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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey im a younger guy, i find it hard to meet or even chat on here, is it because of a bad rep due to other young immature 'dickheads' tortureing others ? Any tips   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yea man where u from ? Over in belfast there isnt as many people about just gay men tormenting me no matter how many times you tell them its not your thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair in our experience most younger guys have been the more respectful ones and can hold a great conversation even when told they are too young still happy to chat x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yea man where u from ? Over in belfast there isnt as many people about just gay men tormenting me no matter how many times you tell them its not your thing "
I'd say a negative attitude would put people off even before they look at your age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yea man where u from ? Over in belfast there isnt as many people about just gay men tormenting me no matter how many times you tell them its not your thing
I'd say a negative attitude would put people off even before they look at your age."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey im a younger guy, i find it hard to meet or even chat on here, is it because of a bad rep due to other young immature 'dickheads' tortureing others ? Any tips "
Try not castigating others calling them dickheads its a bit immature.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey im a younger guy, i find it hard to meet or even chat on here, is it because of a bad rep due to other young immature 'dickheads' tortureing others ? Any tips
Try not castigating others calling them dickheads its a bit immature. "
but tbf he has got a point lol x |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Hey im a younger guy, i find it hard to meet or even chat on here, is it because of a bad rep due to other young immature 'dickheads' tortureing others ? Any tips "
nope.... thats too easy a kop out... blame everyone else for my woes...
its on you
you dictate how you come across... be that in messages, at socials, in your profile and a million other things...
you!!!!!!
you know you... so sell you!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey im a younger guy, i find it hard to meet or even chat on here, is it because of a bad rep due to other young immature 'dickheads' tortureing others ? Any tips
nope.... thats too easy a kop out... blame everyone else for my woes...
its on you
you dictate how you come across... be that in messages, at socials, in your profile and a million other things...
you!!!!!!
you know you... so sell you!!!"
Again wise words |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey im a younger guy, i find it hard to meet or even chat on here, is it because of a bad rep due to other young immature 'dickheads' tortureing others ? Any tips "
Don't draw attention to the fact you are a young guy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in the same boat, but I've had quite a few meets. Keep plugging away at it, only message verified users so you're not wasting your time messaging people who aren't genuine, read their profile/preferences, and tailor your message to that. Don't get too frustrated if you are struggling, and don't spend too long on this site or it'll get on your nerves. Just take it light, and message people who you think could be tempted by a younger man. |
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"Yea man where u from ? Over in belfast there isnt as many people about just gay men tormenting me no matter how many times you tell them its not your thing "
You mean guys messaging you asking to meet!? Put your filters on, problem solved! |
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"Yea man where u from ? Over in belfast there isnt as many people about just gay men tormenting me no matter how many times you tell them its not your thing "
Maybe the gay men 'torment' you because they think you might be bisexual. The reason why they might think you're bisexual is because you had a meet with a couple where the guy was bi-curious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Put pictures of your dad on your profile, lie about your age and when you meet tell them the pictures were taken in future. 
The reverse seems to work for those trying to look younger. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey im a younger guy, i find it hard to meet or even chat on here, is it because of a bad rep due to other young immature 'dickheads' tortureing others ? Any tips
Try not castigating others calling them dickheads its a bit immature. "
i am not castigating im telling the truth the quote marks indicating thatd what i have seen on this site. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey im a younger guy, i find it hard to meet or even chat on here, is it because of a bad rep due to other young immature 'dickheads' tortureing others ? Any tips
nope.... thats too easy a kop out... blame everyone else for my woes...
its on you
im on about people not even giving a chance e.g not even opening my mail.
true bill man im just talking about people not even giving a chance
you dictate how you come across... be that in messages, at socials, in your profile and a million other things...
you!!!!!!
you know you... so sell you!!!"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yea man where u from ? Over in belfast there isnt as many people about just gay men tormenting me no matter how many times you tell them its not your thing
Maybe the gay men 'torment' you because they think you might be bisexual. The reason why they might think you're bisexual is because you had a meet with a couple where the guy was bi-curious. "
Na man if u read the comment it has no words indicating the male being sexually involved and also if you look on my profile it clearly shows that i am straight |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What helped me the most was definitely here in the forums. I come here everyday, multiple times a day and make my self known. I socialise, if gives people a chance to see who I am and they often look at my profile.
I was invited to a big birthday social at a club not long ago and because of that, it gave me a lot of verifications. It showed a lot about myself, it showed I was genuine and it showed I was a social guy.
A good profile helps, good photos help, most importantly how you interact with others is what can determine a successful meet or not. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What helped me the most was definitely here in the forums. I come here everyday, multiple times a day and make my self known. I socialise, if gives people a chance to see who I am and they often look at my profile.
I was invited to a big birthday social at a club not long ago and because of that, it gave me a lot of verifications. It showed a lot about myself, it showed I was genuine and it showed I was a social guy.
A good profile helps, good photos help, most importantly how you interact with others is what can determine a successful meet or not."
ok mate thankyou |
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Very wise words! (But then he always has a lot to say, usually most eloquently!)
He's constantly teasing with 'new' photos too!!!
But in all seriousness, he makes a good point, as many on this post have....sell yourself, don't focus on the negative, keep it light and fun and get yourself involved in socials.
Good luck! |
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