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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was on here for a couple of years and LOVED every minute of it. Fab gave me back my confidence after the breakdown of my marriage...and reminded me how much I enjoyed sex.
I left a few months ago as I was meeting one person on a regular basis...and not bothered about anyone new. Anyway, that's done with now and i've decided to rejoin...but feel like a total newbie!
Fab has so many lovely gorgeous men, who I would love a go on  but the confidence to meet someone new has gone...how do I get it back?! Help please  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a really bad meet when I was first on here and came off afterwards. But joined again a few months later. It took me a while to get my confidence levels back and I just started by taking everything slowly, making sure I was comfortable with them on here before having a social, then later actual meets. But just take things at your own pace and enjoy yourself if you can xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Make sure you always have a social...let them know before that it's strictly a social (you can always change your mind if you feel like it)!
Also, I find it's important to let people know beforehand what you are wanting out of swinging....but you can chat more about it at a social.
Most importantly....relax, breathe and always hold your head high but your nose at a friendly level! A friend, a very good friend of mine often reminds me...I have choices, I have control of my decisions!
Enjoy yourself xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know how you feel Milfy......after a bit of a break myself, I found I missed the scene and also decided to rejoin it too. I enjoyed everything about it from the social side of things (which is a must) to the actual down & dirty fun part. I settled in a new area which isn't too far from you....if perhaps you'd like a chat sometime?? Get in touch |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Make sure you always have a social...let them know before that it's strictly a social (you can always change your mind if you feel like it)!
Also, I find it's important to let people know beforehand what you are wanting out of swinging....but you can chat more about it at a social.
Most importantly....relax, breathe and always hold your head high but your nose at a friendly level! A friend, a very good friend of mine often reminds me...I have choices, I have control of my decisions!
Enjoy yourself xxxx "
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