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How to get noticed??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone,
Although I have been a member on this site for over a year I do log in every few weeks for a browse etc.
What I would like to know is how best to get noticed on this site. Even in the year I have been on here I haven't had any friend requests or any communications of any sort (I know, sad isn't it...lol), so any tips on how to boost your profile and to get noticed would be greatly received.
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"Hi everyone,
Although I have been a member on this site for over a year I do log in every few weeks for a browse etc.
What I would like to know is how best to get noticed on this site. Even in the year I have been on here I haven't had any friend requests or any communications of any sort (I know, sad isn't it...lol), so any tips on how to boost your profile and to get noticed would be greatly received.
Thanks in advance"
Do you contact anyone? What would make you notice a profile? Think about that and apply it to your own  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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Get out and meet people at socials, go to clubs, get on camera, join in the forum.
Stating that you can only meet lunchtimes and afternoons narrows who you can meet anyway. For others it may make them think you are married and therefore not for them.
Be proactive.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Read your own profile to yourself then ask, would I meet me?
The number of single guys to single women and couples are high, so it's a competitive market!
Treat your profile as your shop window and make it personal to yourself.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the reply, honestly I am to bloody shy and wouldn't know what to say...lol.
From the profiles I have looked at many on here are seasoned pro's and I tend to move on for fear of looking a tit .
Confidence man....confidence  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the reply, honestly I am to bloody shy and wouldn't know what to say...lol.
From the profiles I have looked at many on here are seasoned pro's and I tend to move on for fear of looking a tit .
Confidence man....confidence "
I've now read the text properly and you say that you are married. That will put some off but not others.
Confidence is always the key when trying to meet others. If you haven't got it and what you want is a someone to guide you and find you then you will be waiting for some time.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok, thanks everyone, I am going to change my profile so that it contains something along the lines of - "Bloody rich ££££'s, ripped athletic body with a 12" (green) cock, own many super cars, have a house in each major city, charm to die for but the cuteness every woman lusts for....."
Getting there lol |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok, thanks everyone, I am going to change my profile so that it contains something along the lines of - "Bloody rich ££££'s, ripped athletic body with a 12" (green) cock, own many super cars, have a house in each major city, charm to die for but the cuteness every woman lusts for....."
Getting there lol "
I really like your avatar picture. That's a plus. |
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"Ok, thanks everyone, I am going to change my profile so that it contains something along the lines of - "Bloody rich ££££'s, ripped athletic body with a 12" (green) cock, own many super cars, have a house in each major city, charm to die for but the cuteness every woman lusts for....."
Getting there lol "
You know it makes sense  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol, is that what usually happens then as this was my first forum post...  "
Unfortunately mate there are quite a few people on here that are a bit grumpy/aggressive You will soon see what I'm talking about if you hang around long enough.
On the plus side there's plenty of nice people on here to. |
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"lol, is that what usually happens then as this was my first forum post...
Unfortunately mate there are quite a few people on here that are a bit grumpy/aggressive You will soon see what I'm talking about if you hang around long enough.
On the plus side there's plenty of nice people on here to."
As you clearly have a pleasant and personable manner, a good sense of humour, capable of taking well-intended advice, and,above all, not a trace of moaning, griping, or sense of entitlement, I doubt very much you'll get any hassle on the forums, so welcome and hope things get better on here for you. |
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"lol, is that what usually happens then as this was my first forum post...
Unfortunately mate there are quite a few people on here that are a bit grumpy/aggressive You will soon see what I'm talking about if you hang around long enough.
On the plus side there's plenty of nice people on here to.
As you clearly have a pleasant and personable manner, a good sense of humour, capable of taking well-intended advice, and,above all, not a trace of moaning, griping, or sense of entitlement, I doubt very much you'll get any hassle on the forums, so welcome and hope things get better on here for you."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cheers matey
Oh and going back to your OP
You just got yourself noticed "
Indeed, might have to use this again as it is the best way to date to at least have some banter and communicate with peeps |
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"Cheers matey
Oh and going back to your OP
You just got yourself noticed
Indeed, might have to use this again as it is the best way to date to at least have some banter and communicate with peeps "
See now this is how a thread where the OP is asking for help and advice should be.
All suggestions taken on board..all light-hearted banter, no nastiness, and, praise be!, not one gripe or whiff of a whinge from the OP.
Result: Happiness all round...
Such a refreshing change from the whinefests we so often get on the forum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Paint Fabswingers and username to the side of your van in big bold type. Both sides!
Then continue with your usual routine fresh in the knowledge that your requirements are being brought to the attention of the local populous. |
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