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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thought I would turn the "why can't I get meets" moans around!
So any top tips for those that can't get meets?
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Don't think I've met enough to be giving out top tips but just being pleasent and honest seems to work a little. |
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"I have no clue. But then I have no idea what specifically makes me want to meet someone else either; I just know it when I do."
Moi ?
No worries about saying no....had a beer.....unbreakable. ...ish |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't take myself too seriously... Or seriously at all 
I'm genuinely interested in the people I (try to) chat to and not just what I can get out of it.
Otherwise, I haven't the foggiest, lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think they want to fuck me. But some might just want to sample my pickles."
Seconded. Though in my case, it's more the latter.
I'm a real magnet for the Kodak hunters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See I knew there were people just putting up with a shag so they could make off with the pickled cucumbers.
I just feel used."
At least you have pickled cucumbers. I only have a half eaten Milky Bar and a singing toy cat to look at my place. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See I knew there were people just putting up with a shag so they could make off with the pickled cucumbers.
I just feel used.
At least you have pickled cucumbers. I only have a half eaten Milky Bar and a singing toy cat to look at my place. Lol "
I'm interested in the singing toy cat. ....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think they want to fuck me. But some might just want to sample my pickles.
What pickles do you have? "
Onions, eggs, cucumbers, cucamelons, cabbage, beetroot, beans. Also some kimchi which have started doing recently.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See I knew there were people just putting up with a shag so they could make off with the pickled cucumbers.
I just feel used.
At least you have pickled cucumbers. I only have a half eaten Milky Bar and a singing toy cat to look at my place. Lol
I'm interested in the singing toy cat. .... "
You should come round and see it. It makes a real racket and sings 'The Hills Are Alive' from start to finish |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See I knew there were people just putting up with a shag so they could make off with the pickled cucumbers.
I just feel used.
At least you have pickled cucumbers. I only have a half eaten Milky Bar and a singing toy cat to look at my place. Lol
I'm interested in the singing toy cat. ....
You should come round and see it. It makes a real racket and sings 'The Hills Are Alive' from start to finish "
Just for that. ... I'm on my way .... No other reason of course |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No idea , we struggle to find and get meets
It's ok, I'm sure things will pick up soon  "
Hooe so lol
But in all seriousness , every ine of our veri's is from a play meet .
We just dont do socials , and in just over a year , the true tally is probably double this when dogging and party / club meets are taken in .
And before the high and mighty ' quality not quantity ' brigade start .... What's up with a quantity of quality ?
It's simple to get meets - you get out there and meet people in clubs , parties , dogging , look on meets advertised , and get on with it .
Too much chatting , socialising and thinking will slow your progress .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be positive, get out there and meet real people and realise there is more to swinging than fab. What is very important to treat people as you would like to be treated |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a great body, amazing long legs, a very sexy butt and my play skills aren't too bad either (-;
It's just a shame I can't meet everyone I want to... |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Have decent photos and a reasonable profile so people can decide if they fancy you and if they think there might be mutual interest.
Write an appealing first message. It needn't be long but it should be personal and give the recipient something to reply to.
When mailing a woman (if she's anything like me) be light-hearted to begin with and establish a bit of a rapport. Don't launch in with sex talk immediately. Engage their mind first. Sex talk may well fall flat with someone who isn't in the mood. Get them interested and in a receptive state first. |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
Retirement Village |
I'd say be yourself and don't pander to what you think may be the "liked" variety on here.
If someone likes you it'll come out in the way you are and if they don't then don't take it to heart |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I changed my profile name as a hint lol
wrote my profile to attract party and club goers
get of my phat arse and go to partys and clubs, to meet people
at end of day im just me cant sit around waiting for a man I like. Much better to hunt them down for real and devour them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im not sure if it's me or the lack of men down south. I have met a few who are nearish to me. I'm waiting for firsts with two of them, let alone seconds. But I don't understand why I get messages and interest from hundreds of miles away, knowing they won't travel down  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think they want to fuck me. But some might just want to sample my pickles.
What pickles do you have?
Onions, eggs, cucumbers, cucamelons, cabbage, beetroot, beans. Also some kimchi which have started doing recently.
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You make Kimchi?!....
I adore Kimchi, send me your address and I'll bring a spoon! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think people have met me because I'm easygoing and genuine, no hidden agenda, and single with no complications. Oh and respectful.
Even have a laugh, now and again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think they want to fuck me. But some might just want to sample my pickles.
What pickles do you have?
Onions, eggs, cucumbers, cucamelons, cabbage, beetroot, beans. Also some kimchi which have started doing recently.
You make Kimchi?!....
I adore Kimchi, send me your address and I'll bring a spoon! "
Started last year when we had an excess cabbage - sounds disgusting, tastes good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think they want to fuck me. But some might just want to sample my pickles. What about yer gherkins.. "
We have some gherkins but they're shop bought. My youngest devours them very quickly so they don't last long. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not sure if it's me or the lack of men down south. I have met a few who are nearish to me. I'm waiting for firsts with two of them, let alone seconds. But I don't understand why I get messages and interest from hundreds of miles away, knowing they won't travel down "
Possibly so that they can have a discreet wank ? |
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Just be you, some will like it and some won't as with everything in life...be honest, respectful of others boundaries and keep it fun...don't be disheartened or bitter about knock backs and don't change anything about yourself to get meets, just be you, that's all you can be...oh and get your personality across through your profile instead of 'filling it in later'...oh and keep a diary if you haven't got one already haha! We all have our own preferences don't we so put them on your profile, make it clear about what you're like/what you're looking for and hopefully they'll match someone else's preferences.
I get meets because I'm straightforward I think and have no hidden agenda, I'm just here for some fun, it works for some and doesn't for others...half the fun is getting to perv at all the sexy women on here and in finding like minded people I think and realising just how many horny bastards are into the same things as you, for me it's cunt! (My choice of language doesn't work for everyone but I'm not changing it cos it's me, like I said it works for some and doesn't for others).
Happy swinging you filthy animals!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go to socials or clubs but I think joining in on the chat in forums plays a massive part in getting your personality out there. You can like a person even before you see them by how there come across on the forums . Its all about getting yourself out there and in some standing out from the other 1000s of guys on the site |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
time, patience, think with your brain instead with your cock, and use a bit of basic common sense.....
the most options you don't close (socials and clubs) the more likely you are to successful....
oh an why do people want to meet me.... cause i am 'luffly'....... aint no better me than me!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think they want to fuck me. But some might just want to sample my pickles. What about yer gherkins..
We have some gherkins but they're shop bought. My youngest devours them very quickly so they don't last long."
I tryed them when I was younger but they
Did,nt appeal to me then I think as you
get older you prefer some things more.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think they want to fuck me. But some might just want to sample my pickles. What about yer gherkins..
We have some gherkins but they're shop bought. My youngest devours them very quickly so they don't last long.I tryed them when I was younger but they
Did,nt appeal to me then I think as you
get older you prefer some things more.."
He buys them instead of biscuits! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think they want to fuck me. But some might just want to sample my pickles. What about yer gherkins..
We have some gherkins but they're shop bought. My youngest devours them very quickly so they don't last long.I tryed them when I was younger but they
Did,nt appeal to me then I think as you
get older you prefer some things more..
He buys them instead of biscuits!"
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
Retirement Village |
"Just be you, some will like it and some won't as with everything in life...be honest, respectful of others boundaries and keep it fun...don't be disheartened or bitter about knock backs and don't change anything about yourself to get meets, just be you, that's all you can be...oh and get your personality across through your profile instead of 'filling it in later'...oh and keep a diary if you haven't got one already haha! We all have our own preferences don't we so put them on your profile, make it clear about what you're like/what you're looking for and hopefully they'll match someone else's preferences.
I get meets because I'm straightforward I think and have no hidden agenda, I'm just here for some fun, it works for some and doesn't for others...half the fun is getting to perv at all the sexy women on here and in finding like minded people I think and realising just how many horny bastards are into the same things as you, for me it's cunt! (My choice of language doesn't work for everyone but I'm not changing it cos it's me, like I said it works for some and doesn't for others).
Happy swinging you filthy animals! "
This gets 2 
Said in a better way than i managed |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Just be you, some will like it and some won't as with everything in life...be honest, respectful of others boundaries and keep it fun...don't be disheartened or bitter about knock backs and don't change anything about yourself to get meets, just be you, that's all you can be...oh and get your personality across through your profile instead of 'filling it in later'...oh and keep a diary if you haven't got one already haha! We all have our own preferences don't we so put them on your profile, make it clear about what you're like/what you're looking for and hopefully they'll match someone else's preferences.
I get meets because I'm straightforward I think and have no hidden agenda, I'm just here for some fun, it works for some and doesn't for others...half the fun is getting to perv at all the sexy women on here and in finding like minded people I think and realising just how many horny bastards are into the same things as you, for me it's cunt! (My choice of language doesn't work for everyone but I'm not changing it cos it's me, like I said it works for some and doesn't for others).
Happy swinging you filthy animals!
This gets 2
Said in a better way than i managed "
This gets a from me. Eloquently put by both of you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thought I would turn the "why can't I get meets" moans around!
So any top tips for those that can't get meets?
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any point at all to this post apart from smug forumites comments? |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Thought I would turn the "why can't I get meets" moans around!
So any top tips for those that can't get meets?
any point at all to this post apart from smug forumites comments?"
Define smug? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thought I would turn the "why can't I get meets" moans around!
So any top tips for those that can't get meets?
any point at all to this post apart from smug forumites comments?"
I see the point as providing common sence and helpful advice. Perhaps I'm missing something? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thought I would turn the "why can't I get meets" moans around!
So any top tips for those that can't get meets?
any point at all to this post apart from smug forumites comments?"
Not to sure what you mean by smug forumites comments, just a thread to share tips on what works for others!
Nothing smug about my posts at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thought I would turn the "why can't I get meets" moans around!
So any top tips for those that can't get meets?
any point at all to this post apart from smug forumites comments?
Not to sure what you mean by smug forumites comments, just a thread to share tips on what works for others!
Nothing smug about my posts at all "
Its fun to be new and find your own way if you really are genuine,you just seem condecending with this post |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thought I would turn the "why can't I get meets" moans around!
So any top tips for those that can't get meets?
any point at all to this post apart from smug forumites comments?
Not to sure what you mean by smug forumites comments, just a thread to share tips on what works for others!
Nothing smug about my posts at all Its fun to be new and find your own way if you really are genuine,you just seem condecending with this post"
Not condescending at all, do a search on how many people ask for advice on getting meets or making their profiles stand out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thought I would turn the "why can't I get meets" moans around!
So any top tips for those that can't get meets?
any point at all to this post apart from smug forumites comments?
Not to sure what you mean by smug forumites comments, just a thread to share tips on what works for others!
Nothing smug about my posts at all Its fun to be new and find your own way if you really are genuine,you just seem condecending with this post
Not condescending at all, do a search on how many people ask for advice on getting meets or making their profiles stand out! "
misread apologies |
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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago
London / Herts |
I don't really see what this thread is driving at, when I see that a sizeable number of MF and F profiles are effectively one sentence long. You can hardly start a meaningful conversation with such little information... |
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The way to get meets are have a six pack / toned or slim body, be tall, be very well endowed and don't sound like a dick in your messages. Simple as.
Shame if you bigger but have amazing skills to get a woman of HA |
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