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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i am going to a club i have never been to before at the weekend and its a couples only club.....
been to clubs several times and played with single guys but never with couples....can anyone offer any advice???
do you just walk up to people introduce yourself and have a chat and take it from there??? do groups that are chatting mind if you join in the conversation.....how welcoming are couples to newbies???
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a couple we are always happy for someone to approach us even if its just to have a chat. When we have seen a group of people together it can feel like your butting in but usually thats not the case, your best bet is not to be shy the chances are you will be approached at some point, try not to let the nerves get the better of you (easier said than done) as you will find most folks are very friendly.
Which club are you attending? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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thanks for the advice....that all sounds reasonable...you know how its a worry in a new environment...we usually play with single guys so it will be a whole new experience!!
we are going to secrets in totnes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we go often to clubs and find that if you approach someone be polite and nice and people accept you...what people dont like are pushy and arrogent...hope you enjoy your couples night as most couples love being approached...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Secrets is a great place, but can be a little "cliquey". Ask the host and hostess to show you round and to introduce you to some people. They did it for us.
Or put a meet advert asking to meet you there.
Dont worry though, you will be ok, it is full of like minded playfull people too. It's couples only on Saturdays too, so one less thing to worry about.
Just relax and enjoy
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Thats what has always put us off going to a club...hardened swingers realising we are newbies and pushing themselves on us or single blokes making a nuisence of themselves...
I cant stand being pressured by a soppy double glazing salesman let alone someone who thought we were new guilable and naieve. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love chatting and flirting with couples but always find it a bit trickiy about broching the subject of playtime."
i soooo know where you're coming from!!! i have been fabulous place but didnt work for me....too much chat and not enough action!! i really think you need to be a bi fem for a couples only night to work as the women seem to drive everything......nice night nice place nice people...just not for me!! |
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