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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi there,
If you are hosting at your home make sure the place is claen and especially the bathroom and toilet (nothing worse then a dirty toilet).
If its evening maybe light a few sented candles nice low soft music, offer them a drink and chat once relaxed then ask if they/her wants to go upstairs, that the rest is fun.
Good luck and enjoy. |
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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago
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Unless you are meeting a hardcore couple - a mattress in the front room may not be ideal
Apart from that - don't try too hard - it's not a date
But agree - toilets clean, clean sheets, condoms, lube, maybe a discretely placed bin (for used condoms - we are forever stopping at bus shelters to dump stuff into the public bin) and stock up on DIET drinks as well... |
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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago
London |
Music - always on in the background - not too loud though
Then talk about meets - how long you been doing this stuff etc
We don't really have any problems getting the party started as we are quite exhibitionist - if we think it is time - we just get our kit off!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you'll be asking us all to join you next to help out!! lol.
Just relax and enjoy it and as said earlier just chat about mutual things such as swinging laeft of time on the site and some previous meets have a laugh and things will soon get going. x |
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"Okies your first meet ? strange that looks like you had a meet before did you forget that 1 
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Luv your coffin..... sounds like you both having a great deal of fun in there!
oh and to the op, seems like his first hosting meet, good luck jump in with both feet! i'm sure you'll enjoy it!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Try not to be too English Single White Male... nervous, grabby, accidently rough and so on.
This has made me laugh....  "
I know... we try not to be stereotyping but dammit, what is it with middle class white men? They seem to be the only sub-section of men that seem to suffer so badly from nerves! |
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We always approach any potential meet with the same attitude.
We never expect sex, but hope to make friends and have a good laugh, if anything else happens thats a bonus.
If you think like that you will soon find that things go really well.
Obviously, dont just sit there chatting all day if you are getting very obvious signals that she/they are up for more lol!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Try not to be too English Single White Male... nervous, grabby, accidently rough and so on.
This has made me laugh....
I know... we try not to be stereotyping but dammit, what is it with middle class white men? They seem to be the only sub-section of men that seem to suffer so badly from nerves!"
The white middle classe white men I play with are nervous...just as I like it, but then it's expected when they walk into my boudouir and note the restraints, gags, strap ons et al waiting for them!! |
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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago
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The white middle classe white men I play with are nervous...just as I like it, but then it's expected when they walk into my boudouir and note the restraints, gags, strap ons et al waiting for them!! "
I (male half, M) have read your profile preferences and posts many times, and wish, just for a day. I wasn't a married, bi male! 
M x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The white middle classe white men I play with are nervous...just as I like it, but then it's expected when they walk into my boudouir and note the restraints, gags, strap ons et al waiting for them!!
I (male half, M) have read your profile preferences and posts many times, and wish, just for a day. I wasn't a married, bi male!
M x"
Tee hee!! xx
*Waves inflating, vibrating butt plug at M*
...and not ooop north!! |
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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago
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The white middle classe white men I play with are nervous...just as I like it, but then it's expected when they walk into my boudouir and note the restraints, gags, strap ons et al waiting for them!!
I (male half, M) have read your profile preferences and posts many times, and wish, just for a day. I wasn't a married, bi male!
M x
Tee hee!! xx
*Waves inflating, vibrating butt plug at M*
...and not ooop north!! "
Sigh! I know, there's that too! 
I'll just have to dream....oops, pass the tissues! |
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