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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most men, like myself, luv anal!
Its tite n kinky..but there re the obvious pain issues for the women ..
Any tips?"
Yes. Don't shove your cock up her arse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most men, like myself, luv anal!
Its tite n kinky..but there re the obvious pain issues for the women ..
Any tips?
Yes. Don't shove your cock up her arse.  "
not funny im afraid  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know how helpful my advice is, being a man (though have done as Jane suggests and had the missus put one of her vibes in me...), but I have a couple of rules for anal (which I love, BTW):
1) Make sure your partner is up for it! Sounds daft, but if she is not entirely happy, she won't relax, which will then cause her pain.
2) No means no. It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with your partner, it just means she doesn't want to do it. Accept it!
3) Take it slow, with lots of lube. I would recommend some proper rimming to get the area really wet as well as other lube - hopefully the rimming helps with relaxing as well. Also start off with fingering - if she doesn't like that, she won't want your cock in her...
4) Don't think you're a porn star and ram it in and out - that will cause damage both to her and to your relationship! Move in very gently, making sure you're both comfortable; and make sure that you have plenty of body contact to reinforce the trust thing.
My wife cums like a bucking bronco when we get it right, but I guarantee you, not everyone likes it / will do it.
Hope that helps,
Olly (expecting to get flamed by all females reading this thread...) |
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"I don't know how helpful my advice is, being a man (though have done as Jane suggests and had the missus put one of her vibes in me...), but I have a couple of rules for anal (which I love, BTW):
1) Make sure your partner is up for it! Sounds daft, but if she is not entirely happy, she won't relax, which will then cause her pain.
2) No means no. It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with your partner, it just means she doesn't want to do it. Accept it!
3) Take it slow, with lots of lube. I would recommend some proper rimming to get the area really wet as well as other lube - hopefully the rimming helps with relaxing as well. Also start off with fingering - if she doesn't like that, she won't want your cock in her...
4) Don't think you're a porn star and ram it in and out - that will cause damage both to her and to your relationship! Move in very gently, making sure you're both comfortable; and make sure that you have plenty of body contact to reinforce the trust thing.
My wife cums like a bucking bronco when we get it right, but I guarantee you, not everyone likes it / will do it.
Hope that helps,
Olly (expecting to get flamed by all females reading this thread...)"
I agree all very good advice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sound advice.
I find that mrs prefers me not to thrust all the way in and out, preferring when inside, to make slower, smaller movements.
But she must always be very relaxed, and only ever when she says so, its not good to "ass"ume that bum fun is always an option, as for us it's as and when she is in the mood.
As for cumming.... it takes her straight to the point of no return, and keeps her there...(and turns her into a proper horn dog for the rest of the night!!)so it's well worth a try ladies, if done properly!!
As for taking one for the team.....she knows i'll give it a go, but again we both have to be "in the mood".
mr  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe you should return the favour and let your lady stick a dildo up your arse and see if you like it as much as you expect her to?"
Yes please, although I prefer a vibrator  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thinks its all to do with the lady bieng very horny and very relaxed enough to trust your not gonna go at like a bull in a china shop.
Loads of lube...try something called "anal ease" used for anal from lovehoney.
It works well.
And just take your time , she will guide you into faster, harder etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A great way of doin anal is the missionary position.
Legs spread wide, lots of licking and/or lube first then ease it in gently.
This way I can touch myself when he's right in my arse then come at the same time. Amazing!!!!
Added bonus of getting to look at each other and seeing it going in an out
oh yes and hard and fast only works when ur both nearing the tickly bit
Wilma xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Poppers are great for getting started with Anal Sex ... not as good as they used to be granted but still enough to let the balloon knot relax and open up.
I find getting on top let's you be in control and can control entry at your own pace.
Kirsty
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most men, like myself, luv anal!
Its tite n kinky..but there re the obvious pain issues for the women ..
Any tips?
Yes. Don't shove your cock up her arse."
OMG just pee'd LMAO!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most men, like myself, luv anal!
Its tite n kinky..but there re the obvious pain issues for the women ..
Any tips?"
Anal is one of them things you either like or you dont, if its painful i would suggest you dont do it 
But so the nights not a total waste get a strap on and let her shag your arse instead |
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By (user no longer on site)
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my serious advice is when you first start anal dont push your cock in her, stay still and let the woman back onto you (or down on you depending on possition of course lol) at her own speed, for me personally i dont really need lube, bit of rimming does the trick lol and i dont need to be relaxed, i love anal but the initial penatration has to be on my terms, but once they in they can bang away at their own speed lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ive emt a few ladys who didnt need lube but enjoyed being rimmed first. Have also met one or two who needed lots of lube and still enjoyed, and some who have said no chance with a cock that big which is an ego booster if nothing else!!
Had a lady friend try a strap on on me which was fun but never been a regular thing and I dont deny a lady who puts a finger in my bum.
If you want to give it out you have to be willing to take it in and enjoy it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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the science bit:
there are three seperate muscle groups up there and the best way is to push slowly inside until you hit the first, wait a few seconds for it to relax then repeat the process.
enjoy it though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Only done this with preconcieved plan from the ladies concerned but am I missing something here - I never ask (not sure if i should be or want too) but how do you clean out before you have anal sex?
not the best Q i agree but if someone wants to roger my arse as fair balance then I want to be clean up there!
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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago
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Clean - many options - enemas work fine
Some people men and women just have a nack for accepting anal - some don't
Technique can help - but it really is down to whether they like it or not
We both can come buckets (as it were) - when either of us are receiving |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good question Klit King!!
I love the ones that everyone thinks but never has the guts to ask.
I personally make sure I have been for a number 2 that day and give myself a good wash beforehand. Then can lick and fuck away!
I personally would suggest taking dettol and scourers to next meet and casually bring it up in conversation!
Wilma x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We got some anal beads to pave the way so to speak. also a little bullet vibe to play with her bum to help numb it a little. One thats done i let nicky play with the beads and after 5 or 10 mins she has all the beads in up to the thickest one. From there we then move onto my cock. Take things slowly dont just try and ram it in balls deep!!! little by little and nice and slow. you can feel when the arse is ready to take some more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with dr london great advice...
if anal is done correctly it can be so enjoyable, if the womman isnt relaxed or in any way nervous about it FORGET it, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe you should return the favour and let your lady stick a dildo up your arse and see if you like it as much as you expect her to?
I do
you do let her or you do like it???   "
i do like it.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And make sure you have plenty of Triple Velvet for the morning after!!! lol"
I quess that statement u made depends on how far the person decides to take it....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it and don't think it's painful or uncomfortable at all. Hugely horny in fact. Slowly and gently at first is the rule! But after I've relaxed into it, I'm rampant... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Only tried a bit of bum fun a couple of weeks ago but i absolutely luv it....lots of lube of course and a very gentle man who's talking dirty all the way, my god ive never gushed before but i certainly did that night
Last night i slipped a vibe in my pussy whilst my man was oh so slowly slipping deep into my ass, i cum so hard and fast!....omg it makes me sooo horny sat here thinking about it |
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