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7 views in one day but no meets
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People will not know if they are compatible with you if they don't look. We get loads of looks a day. The only ones you should worry about are the ones that message you |
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The last 100 people to view me have all been in the last 5 hours.
That doesn't include the ones that have their profile set to not show on that list.
Only 5 have messaged me.
The other 95 either like my pics or looked and didn't think we were compatible.
Don't sweat the small stuff!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The guy asked about the number of views he'd had not how many other people get. It isn't a competition."
It really isn't, and women comparing to a guy isn't gonna help him resolve his question. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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"Your profile looks fine, but i would agree with the face pic suggestion and i would query why you aren't showing your verifications x"
Does he have to show his verifications? I know lots of women that don't show theirs as its their business. |
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"The guy asked about the number of views he'd had not how many other people get. It isn't a competition. "
It was infact putting it into perspective that views dont equal meets, as i said i have hundreds a day and dont have a lot of meets, 7 views is verrrry little to then expect meets just because his profile has been looked at |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As others have said; you get more looks by posting on the forums. Gets you noticed and you no longer look like a newbie.
Just by being online seems to trigger looks and messages. I have no idea how many looks I get a day because it only lists the first 100 but the oldest look becomes far more recent when I'm active on here. Posting a new pic sends your inbox mad.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile looks fine, but i would agree with the face pic suggestion and i would query why you aren't showing your verifications x
Does he have to show his verifications? I know lots of women that don't show theirs as its their business."
No he doesn't but it would help, for me I'm looking for a particular thing and many others may be to.. I like to read the verifications to identify if certain words or phrases have been used... how a meet is interpreted by each other is very important to me... Much more then the profile as it's another persons opinion... Not just their own words  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have 81 view so far lol 
Its not a competition lol the fab police says so 
Oh dear, did I embarrass you? "
lol I know and no you didn't embarase me, my views are now 98 |
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"I have 81 view so far lol
Its not a competition lol the fab police says so
Oh dear, did I embarrass you? "
Why would you have? Just noticed your always the same on posts, more interested in other peoples replies than the OP, chip and shoulder comes to mind |
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"I have 81 view so far lol
Its not a competition lol the fab police says so
Oh dear, did I embarrass you?
Why would you have? Just noticed your always the same on posts, more interested in other peoples replies than the OP, chip and shoulder comes to mind "
I see. And this post of yours is relevant to the op in what way? |
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"I have 81 view so far lol
Its not a competition lol the fab police says so
Oh dear, did I embarrass you?
Why would you have? Just noticed your always the same on posts, more interested in other peoples replies than the OP, chip and shoulder comes to mind
I see. And this post of yours is relevant to the op in what way?"
If you read a few up you will see i explained why i posted what i did |
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"I have 81 view so far lol
Its not a competition lol the fab police says so
Oh dear, did I embarrass you?
Why would you have? Just noticed your always the same on posts, more interested in other peoples replies than the OP, chip and shoulder comes to mind
I see. And this post of yours is relevant to the op in what way?
If you read a few up you will see i explained why i posted what i did "
I did. I was referring to you criticising me for being more interested in other people's posts than the op in a post not relevant to the op. I just thought you might see that it was somewhat ironic. |
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"I have 81 view so far lol
Its not a competition lol the fab police says so
Oh dear, did I embarrass you?
Why would you have? Just noticed your always the same on posts, more interested in other peoples replies than the OP, chip and shoulder comes to mind
I see. And this post of yours is relevant to the op in what way?
If you read a few up you will see i explained why i posted what i did
I did. I was referring to you criticising me for being more interested in other people's posts than the op in a post not relevant to the op. I just thought you might see that it was somewhat ironic."
I was replying to snide comments from the usual suspects, before that i only made a comment in reference to the OP but thanks for your ..... Concern |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should I be feeling as though I'm doing something wrong?  "
Don't be daft! We get tons of views but don't get a great deal of messages when compared to views. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stupid predictive text.
Was just saying I've never looked at how many views I've had.
And asked if there is a prize?
It doesn't matter now, as I wouldn't win it anyway. |
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"You're doing well mate
Just be patient 
He will have a few more now  .
Posting in the forums is a good way to bring yourself to people's attention.
Its nice to be looked at .."
It is and most of us are here to get noticed one way or another.
Incidentally, has the op been back at all? |
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"You're doing well mate
Just be patient
He will have a few more now .
Posting in the forums is a good way to bring yourself to people's attention.
Its nice to be looked at ..
It is and most of us are here to get noticed one way or another.
Incidentally, has the op been back at all?"
Yes I see that he has |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had 365 look so far today and only about 50 messages! Should I be upset 315 didn't like the look of me? Hell no, I'm glad I didn't have all those messages to ignore lol
As somebody else pointed out they are only looking and may see that you are not compatible for them for whatever reason its no reflection on you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well if it is a competition can I enter? I had over 1000 one day! Pmsl
Views mean nothing people have to look to see if you are what they are looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had 365 look so far today and only about 50 messages! Should I be upset 315 didn't like the look of me? Hell no, I'm glad I didn't have all those messages to ignore lol
As somebody else pointed out they are only looking and may see that you are not compatible for them for whatever reason its no reflection on you."
Still like to see who's looking though? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had 365 look so far today and only about 50 messages! Should I be upset 315 didn't like the look of me? Hell no, I'm glad I didn't have all those messages to ignore lol
As somebody else pointed out they are only looking and may see that you are not compatible for them for whatever reason its no reflection on you.
Still like to see who's looking though?"
Oh no that'd be worse. If I thought they were fit and matched my requirements I'd be thinking what's wrong with me!?!? Pmsl |
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Found this post quite funny as I'm starting to feel like I'm practically begging someone to just have some skype fun with us! No not the 7 views thing! I can handle a million views and not be disappointed especially when you get all these random weirdo's on here! Please we ain't that bad..I hope lol I do think tho if a decent couple or woman would love to restore my faith hehe add us on skype and to be clear it's the female half talking x |
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I get 7 in about 0.34 minutes 
