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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok here goes! My partner would like to go to a club, she has bi moments when booze has flowed but has never acted upon it. Also, she would like to watch an orgy/gangbang. Soooo, Can you go to a club like Kestrels or Ab fabs and just observe? Is that ok? Secondly what is and where are Abfabs and Kestrels? Do you pay membership? I think my wife would like a sort of lapdance first? Just to dip her toe? Is there likely to be anyone who would do that? Thanks G x |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
Before I went to my first club, I used the club section in fab and researched. Read the forum about the clubs and chatted to the clubs themselves.
Chose a quiet night so I could just look around. |
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By *exxxesCouple
over a year ago
Newbury / London |
From Yarmouth possibly somewhere like Vanilla Alternative would be the closest (others available in similar area), and it's really quite good (in our opinion).
There is never any obligation to join in, and providing the action is in a public place / room / bed then you're free to watch (but naturally be courteous and not necessarily stood right next to the bed, etc). Those that don't want to be watched would typically find a private room.
AbFabs / Kestrels is in a village by Heathrow. Several places to chill / play / watch (Cinema room sounds like something you’d like). A lapdance would not be out of the question, just depends who you meet up with.
Not all clubs charge membership but do have differing rates on the door for members / non-members…best check tinterweb for specific details.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you for your advise, fantastic and much appreciated! So ....am.I right in saying its a nightclub with rooms to stay in? Do people just get it on on the dancefloor? Are you lkely to walk in and see people allready getting it on? Or does that go on.elsewhere? Sorry to ask silly questions? Are couples likely to aproach us if they like us? Thanks |
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Choose the place that fits your needs, as you can always book other accommodation near to clubs if they dont offer it. Read all the reviews and speak to people who go. Some do non members nights, so you can check things out. Do what you feel like, including nothing but relax, as long as you follow their club rules. |
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AbFabs/Kestrels does not have overnight accommodation loads stay in a Heathrow hotel.
Play can be pretty much anywhere at Ab Fabs depends on the vibe that night. Cinema and dungeon are the most common for group action.
Main lounge area you can just chill and watch and chat with other couples. Cabins give privacy if you want to play. Am sure plenty of ladies happy to give a lap dance just expect an audience if in public. |
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By *jgoofyCouple
over a year ago
worthing |
We've been to kestrels all day and had loads of fun. There's always loads going on all over the place..The pool being a major play area. We are back off there two Sundays time for the bank hols and taking some friends and also meeting some there that we know from another party we go to.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok here goes! My partner would like to go to a club, she has bi moments when booze has flowed but has never acted upon it. Also, she would like to watch an orgy/gangbang. Soooo, Can you go to a club like Kestrels or Ab fabs and just observe? Is that ok? Secondly what is and where are Abfabs and Kestrels? Do you pay membership? I think my wife would like a sort of lapdance first? Just to dip her toe? Is there likely to be anyone who would do that? Thanks G x"
You've made no mention of your wife on your profile. Set up a couple's profile, as some clubs want to view profiles on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok here goes! My partner would like to go to a club, she has bi moments when booze has flowed but has never acted upon it. Also, she would like to watch an orgy/gangbang. Soooo, Can you go to a club like Kestrels or Ab fabs and just observe? Is that ok? Secondly what is and where are Abfabs and Kestrels? Do you pay membership? I think my wife would like a sort of lapdance first? Just to dip her toe? Is there likely to be anyone who would do that? Thanks G x
You've made no mention of your wife on your profile. Set up a couple's profile, as some clubs want to view profiles on fab"
We've been to a few clubs and none have ever asked if we are on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No3 in Chorley wants to know if you are on FAB or any other swingers sites as a couple. Otherwise yoy have to pay singles rates.
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Yep they do, coz they've had too many people bringing in different guys claiming they're couples, so you'd have to create a couple's account with every single guy you want to go with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No3 in Chorley wants to know if you are on FAB or any other swingers sites as a couple. Otherwise yoy have to pay singles rates.
Yep they do, coz they've had too many people bringing in different guys claiming they're couples, so you'd have to create a couple's account with every single guy you want to go with"
So they are only bothered about money. Nice.
If a genuine married couple wants to go, they have to create a Fab profile or have to pay single rates?! Sod that. We won't ever go there again. (But we won't go there again anyway because of other reasons that are irrelevant to this thread.) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No3 in Chorley wants to know if you are on FAB or any other swingers sites as a couple. Otherwise yoy have to pay singles rates.
Yep they do, coz they've had too many people bringing in different guys claiming they're couples, so you'd have to create a couple's account with every single guy you want to go with
So they are only bothered about money. Nice.
If a genuine married couple wants to go, they have to create a Fab profile or have to pay single rates?! Sod that. We won't ever go there again. (But we won't go there again anyway because of other reasons that are irrelevant to this thread.)"
It's not about money it's to stop people bringing in random guys every time they go to a club |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No3 in Chorley wants to know if you are on FAB or any other swingers sites as a couple. Otherwise yoy have to pay singles rates.
Yep they do, coz they've had too many people bringing in different guys claiming they're couples, so you'd have to create a couple's account with every single guy you want to go with
So they are only bothered about money. Nice.
If a genuine married couple wants to go, they have to create a Fab profile or have to pay single rates?! Sod that. We won't ever go there again. (But we won't go there again anyway because of other reasons that are irrelevant to this thread.)
It's not about money it's to stop people bringing in random guys every time they go to a club"
So they are against men going. And money. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok here goes! My partner would like to go to a club, she has bi moments when booze has flowed but has never acted upon it. Also, she would like to watch an orgy/gangbang. Soooo, Can you go to a club like Kestrels or Ab fabs and just observe? Is that ok? Secondly what is and where are Abfabs and Kestrels? Do you pay membership? I think my wife would like a sort of lapdance first? Just to dip her toe? Is there likely to be anyone who would do that? Thanks G x
You've made no mention of your wife on your profile. Set up a couple's profile, as some clubs want to view profiles on fab
We've been to a few clubs and none have ever asked if we are on here."
Nor us.  Never heard it mentioned anywhere other than socials |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No3 in Chorley wants to know if you are on FAB or any other swingers sites as a couple. Otherwise yoy have to pay singles rates.
Yep they do, coz they've had too many people bringing in different guys claiming they're couples, so you'd have to create a couple's account with every single guy you want to go with
So they are only bothered about money. Nice.
If a genuine married couple wants to go, they have to create a Fab profile or have to pay single rates?! Sod that. We won't ever go there again. (But we won't go there again anyway because of other reasons that are irrelevant to this thread.)
It's not about money it's to stop people bringing in random guys every time they go to a club"
Becauae tge 5 minutes it takes to set up a couples profile stops that how exactly? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No3 in Chorley wants to know if you are on FAB or any other swingers sites as a couple. Otherwise yoy have to pay singles rates.
Yep they do, coz they've had too many people bringing in different guys claiming they're couples, so you'd have to create a couple's account with every single guy you want to go with
So they are only bothered about money. Nice.
If a genuine married couple wants to go, they have to create a Fab profile or have to pay single rates?! Sod that. We won't ever go there again. (But we won't go there again anyway because of other reasons that are irrelevant to this thread.)
It's not about money it's to stop people bringing in random guys every time they go to a club
Becauae tge 5 minutes it takes to set up a couples profile stops that how exactly? "
No idea but it works |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No3 in Chorley wants to know if you are on FAB or any other swingers sites as a couple. Otherwise yoy have to pay singles rates.
Yep they do, coz they've had too many people bringing in different guys claiming they're couples, so you'd have to create a couple's account with every single guy you want to go with
So they are only bothered about money. Nice.
If a genuine married couple wants to go, they have to create a Fab profile or have to pay single rates?! Sod that. We won't ever go there again. (But we won't go there again anyway because of other reasons that are irrelevant to this thread.)
It's not about money it's to stop people bringing in random guys every time they go to a club
Becauae tge 5 minutes it takes to set up a couples profile stops that how exactly?
No idea but it works"
How does it work? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No3 in Chorley wants to know if you are on FAB or any other swingers sites as a couple. Otherwise yoy have to pay singles rates.
Yep they do, coz they've had too many people bringing in different guys claiming they're couples, so you'd have to create a couple's account with every single guy you want to go with
So they are only bothered about money. Nice.
If a genuine married couple wants to go, they have to create a Fab profile or have to pay single rates?! Sod that. We won't ever go there again. (But we won't go there again anyway because of other reasons that are irrelevant to this thread.)
It's not about money it's to stop people bringing in random guys every time they go to a club
Becauae tge 5 minutes it takes to set up a couples profile stops that how exactly?
No idea but it works
How does it work?"
Because the single guys wanting to attend with someone create a couple's account or come on their own |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No3 in Chorley wants to know if you are on FAB or any other swingers sites as a couple. Otherwise yoy have to pay singles rates.
Yep they do, coz they've had too many people bringing in different guys claiming they're couples, so you'd have to create a couple's account with every single guy you want to go with
So they are only bothered about money. Nice.
If a genuine married couple wants to go, they have to create a Fab profile or have to pay single rates?! Sod that. We won't ever go there again. (But we won't go there again anyway because of other reasons that are irrelevant to this thread.)
It's not about money it's to stop people bringing in random guys every time they go to a club
Becauae tge 5 minutes it takes to set up a couples profile stops that how exactly?
No idea but it works
How does it work?
Because the single guys wanting to attend with someone create a couple's account or come on their own"
Im still failing to see what has been achieved though?
Exactly the same people attend. Whether they have a couples profile or not is irrelevant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No3 in Chorley wants to know if you are on FAB or any other swingers sites as a couple. Otherwise yoy have to pay singles rates.
Yep they do, coz they've had too many people bringing in different guys claiming they're couples, so you'd have to create a couple's account with every single guy you want to go with
So they are only bothered about money. Nice.
If a genuine married couple wants to go, they have to create a Fab profile or have to pay single rates?! Sod that. We won't ever go there again. (But we won't go there again anyway because of other reasons that are irrelevant to this thread.)
It's not about money it's to stop people bringing in random guys every time they go to a club
Becauae tge 5 minutes it takes to set up a couples profile stops that how exactly?
No idea but it works
How does it work?
Because the single guys wanting to attend with someone create a couple's account or come on their own
Im still failing to see what has been achieved though?
Exactly the same people attend. Whether they have a couples profile or not is irrelevant. "
I wouldn't go again. If I am lucky enough to have 5 FB's ( I wish!) that I attend clubs with I don't think I should have to set up 5 couples profiles just to get into a club. When I went it was as a single female. I enquired about coming again with FB (who I do have a profile with) and felt like I wouldn't be welcome cos we were only fb's. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok so thanks for the updates! No mention of being a couple as other half not keen to go public on the net! Just to answer that question and is probably going to be a bit nervous at first?
So some require membership? Others don't is that correct? So which ones do and don't? Where is Eureka's? Pool sounds fun! Do some people just like to go to be afmired and have people wank to them? Would other couples normally approach you? Its all good news! Very helpfull people? X |
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