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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all as a single guy I have had lots of messages disregarded straight away sone people read them and don't reply even though I am genuine, verified and polite. I understand women and couples get lots of messages. Does anyone have any tips for how to stand out among the mass of messages? Thanks. Ps also any tips for my profile too thanks |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
I'd guess it depends on your initial message. Without having experienced that its difficult to comment.
Personally there are a few flags for me on your profile that would be an instant delete. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Your summary says you have two veri's from men.
If they're just social - show them.
Some may assume play meets and with a status saying straight assume you're being economical with the truth.
Clarity is everything with profiles. Ambiguity puts people off.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi i'm nowhere near you but hope you don't mind me saying something.
Not going into your kinks and fantasies wouldn't interest me, i get a lot of messages and haven't got time to play games when looking for someone with the same interests as me. Keep it simple by all means but give us a bit of info so when we do look we have an idea if we share the same interests.
The description about yourself is really good, obviously when you message someone send pics then they know exactly what you mean by your description. I automatically delete anyone who doesn't send me a pic or has none on their profile, have had some great chats with guys for days on here, then they send me a pic and i don't find them attractive and they wasted my time and theirs so i don't bother now if i don't get a pic. Also you just won't be attractive to everyone even if you do send pics so keep that in mind too and keep trying, everyone has different tastes.
I like how you offer social meets as well as sex, that really makes me feel safe and that a meet will be no pressure. Obviously people are after sex on here but some people are after other things as well as that.
You've also put how/where you can meet and that's good, and that people should get in touch, also good and makes people feel like they won't be bothering you if they do want to know more.
Not a bad profile at all, and you don't have to take my advice, that's just my personal input, someone might disagree with me lol and then what you gonna do? |
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There are 2 things - getting standard meets and also finding partners for your new kink interests. The more mainstream interests should have a bigger no of people interested, whilst decreasingly popular kink interests will have less. Focus on them differently, even if some people may share both with you. If the net does not work well enough, then get out to clubs and parties. Your profile has some good feedback - and you cannot be to everyone's taste, so some will just delete and move on. |
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