons they could have cancelled but you'll never know I'm afraid.

It must have been very disappointing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Im guessing they are very much real.. just lost their bottle last minute. "

Not sure if they did bottle it because in our messages they said that she met single men alone with his permission which would take some bottle more than meeting a couple at their home .

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Did you go off on one when they cancelled the meet so late in the day? Perhaps that's why they blocked you,or as others said,they lost their bottle."

No we didn't we were very understanding and even said there's always another time and then we get blocked ????

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok we understand their concern for discretion as well as ours but then they have gone and deleted us from their friend list and even blocked us .

Now we feel as though we have done something wrong .

FAKE OR REAL ????

They had been swinging for over a year and had very good verifications thats the reason we chose to chat and meet ..

Just so strange as they had met couples before

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They changed their minds , don't sweat it. If you're happy with what you've done you've nothing to worry about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As the couple are members of this site do you think it's fair to discuss whether they are real or not in an open forum?

Perhaps they were telling the truth and a family member did turn up! As to why they unfriended you and blocked you, who knows!

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