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WHY MANY TIME WASTERS...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What is the point send winks and messages...and then blocking..such a wast o time..

Are we not all grown ups ..

and so many times ive lost count.

as for the last one who winked then told me a place to meet then blocked me..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What is the point send winks and messages...and then blocking..such a wast o time..

Are we not all grown ups ..

and so many times ive lost count.

as for the last one who winked then told me a place to meet then blocked me.."

You mustn't moan on here. It puts the ladies off.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

maybe you put them off with something you said.. just maybe.

some may string people along and then block, but I would think they will be in the minority.

better luck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It maybe how you come across to them and they want to wind you up. Personally, I do not waste my time wasting others. What goes around comes around.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

"What is the point send winks and messages...and then blocking..such a wast o time..

Are we not all grown ups ..

and so many times ive lost count.

as for the last one who winked then told me a place to meet then blocked me.."

Just because people wink and/or message doesn't mean they are obliged to meet you.

If someone arranges a meet then doesn't turn up report them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I have reported them...then my pass word got hacked...

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By *dventuroususCouple over a year ago

sunderland

That is not time wasting, just because people decide you arent for them doesnt make them a time waster, if they arrange a meet, you show but they dont, then thats a time waster and should be reported.

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"I have reported them...then my pass word got hacked..."

Im not sure how you think thats happened but advice from Admin is:

I think someone else is logging into / has "hacked" my account!

If you think someone has gained access to your account you should immediately change your password on here via your change password page and on your associated email account if you're using web based email. You should run anti-virus and anti-spyware software to ensure that you don't have a keylogger or spyware installed on your computer.

We take the security of our site and database very seriously. The database server is on a seperate physical server behind a firewall to which only site owners have access, via a specified IP address. All passwords are encrypted and neither site owner nor admin have accesss to them.

The following are some common ways that accounts on Fab are compromised. Please be careful to avoid them!

1: Members share their password with friends, partners, lovers (this is the most common cause of "compromised" accounts).

2: Members login on other people's computers who run a keylogger (we see this via the login history of both parties, matched via verifications!).

3: In a couple, the partner changes/removes the profile and denies it (we see this because we record IP address and verify password of all account deletions).

4: The users use the same password on all sites they're on (including dodgy ones run by people who don't encrypt passwords), and site admins on other sites login using their info. On Fab, passwords are hidden from all users and admins.

5: The users email account is shared/compromised and the "hacker" gets their password from our initial signup email.

People block other profiles for lots of different reasons - if you get wound up every time someone blocks you youre going to be very stressed! As others have said best thing to do is forget it and move on.

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