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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have a meet next week with a guy I have known since I was 6!! We went through school together and I even had a crush when we were teenagers. When he messaged me on here and we each realized who thethe other was, we decided we would meet up for some fun.
For some reason though I am SO nervous about it I am not sure I can go through with it! He is still hot as hell and I still fancy him. Is it just too weird to fuck someone you have known for that long? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Go for it, or you will always regret it!"
That's kind if what I think. I should have my fun and take advantage of the opportunity to have something I wanted so long ago. But the nerves are just horrendous!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Contact him and tell him exactly what you said in your post....
You have to meet him....it's fate (or summat)
Then report back
Good luck and wear white at the wedding  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Go for it, as many have said better to regret what you've done rather than what you haven't.
Good luck and have fun  "
I believe the truism usually goes...
In life you rarely regret what you've done.... you mostly regret what you didn't do
Even more reason to go for it |
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In 1950 I fell in love with a 15 year old , we courted for a while then when she started work in 1951 we drifted apart,(she lived near herne bay) seen her twice over the years (briefly...passing ships in the night, no words only glances of recognition exchanged)
I would give almost anything to meet that young lady again....so many regrets !!!
Just go for it . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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it is an opportunity,
it might even possibly be even more fun then you might of imagined, in earlier years
give it a go if you dont you will be thinking about for years to come |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a similar situation. I think you get nervous because ypu have two lifes when you do this, mixing them makes you nervous
But, it was one of my best meets. Were regulars because we clicked |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I had a similar situation. I think you get nervous because ypu have two lifes when you do this, mixing them makes you nervous
But, it was one of my best meets. Were regulars because we clicked "
I think that's it. It crosses over from fab life to normal life. If it goes well, it has its problems and if it goes badly, that also has its issues x |
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as someone has said, just use the meet as a social/wander down memory lane type of thing, then both decide if you want to take it further.
treating it as a social/catchup will relieve any play pressure |
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Meet but be under no pressure to do anything other than catch up. If it feels right then explore more. Also be sure about your interest in him - would you prefer something other than a one off? It does not matter how long you have known someone, you remain in control at all times over what youre doing, so dont follow others pressure. Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Go for it, or you will always regret it!
That's kind if what I think. I should have my fun and take advantage of the opportunity to have something I wanted so long ago. But the nerves are just horrendous!! "
its something you wanted for years and now its possible I think you are nervous with anticipation and excitement not fear, go for it or you may regret it later |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What are you thinking so hard about? You are more likely going to enjoy the hell out of this encounter than regret it. I can get you there are people who have fantasies about what you are willing to turn down. It is hot, naughty and fiendishly erotic.. Go grab his balls and own him for one night ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you're currently friends beyond fab then I might approach it with a bit more caution because I wouldn't want to lose the friendship, but a social meet up with the possibility of play could be a good option as it takes the pressure off and allows you both the opportunity to say no if it's just too weird...or have lots of fun if you're both still up for it after a coffee! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've known my now husband since I was 7, that's 38 years. We have been together 21 years and married 18 next week....so no, I don't think it's wierd....some of us just don't want to rush things lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a similar situation. I think you get nervous because ypu have two lifes when you do this, mixing them makes you nervous
But, it was one of my best meets. Were regulars because we clicked
I think that's it. It crosses over from fab life to normal life. If it goes well, it has its problems and if it goes badly, that also has its issues x "
Remember we are all here for same reason but I agree, have a social meet. If ypu can trust him that he wont go arpund talking about ypur private life like a fool, then ypur good |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Well last night was the night! And holy fuck what a night it was!! Still can't believe I had sex with him. A total fantasy come true. No need for me to be nervous at all. He confessed to being nervous too. Once the clothes came off the nerves disappeared and the desire took over. It best not be another 25 years is all I can say! |
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"Well last night was the night! And holy fuck what a night it was!! Still can't believe I had sex with him. A total fantasy come true. No need for me to be nervous at all. He confessed to being nervous too. Once the clothes came off the nerves disappeared and the desire took over. It best not be another 25 years is all I can say!"
Hurrah!!! Glad you had a good time!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well last night was the night! And holy fuck what a night it was!! Still can't believe I had sex with him. A total fantasy come true. No need for me to be nervous at all. He confessed to being nervous too. Once the clothes came off the nerves disappeared and the desire took over. It best not be another 25 years is all I can say!
Hurrah!!! Glad you had a good time! "
that's fantastic, looks like this could be the start of something good |
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"Well last night was the night! And holy fuck what a night it was!! Still can't believe I had sex with him. A total fantasy come true. No need for me to be nervous at all. He confessed to being nervous too. Once the clothes came off the nerves disappeared and the desire took over. It best not be another 25 years is all I can say!"
well done, at least you havn't got to worry about regretting what could have been |
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I have a similar youthful crush on someone who the last time I saw her was looking fantastic, great figure lovely smile and a cleavage to jump into.
Any body know Jacqui C. Now let me know she was a moneybroker in the eighties/nineties be about 45 ish now maybe a little older....She appears in my fantasies at least once a week.... lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well last night was the night! And holy fuck what a night it was!! Still can't believe I had sex with him. A total fantasy come true. No need for me to be nervous at all. He confessed to being nervous too. Once the clothes came off the nerves disappeared and the desire took over. It best not be another 25 years is all I can say!"
well done you |
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