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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello everyone ,
if somebody chatch our eyes and wink back we prefer to write a longer message instead of "Luv pics..how u doing...".
We always take a time to create a letter..read through the profile twice.
We introduce ourself who we are ..what we are looking for ..experience. .etc.We also asking to get a chance to hold the conversation. .however we noticed a few times after we received the wink and sent a message it has been deleted without an answer.
So it's a bit confused. .what's the point to wink than.?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Actually they fabbed our picture and send a wink too..
We think the wink means (for us)
: "Ohh hey, we would like to know more about you..  
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id wink but respect you not looking for single guys  |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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If it was a couple then maybe it was only one of them who winked/liked your profile.
We have had messages before from couples where one has jumped in before checking with their partner.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really can't work out why some people on here do what they do. I messaged a guy once (yes, shock horror, women do message guys first!) and he deleted it without reply. Fine, not worried, now I know he's not interested, move on. A few weeks later, he's fab'd a few of my pics and winked at me, now I'm confused!! |
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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago
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"I really can't work out why some people on here do what they do. I messaged a guy once (yes, shock horror, women do message guys first!) and he deleted it without reply. Fine, not worried, now I know he's not interested, move on. A few weeks later, he's fab'd a few of my pics and winked at me, now I'm confused!!"
Some people delete messages as soon as they have read them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really can't work out why some people on here do what they do. I messaged a guy once (yes, shock horror, women do message guys first!) and he deleted it without reply. Fine, not worried, now I know he's not interested, move on. A few weeks later, he's fab'd a few of my pics and winked at me, now I'm confused!!
Some people delete messages as soon as they have read them. "
I know, I do all the time if not interested but I don't then fab their pics and wink at them a few days later lol. Oh the wonderful world of fab  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Actually they fabbed our picture and send a wink too..
We think the wink means (for us)
: "Ohh hey, we would like to know more about you..
id wink but respect you not looking for single guys "
 Thanks , you are a polite gentlemen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Actually they fabbed our picture and send a wink too..
We think the wink means (for us)
: "Ohh hey, we would like to know more about you..
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Perhaps once they start talking they realise you are not their cup of tea  |
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By *C69Man
over a year ago
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"If it was a couple then maybe it was only one of them who winked/liked your profile.
We have had messages before from couples where one has jumped in before checking with their partner.
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very true. I know my man does it (winking) alot. Which can be annoying and to some extened embarrassing for all involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've winked guys and their first message has put me off so it's gone no further. Perhaps they like the profile & pics but when you sent the message you weren't for them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP could be they like your pics, but maybe they don't like your faces, think you look too young etc etc, wouldn't worry as plenty more fish in the sea on here, loads wink and when ask for a face pic they go quiet etc.
Look forward not back I always say and if your ugly there's always someone who will meet you, I do ok and im fug ugly  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've winked guys and their first message has put me off so it's gone no further. Perhaps they like the profile & pics but when you sent the message you weren't for them?"
Hmm well probably. .. 
Never mind we noticed many couple not really genuine 
But we are still looking |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP could be they like your pics, but maybe they don't like your faces, think you look too young etc etc, wouldn't worry as plenty more fish in the sea on here, loads wink and when ask for a face pic they go quiet etc.
Look forward not back I always say and if your ugly there's always someone who will meet you, I do ok and im fug ugly "
Lol we didn't attach our ugly face pics But yeah we are not everyone's cup of tea
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it was a couple then maybe it was only one of them who winked/liked your profile.
We have had messages before from couples where one has jumped in before checking with their partner.
My fb does this all the time on our couples profile. It drives me mad! I like to read the profile first to see if people looking for the same as us…he just looks at the photos.
very true. I know my man does it (winking) alot. Which can be annoying and to some extened embarrassing for all involved. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You look to be a very attractive young couple which can be a hinderance as some folks prefer the older, less good looking couples, as the comparrison with their own looks is not so bad. Catch 22 in some ways.  |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"You look to be a very attractive young couple which can be a hinderance as some folks prefer the older, less good looking couples, as the comparrison with their own looks is not so bad. Catch 22 in some ways. "
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