When I left My husband l took only what I could carry. He said latter on that he destroyed everything of mine. But have seen a pic of him on another Web site with his new g/F using one of my old toys on her, now the question is I wondent like an X g/f toy used on me and l don't like seeing something that personal used on her. What do you think? |
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"Unless it is very unusual, how do you know it's the exact same one?
But I do wonder why anyone would look at pictures of an ex playing?  "
I agree, I dont think I would like to watch an ex playing unless the relationship was short and not serious
And unless the toy had a certain scratch or mark on it then he could have got a new one that is the same as what he had with you |
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"It was my wand and it had black tape where the wire went into as it was cracking up so unless they all do it it was mine "
Seriously I would leave it. If it was obviously second hand I wouldn't have let it near me personally but you will achieve nothing by wondering about it but anguish.
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"Unless it is very unusual, how do you know it's the exact same one?
But I do wonder why anyone would look at pictures of an ex playing?
I agree, I dont think I would like to watch an ex playing unless the relationship was short and not serious
And unless the toy had a certain scratch or mark on it then he could have got a new one that is the same as what he had with you"
I would look at pics of mine. No big deal. I would recognise my toys too |
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It IS a little bit "makes your skin crawl"... Must be annoying too if you paid for it but it's probably something that would annoy me for all of 5mins and then I'd shrug ny shoulders and get on with it. - I certainly wouldn't want it back now! Plus if it's obvious it's the 2nd hand and the new lady is happy for it to be used on her, I guess that's her choice.
I know it's not exactly the same thing but as we have a lot of mutual friends, I once caught a glimpse of my ex's new GF wearing one of MY old necklaces (with the caption of "Look what XXXXX bought me for our anniversary!").
I always knew he was a cheap git and it was strange to see something so personal on someone else but I just thought more fool the both of them... Says a lot about him and I almost feel a little sorry for her.
- Amy. x |
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