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profile opinion, asked by a female member of a couple for once
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We first joined this site about eight months ago and at first had a lot of luck and thankfully met a great couple that we really enjoy meeting up with but chose to leave our profile up just to see what was out there.
After our must recent awful attempt at conversation I decided to redo our previously lame bio and I think I made it whitty enough while listing our simple requests, but I'd like your opinions.
I visit the forum almost daily and I realize how brutal most profile reviews are, and once I post this can't really undo it so if you'd not mind constructive criticism?
Bio might be too harsh but I think I balanced it. What do you think? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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majority of the pics are of the female, its supposed to be a couples profile, but its well written, i especially liked the "no matter how glorious you think your junk is we're still not interested"  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol thanks, I'm a selfie girl and I mostly maintain the profile so not as many of him. We live in a small town and his many tattoos can point him out but you're right I'll work on it. There are pictures of his 'glorious junk' as well as both our face pics that are private and I can choose to send. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's no verifications and it's ( me guy here) to the point , I probably wouldn't message you guys .... However I like your post here it has a feel to it   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have professional careers but are blue collar and not snobs, we just can't abide a snob."
That actually reads quite snobby.
As does the whole profile tbh.
Rewrite it from a "telling people what we don't want" to "telling people what we Do want".
Cause atm all a reader knows is some things you don't want and so can't tell at all if you're compatible or interested in the same things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently I over thought my sense of humor lol"
If it helps I've had about 3 hours sleep in the past 48 hours and am in strong painkillers, in not at my sharpest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently I over thought my sense of humor lol"
there more than 2 people in each individual meet remember, if it's a couple , single woman they have to feel wanted and not that they've entered a competition or applying for a job!!!
Not looking for single guys so please don't message but thanx for looking if we change our mind we will look for you ........ Not completely dismissing bit on your terms ...... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know most comments to posts on here are negative, knew before i posted, but remember most ppl
On here are from the UK and only a minority are from the US. Shit's different here, our sense of humor is different so chillax dude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure I entirely understand the stuff about not being able to trust someone that neither of you can make laugh? It would make me think a meet was going to be an increasingly desperate tag team stand up routine...and why wouldn't you trust someone if they didn't share your sense of humour?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 12/08/14 05:22:18]"
I was just trying to show an example of saying no with a little warmth and feeling..... Never say never must be a British saying  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wasn't directing that at you, and surely 'I should've known better' is not just an American saying."
who?  lol keep at it and I'm sure you will have a fantastic profile....after all you are female  x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No harm I'm taking things to heart, I'm so used to seeing ppl tore up in here lol. I'm over reacting.looking back no one said anything that bad I just keep expecting it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the bit about couples that have kissing boundaries roars insecurity is a bit judgemental. Just because a couple don't want to kiss others doesn't mean they're insecure. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think the bit about couples that have kissing boundaries roars insecurity is a bit judgemental. Just because a couple don't want to kiss others doesn't mean they're insecure. "
Only our preference |
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"I think the bit about couples that have kissing boundaries roars insecurity is a bit judgemental. Just because a couple don't want to kiss others doesn't mean they're insecure.
Only our preference"
Which is fine, everyone is entitled to a preference. Just don't judge others for theirs! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it is just fine. If you write a profile your way that tells something of your personality then the people who read it and "get it" are most likely going to be the people who "get you" x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the bit about couples that have kissing boundaries roars insecurity is a bit judgemental. Just because a couple don't want to kiss others doesn't mean they're insecure.
Only our preference"
Saying that other couples are insecure is not a preference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe it's the culture difference but I don't see much humour in the profile, apart from the socks bit.
As others have said it's a somewhat negative profile, all don't want this or that. Personally I have a real bug bear with profiles that say no single guys and barate them, just use your mail filters and block them contacting you....sorted and no need to even have it in your profile.
Also 2000% straight feels a little "Duth protest too much", so leave it as hubby is straight or if you must put a % make it a simple 100%.
Overall it's a well written & formatted profile, however it doesn't really sell you that well, to me it give the feeling that you expect people to jump through hoops to meet you.
Oh and final thing....it's because no bc. |
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