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Is a regular fb that hard to find?

By *ampWithABrain OP Woman over a year ago

Glasgow

Lots of profiles say they want someone regular but rarely will they meet more than once. Ideally I'd like a regular fb who's fine with me meeting others and sometimes taking part in threesomes and moresomes either with or without them. If you've got a regular fb how did it come about?

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By *reelove1969Couple over a year ago

bristol

love it ..its how we like things to work ..usually lay our cards on the table and if it aint for others they move on

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By *ampWithABrain OP Woman over a year ago

Glasgow

Is it how you met?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I met my fb through plenty of sheep, knew we didnt want more than sex but wanted the fun couples have with added extras. We now meet when hes home and he gets to play with others and I play with others. Win win!

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By *reelove1969Couple over a year ago

bristol

nah we never met on here ..worked together in our teens but weve had a few long term meets off here that have been very successful

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe if you advertise your looking for regular FB, some may take advantage and say they are too, just to get a meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wish.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

when I had one I didn't go looking it just happened.....I'm looking now and cant find one so I think its a a case of not looking just enjoying what does come your way and letting things happen as they happen

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've got a semi-regular fb, semi because I can't meet her as often as I'd like. It happened that we both wanted a second session after the first and it just contimued. I would like another though, as per my profile.

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I've had fbs in the past who I met occasionally for sex. Didn't call them fbs. Just guys I shagged.

The fb I have now I met on another site. It was just a one off to begin with but got on so well we saw each other again and again.

I think fbs evolve. You can't decide after a first meet.

I've had guys say they will be my fb before even meeting. Don't know how they work that one out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mmmm x i have a delicious fwb x

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By *mrandyMan over a year ago

Chesterfield

Met on here a few months ago ... Expected the usual one off session but enjoyed each other and agreed to meet again.... We did and have continued to do so, happily exploring our mutual interests, very satisfying being with someone of similar mindset who enjoys sex and shares a wish fir adventure .... We are in the early days and are beginning to look at broadening our horizons to play different games and include others ... Thanks for the joy of sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I met my fb through plenty of sheep, knew we didnt want more than sex but wanted the fun couples have with added extras. We now meet when hes home and he gets to play with others and I play with others. Win win! "

Baaa baaa

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Maybe mine isn't a fb then just a semi regular

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A good mans hard to find.....or should that be a hard mans good to find

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By *andy_tomMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

Your looking in the wrong place, I am here and waiting to be found,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me it wasn´t so hard to find someone, but it´s really hard to be just FB, without any feelings when you meet them 5-6 times a week

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We started off as friends on here a very long time ago and it evolved from regular playmates to a lot more. We love each other to bits and although neither of us wanted an FB or to be a couple it happened. Initially I told him I wouldn't be fucking anyone but him. 3 months later he became exclusive to me. We then had a chat and decided why the hell not just admit we a couple and get a couples profile on, and have fun together. It's working great and we've been together for quite a while now. Close on 4 years since we became fbs. Couple for nearly 3.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a wonderful fb, took a while to find him and he lives miles away but the company and sex is worth it.

I have a local guy I have known a year, seen him a few times too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've had guys say they will be my fb before even meeting. Don't know how they work that one out. "

I think it is about stating intention - ie. provided your meeting goes well, they are eager to see you again and again (and again)! I agree with you though that FB arrangements can be very fluid, mostly because even now they are not a relating style people are used to/there is no blue print to follow.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wasn't looking for a fb but always state that I prefer regular meets. Met someone on here and we clicked as people. We meet most weeks and are now happy to play with others as a couple.

I've still no wish to be exclusive, but it is good to have found someone who's become a good friend too.

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By *eedelightsWoman over a year ago

London

"I wasn't looking for a fb but always state that I prefer regular meets. Met someone on here and we clicked as people. We meet most weeks and are now happy to play with others as a couple.

I've still no wish to be exclusive, but it is good to have found someone who's become a good friend too. "

Thats what i am looking for

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By *renchbambi xWoman over a year ago

Need to know basis

First guy I met on here became a regular. We both liked going to Chams bi-nights, exploring, enabling each other's fantasies. Then I moved and it stopped

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd like one but never seem to get more than one meet lately.

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By *aidbacklookingMan over a year ago

this town

I've found the same issue, met a couple of ppl after chatting for a while but not found somebody that hits those buttons yet. The search goes on is suppose.

Happy hunting ppl

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman over a year ago

Deviant City

met mine at a club, as friends, he already had a gf, then when that sadly ended, I was a shoulder to cry on. He started to come to with me to clubs, as friends and it just went from there. We just like each others company and we have fun and shenanigans with other couples. We are not exclusive to each other and we still enjoy solo meets with others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm looking for one but find it hard as a single guy meet one I'm new to this kind of thing still finding my feet. With my life at minute a FB would be perfect solution. I will keep trying fingers crossed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find museli, fresh fruit and prune juice keeps my fb regular.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes it is lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My old FB is on here too still meet up loads.

Met him on a dating site years ago.

Ideal as he used to pair up with me to go to parties made me feel safe xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have 2 regular fb i found on this site that i still see. It's quite sweet too as they deleted their profiles after a couple of months. Heehee!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Still looking

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've been here for nearly 5 years and still looking!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the perfect (for me) FB is very hard to find. Oh well, the search continues.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah I'm another looking too. I accept I'm not everyone's cup of tea so I'll have to be patient! But I'm a nice fella so here's hoping someone will give me a chance

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By *leasuresharerMan over a year ago

southampton

Looking guilty as only been back in the country a few weeks and have found one and another one who is looking good

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I had one once. Met him on another site and thought it was a one off. Then over the years it just got more and more regular. We managed 8 years before he started getting clingy and telling me I couldn't meet other guys so it can be done. Just be aware that there are men out there who say they want a FB but actually want to be in control.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes everyone wants one offs here, I as well want an fb but maibe the dream is better than the reality lol

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

"when I had one I didn't go looking it just happened.....I'm looking now and cant find one so I think its a a case of not looking just enjoying what does come your way and letting things happen as they happen"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ooo ohhhh I wish

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think I'll give up on the idea

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Think I'll give up on the idea "

Oi don't give up x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Think I'll give up on the idea

Oi don't give up x"

All talk though

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By *otTheReal01Man over a year ago

London

I met my FWB on here. It wasn't the intention to be long term at the outset but we got on so well and had such a good time it just became a regular thing. We've been seeing each other roughly once per week for about nine months now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We managed 8 years before he started getting clingy and telling me I couldn't meet other guys so it can be done. Just be aware that there are men out there who say they want a FB but actually want to be in control."

Eight years! How can he go for that long and *then* flip? What changed?

I hear you re. control. Fear and insecurities have a lot to answer for!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I met my FWB on here. It wasn't the intention to be long term at the outset but we got on so well and had such a good time it just became a regular thing. We've been seeing each other roughly once per week for about nine months now."

mmmm x its great x i enjoy it too x

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple over a year ago

Bradford

I've had fbs in the past who I met occasionally for sex. Didn't call them fbs. Just guys I shagged.

The fb I have now I met on another site. It was just a one off to begin with but got on so well we saw each other again and again.

I think fbs evolve. You can't decide after a first meet.

I've had guys say they will be my fb before even meeting. Don't know how they work that one out. "

We stumbled into this purely by chance but both thoroughly enjoyed it. So much so that we would like another similar situation.

Seems that finding the right guy purely by chance was just that though!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Still looking difficult being a tv but not giving up hope

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Still looking difficult being a tv but not giving up hope

Its even harder for the radio

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive got a few I met through party scene been seeing since last October. They follow my diary and meet at partys im at and I go to theres for private meets,trouble is they are all in London areas

I havent got any local fbs as that hard to find as fussy and they have to be single but they get clingy and want more. So I get rid lol

finding a fb isnt a easy task.you meet once then 2or3 times and a fb relationship kinda develops

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive got a few I met through party scene been seeing since last October. They follow my diary and meet at partys im at and I go to theres for private meets,trouble is they are all in London areas

I havent got any local fbs as that hard to find as fussy and they have to be single but they get clingy and want more. So I get rid lol

finding a fb isnt a easy task.you meet once then 2or3 times and a fb relationship kinda develops"

You are rather good at finding FBs for other people too

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By *andy_tomMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

no there not hard to find , your just looking in the wrong place , i am here ready and waiting to be found ,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Had a couple of regular fb's in the past, at the times when met them feelings from their sides feelings developed and it got wierd as told them from the outset wasnt looking for girlfriends as wasn't in the headspace to deal with that at the time, both wonderful women and if now things could have developed into something more.

I have one FB have been meeting for over 5 years see each other a few times a year due to distance we live apart but speak reguarly both dont want anything more from each other but friendship and mindblowing sex

Am happy now if meet someone to meet them very regular goto clubs with and meet others with.

OP it is hard to meet genuine FB's on here but does happen when least expect it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Single, accommodating fb's are non existent.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Single, accommodating fb's are non existent.

Tell me about it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Single, accommodating fb's are non existent.

Tell me about it

Maybe there is someone on here who is good at finding them for women like us

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Single, accommodating fb's are non existent.

Tell me about it

Maybe there is someone on here who is good at finding them for women like us

I'm looking but it's hard for single guy find one

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By *entkevMan over a year ago

Dover

This is an impossible task on here.

Ive been looking for a FWB... FB .. for over a year... nowt, nothing, zero... ive only heard from Lord lucan.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive got a few I met through party scene been seeing since last October. They follow my diary and meet at partys im at and I go to theres for private meets,trouble is they are all in London areas

I havent got any local fbs as that hard to find as fussy and they have to be single but they get clingy and want more. So I get rid lol

finding a fb isnt a easy task.you meet once then 2or3 times and a fb relationship kinda develops

You are rather good at finding FBs for other people too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They're not hard to find... Or maybe that's just me.

But they are a complete pain in the ass. Men getting jealous and controlling when I want to fuck others. Happened to me 4 times now and I won't entertain another. All I can say is rules need to be clear from day 1. And if they want more and you don't remind them that women love sex as much as men.

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

Had two since |I have been on here.......its ok as long as the rules are set out!!!!!........we just met others when we were not meeting eachother........whats so hard!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm certainly in the market for a regular FB. I don't have a problem with them fucking other guys and I expect the same from the person I meet. If I wanted one person I'd have a relationship.

But finding someone for a one off is hard enough let alone finding someone for something regular.

I'm very easy going, polite, friendly, very discreet. Confident but not cocky and know what I'm personally here for.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Still looking difficult being a tv but not giving up hope

Its even harder for the radio

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likes my nipples bein twiddled with lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I feel very lucky then. I have two fb's. One I see at least once a week. One is single. Own house etc. Lovely sweet natured guy. He is my sensual lover. Introduced me to tantric sex. It's mindblowing. I go to him to de stress.

The other loves hard rough sex. But is also very needy. Loves his cuddles.

So depending on my mood. I have choice. And god what a choice lol

Just be patient and stipulate what you want from the outset.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I feel very lucky then. I have two fb's. One I see at least once a week. One is single. Own house etc. Lovely sweet natured guy. He is my sensual lover. Introduced me to tantric sex. It's mindblowing. I go to him to de stress.

The other loves hard rough sex. But is also very needy. Loves his cuddles.

So depending on my mood. I have choice. And god what a choice lol

Just be patient and stipulate what you want from the outset.

I too have more than one and I get different experiences from each. They are all very different physically too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I did have 4 now 2 but I have possibles. .

I have quite a few waiting as well. ..

All wanting me.... it's mad I've never been this popular. .. lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I did have 4 now 2 but I have possibles. .

I have quite a few waiting as well. ..

All wanting me.... it's mad I've never been this popular. .. lol"

Have also had a few that I thought could

Be... but did not work out....

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"A good mans hard to find.....or should that be a hard mans good to find

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By *egs11Woman over a year ago

liverpool

Would love a local fb

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have one....but she don't meet as a couple normally. She has gone off parties n clubs etc....so we just meet up for 1-2-1 every cpl of weeks.

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By *onnyforfunMan over a year ago

Doncaster

ive been looking ever since ive been on here happy with my life and being single used to play with my wife and loved watching her with other guys till the angels took her but all the women who say they want a regular seem miles away but as i work a 4 on 4 off shift pattern and can travel or accom starting to look further afield so any fem looking for someone to meet others go to clubs regular pm me please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes she is in answer to the op.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's almost impossible to find one......I thinks it's the holy grail for most single swingers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is what I'm after too. There's no way I could manage a full relationship right now but that doesn't mean I don't want sex.

A few years ago I split from my gf but we carried on fucking for almost a year. That was some of the best sex I've ever had.

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I've had guys say they will be my fb before even meeting. Don't know how they work that one out.

No I mean guys who have said they WILL be my fb!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe if you advertise your looking for regular FB, some may take advantage and say they are too, just to get a meet

welcome to my world...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not impossible just bloody difficult for the guys to be taken seriously.

My fb and I had over 20 years together, both married. We played carefully and sensibly and our respective partners and families always had priority full stop. I know many ladies on here looking for a fwb are generally looking for a true single who can accommodate and for whatever reason they can't and that's fine but if you mention hotel's you get pilloried for it. Now I enjoyed the occasional al fresco romp but do enjoy the bed and I'm definitely not a back seat of the car kind of guy.

I try to respect people's profiles and don't bother those who state no married. I have my reasons for being on here and they are to meet a need like everyone else on here. I don't criticise those who display reams of verifications, nor those who have fetishs or those who enjoy all aspects of swinging. I try to set filters but they are basic and a bit hit and missy. I would like to see a filter that allows you to search for a fwb who is married or look for one who will play with married people. As mine and another said to me "you're a safe option as it's clear what we want and neither wants to upset the status of our respective lives" just gets a bit harder as you get older as you don't socialise in the same as you did when you were younger.

I've read all the messages linked to this and can see all the points raised from both sides and respect the views expressed of those who detest the idea of men cheating and they get quite vocal about it which is fine but the reasons why married people look for sexual solace with another like minded person are so wide ranging and complex that it is unfair to assume all are bad people. Not all marriages are as sexually liberated as the couples are on here. Life sometimes takes a funny turn . And yes the option quoted is to leave if you're that unhappy but some people change and why should I leave someone I love just because their needs or desires have changed.

Ok, I'm ready for the inevitable but before you criticise just put yourself in the same position. For those that will leave or kick out the partner or have the opportunity to get their partners to counselling and it works or those who simply do nothing and accept a sexless marriage I commend you.

For me, the important part of having a fwb was actually the friend part and finding someone who felt the same as me. I had more coffee meets than sex meets and it was never about bemoaning about the lack of sex or the fact she doesn't understand me, it was being able to spend time with someone who could understand and appreciate what each of our partners provided us with outside of a healthy sex life and yes occasionally helping each other out frustration wise. The act of making love meets a deep seated desire for intimacy that can only be metnby coupling. And yes, sometimes you wind each other up and tease mercilessly until clothes get ripped of and the wall gets a hammering of the headboard but again all part of a healthy sex life. .

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By *exycouple68Couple over a year ago

herefordshire

I met my fb on here only prob was we fell in love so no longer fbs but a very naughty couple

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I met my fb on here only prob was we fell in love so no longer fbs but a very naughty couple "

That's great. We both had families she moved away through work otherwise I wouldn't be on here. There was talk of us chasing each other around in our zimmerframes!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" I wish....."

They're out there...just not around here it seems.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have spoken to some really nice people, just the practicality of driving for hours isn't feasible or fair on either side and families. Rather go without and certainly mot interested in a quick one off.

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By *bapCouple over a year ago

Blackpool

we have a had a few fb's for miss A but something always happens, i.e they move away or end up getting a partner

havnt got one at the min

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not impossible just bloody difficult for the guys to be taken seriously.

I've never had a fwb but would like something similar to this preferably a single guy. Coffee meets are good as I like being in good company but am missing the sexual side too. It's been a while

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By *ovely CummingsWoman over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

I don't think you can find them, they are just meets that keep repeating to the point you become friends. At least that's what's always happened with me.

I'm very clear I prefer meeting people more than once, looking for friends with more rather than just one off meets.

If the chemistry isn't there after a social and a play meet though, the meets tend to fizzle out.

I've got some lovely people I know that I can arrange play with, but they aren't seen as regularly as others that are now close friends, my best friend I met on here, helped set him up with his now partner. So it can happen, just have to be open for it I think

Think it's good to be clear on your intent, some will never met more than once or thers those of us that are open to more, whatever that may be.

But, just have fun meeting people is the golden rule I think, what will be will be

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The problem with single guys is that they may want to settle down and unless you're looking for yourself too it may only ever be a short term thing. I rarely play with singles and usually with people who are in loving stable relationships. I realised long ago that I only played with people who would not threaten my marriage or theirs. I am still friends with and keep in contact with most of the women I have slept with. I still meet them for coffee or lunch and see them around school etc. Unless youve known each other since nursery Friends first sex second. I have a friend who wants to but won't sleep with me because I have children but when they are 16 then that's a different matter

As someone said above fb's just suddenly happen on by.good luck

I've never had a fwb but would like something similar to this preferably a single guy. Coffee meets are good as I like being in good company but am missing the sexual side too. It's been a while

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Single, accommodating fb's are non existent.

I found one x

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By *horltzMan over a year ago

heysham

Had one , was great until she wanted more , had to end it as I didn't !! Still looking , hard to find

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple over a year ago

Spondon

We have a bi male FB we met from a different site. He's still around and we meet up every other month or so. Trouble is we're a little greedy, we have been looking around for another one (or more) and ideally, a couple or a single bi female.

Mind you, it's not like we've been trying 'really' hard!

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By *ummy mummyWoman over a year ago

southampton-ish

I am very happy to have found a great fwb.I like that we can just hang out and chill as well as have amazing sex.I chose to make the decision to just meet him and have stated so on my profile that at the moment I am not looking to meet others... But I don't automatically expect that of him.

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

I am one. A single and very accommodating fb in waiting.

Applications on a post card to.....ooh hold on.

I also have a spare lovehoney deluxe wand set going.

....to

nmw

Rugby

Dont hurt yourselves in the stampede

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Group fun and fuck buddies We are regulars in our own little group 3m 2f but free to include others as and when any of us fancy... Again win win

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree that it is not as easy as one may thing finding someone who is regular and more than a once a week buddy. Its also very difficult to get yourself up and running on sites such as these......single men, very difficult to get yourself established. I find it just simpler to stick with married ladies who come on here for one specific reason.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Which I why I think there should be a filter option to specify if either party are both willing to and play with a married person without their spouses knowing. For a start it would make searching easier and prevent some people becoming inundated with unwelcome messages.
"I agree that it is not as easy as one may thing finding someone who is regular and more than a once a week buddy. Its also very difficult to get yourself up and running on sites such as these......single men, very difficult to get yourself established. I find it just simpler to stick with married ladies who come on here for one specific reason.

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By *urvy_J3Woman over a year ago

Bradford

I am also looking for a fuck buddy someone I get on with so we can chill have a drink etc and lots of fun in the bedroom without the commitment and other stresses of a relationship im really struggling to find this and think a lot of guys say they are looking for the same just to meet me but never meet me again

maybe they didnt like me or enjoy it

this gets slightly worrying as its the same story everytime I meet someone am I doing something wrong??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would love to meet 1 or 2 regular playmates yet everyone insists on 'verified' people yet how do you get verified if no one meets you lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am also looking for a fuck buddy someone I get on with so we can chill have a drink etc and lots of fun in the bedroom without the commitment and other stresses of a relationship im really struggling to find this and think a lot of guys say they are looking for the same just to meet me but never meet me again

maybe they didnt like me or enjoy it

this gets slightly worrying as its the same story everytime I meet someone am I doing something wrong??"

I also have this problem

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Would love to meet 1 or 2 regular playmates yet everyone insists on 'verified' people yet how do you get verified if no one meets you lol.

Go to socials. One coming up in Sheffield soon.

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By *ucyfur77Woman over a year ago

Pleasuretown

since i first came here ive had 3..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fuck buddies are easier to find than a friend with benefits. Just regular sex without the socialising is a fuck buddy to me, or as I prefer to call them,regular partners. Mine just happened when I wasn't looking and none from here. They all seem to be too busy to meet regularly on here

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By *habsMan over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

When I started I wasn't even looking for a "fb", just a few regulars (ok, 4 or 5) in rotation over the month,.. this proved (after a few year) hard to accomplish,.. some got possessive (ie "What are you doing DANCING with that girl? you're here with me!" that was fun.. not!)

But things can work, just depends on your approach: mine was to stop looking for it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

By quickly discovering we're both incredibly kinky

King has other fwbs, so I need to play catch up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Still looking...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Had one for a few months....was going great until she got "clingy" and obviously wanted much more.

She is still on here...with her new partner, now husband, who she actually met at a party at my place....nowt so queer as folks!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't even get someone for a social let alone fb.... I think it's because I'm random in my status and by my thread I'm supposedly arrogant I'm not. I text how I speak n think and it just don't come across in a correct manner.. I care for the blind for a living so somewhere there's a missing link to me and you....

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By *upcake68Woman over a year ago

Ely

Met my FWB on here, chatted for a long time with no idea we would become FWB's as he was over my age limit, not local etc etc. We then met @ an organised social & the rest is history as they say

We only meet once a month as that's what works for us, keeps things "Fresh" so to speak

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By *allen MadonnaWoman over a year ago

In my own little world

No one will have me! Stupidly independent and apparently I intimidate guys

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By *he Ring WraithMan over a year ago

Bradford

No one will have me; being old fat and fugly don't help my cause !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No chance of finding one. I'm no one's cup of tea. Too shy and unadventurous

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't want a fb, but fwb, now that's a different story

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have said lots of times i'm looking for a fb in this topic, not one women on here has sent me a massage or even looked at my profile, no wonder fb are hard to find!!!!

Maybe my pic is too ugly???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm same bruv... I just think it's a matter of way to many clicks not enough pussy.... Well I'm convincing myself it's that pmsl

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By *nigmatic1Woman over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

"I wouldn't want a fb, but fwb, now that's a different story

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh hard to please has all the fwb!!! That's why there's hardly any left!! Lol!!

Lucky you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would love a fwb who likes to play.

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

"I wouldn't want a fb, but fwb, now that's a different story

This

How about a DFWB ?

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By *ookworm258Man over a year ago

Wythenshawe

I have a fwb, did meet her on her at a social. Started chatting and found we got on like a house on fire. Shared same interests and even worked in the same industry. We make no demands on each other and can happily have a coffee and chat when either wants to as well as sex. She always comes to mine as she has children so I can understand and respect the wishes of them not knowing about who is in their mum's life.

If an ugly git like me can have a situation like this anyone can.

If any women in North West are after this then please message me.

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By *nigmatic1Woman over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

"I wouldn't want a fb, but fwb, now that's a different story

This

How about a DFWB ?"

DFWB?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Would love a fwb who likes to play. "

Scrabble?

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By *entadreadMan over a year ago

Essex

I like your logic,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't want a fb, but fwb, now that's a different story

This

How about a DFWB ?"

Profile states leg up... are you temporarily "D"isabled?

Or could it be a deaf fwb, as that might be an idea for us noisy ones

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd love one lol

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By *3PKMan over a year ago

near windsor

Bang them well enough the first time and then they will always be back for more

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

"I wouldn't want a fb, but fwb, now that's a different story

This

How about a DFWB ?

Profile states leg up... are you temporarily "D"isabled?

Or could it be a deaf fwb, as that might be an idea for us noisy ones

Have you been spying on me

I have no idea how noisy you are but I'd be willing to wear ear defenders if required.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't want a fb, but fwb, now that's a different story

This

How about a DFWB ?

Profile states leg up... are you temporarily "D"isabled?

Or could it be a deaf fwb, as that might be an idea for us noisy ones

Have you been spying on me

I have no idea how noisy you are but I'd be willing to wear ear defenders if required.

What is the D for then?

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

Distant .....bit of an anticlimax but there you go.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't want a fb, but fwb, now that's a different story "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Distant .....bit of an anticlimax but there you go.

Perhaps a VFWB?

Virtual...

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

No...she gets my way once a week so an actual, weekly fwb.

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

Or Friends Weekly Benefits

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By *nigmatic1Woman over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

"No...she gets my way once a week so an actual, weekly fwb."

So what if she gets there twice a week?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course it is been looking for ages

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

"No...she gets my way once a week so an actual, weekly fwb.

So what if she gets there twice a week?

The the benefits package improves. But I guess it will be performance based.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They are out there....you just need to find one... which isn't as easy as it sounds...when you do... wowsers... for both of you..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Prefer regulars but don't want anyone too close if that makes sense. Trust, respect and lust are all I'm after - makes the playtime soooo much more interesting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think by posts it's something that just happens easier when not looking ?

The trick is to find someone who you can have fun and laughter with then once there is a click so that just having a chat is fun the fb is the easy part !

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By *upcake68Woman over a year ago

Ely

This is exactly what i have with my FWB.

Finding the FB part is relatively easy so to speak but finding someone who you click with so you can laugh/chat/enjoy being in each others company with sex or not is definitely the hardest part.....I have been very lucky in finding someone just like that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is exactly what i have with my FWB.

Very true Cups, Am very lucky too

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By *upcake68Woman over a year ago

Ely

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops

"Lots of profiles say they want someone regular but rarely will they meet more than once. Ideally I'd like a regular fb who's fine with me meeting others and sometimes taking part in threesomes and moresomes either with or without them. If you've got a regular fb how did it come about?"
found each other in a chat room in the new heady days of online chatting six years ago and then joined fab first as singles which we still have then set up a joint profile a bit later xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

dont think fbs exist to be honest. has to be the right one and is there such a thing?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"dont think fbs exist to be honest. has to be the right one and is there such a thing?

i dont think so.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I met my FB, who has become a very good friend, through a simple meet when we just got on very well. We met again several times before discussing meeting others together. We now meet others a lot as a couple but still shag each other's brains out in 1:1 meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is exactly what i have with my FWB.

Me too....

Couples profile coming up quite soon...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is exactly what i have with my FWB.

so lucky you've found them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have an amazing fwb ,he is my best friend and lover and its not all about swinging and sex either .A great bond and friendship as formed. We both had single profiles and now have a couples one so best of both worlds for us

.Its good if you can find someone on your wavelength been swinging for well over a year now and there's more fun to come and more laughs n mayhem.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kelly a great response as always

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Considering the amount of weirdos and nutcase's on this site I'm not surprised you're finding it hard plus it doesn't help the amount of messages women receive it's hard to read them all.

However there is genuine fun guys Just have to filter through to find them. I've met some great women on here and would class them as friends which is cool. Good luck with the search, they'll be someone round the corner.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its prooving harder than i originally thought...however im not looking intentionally. If it happens great if not then fine

Nice n naughty men apply within lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kelly a great response as always

thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kelly a great response as always

thank you "

no blushing miss. you always give good replies and good advice too, to your ranty stressy friends

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kelly a great response as always

thank you

no blushing miss. you always give good replies and good advice too, to your ranty stressy friends

"
well I do try. not sure I always help but always willing to listen and we all need a rant now and then madam x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kelly a great response as always

thank you

no blushing miss. you always give good replies and good advice too, to your ranty stressy friends

well I do try. not sure I always help but always willing to listen and we all need a rant now and then madam x"

you always help me and bring me back down to earth

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kelly a great response as always

thank you

no blushing miss. you always give good replies and good advice too, to your ranty stressy friends

well I do try. not sure I always help but always willing to listen and we all need a rant now and then madam x

you always help me and bring me back down to earth

anytime you know that x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I haven't even had one meet yet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yup its very hard to find specially if your an ugly mug like me lol a paki mug ha

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By *unnfantasyWoman over a year ago

nottingham

Ive got a long term fb we've been fucking since we were 17. Only stopped for 5 years when i was with someone. It came about when we were daring each other to do stuff and just went from there.

i also had more when i was younger now id love a few more fb but struggle to find any.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm on my second fb..first was a bolt out the blue and wasn't looking for one either that lasted nearly two years .Second guy the same thing .One social meet then a club meet a few weeks later .We get on great the sex is amazing just wish we could meet more often ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have to congratulate some of you guys on here, you seem to have found the dreamy scenario that some... and definitely me are looking for on here an amazing and beautiful FWB, hey... it's not all of us that duck and dive and dash after one meet to carlve another notch into the bed post.

I think a FWB is the best of both worlds, the enjoyment, rush and fun of the swing scene, without the complications of love (supposedly)

Unlike some guys on here, I treat every lady I meet.... As a lady!, regardless of sex or not.

I don't mind travelling reasonable distances.. and although I can't really accommodate (Military), I'd have no qualms organising and paying for hotel meet, a few drinks and a meal... If the lady enjoyed that.

hey, I'll find that elusive, beautiful, sexy Friend one day soon.

Ladies, if you're just passing time, have a little mosey over my profile... and give me a little critique and a pm, maybe some pointers on what I could be lacking.

Could help make a genuine gent an genuinely happy one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes still looking for Mr Elusive fwb/fb

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By *exycouple68Couple over a year ago

herefordshire

I met my regular fb in here he just messaged me . Met a couple of times then fell in love xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I met my regular fb in here he just messaged me . Met a couple of times then fell in love xx "

That's really nice to hear

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By *exycouple68Couple over a year ago

herefordshire

"I met my regular fb in here he just messaged me . Met a couple of times then fell in love xx

That's really nice to hear

Luckily hasnt stopped us being naughty xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We started off as friends on here a very long time ago and it evolved from regular playmates to a lot more. We love each other to bits and although neither of us wanted an FB or to be a couple it happened. Initially I told him I wouldn't be fucking anyone but him. 3 months later he became exclusive to me. We then had a chat and decided why the hell not just admit we a couple and get a couples profile on, and have fun together. It's working great and we've been together for quite a while now. Close on 4 years since we became fbs. Couple for nearly 3."

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By *ristol Fun 13Man over a year ago

Bristol

I would love to be able to find someone either local or within a hours drive of Bristol to become a regular fuck buddy.

Who would of thought it's so hard!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been on and off here for over a year now looking for a fb.

Now to me a fb is regular sex when you both have free time as in weekly, if I'm wrong then please tell me.

My search has been zero.

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

"Yes still looking for Mr Elusive fwb/fb

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All my FBs have been women I already know.

Pick them wisely, and ask tactfully.

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By *exycouple68Couple over a year ago

herefordshire

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By *ohohoWoman over a year ago

Up North

I think you need a have a few people you see on a regular basis. Otherwise I found that emotions became too involved and one of us would want more.

Having said that I found someone who was from day one so much more than a fwb/fb. We have been dating for over seven months now. It's great having a partner who likes sex as much as me x

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By *opjock69Couple over a year ago

Newport

Having a regular compatible "mate" that understands and appreciates that he is an extension of what a couple already has and not a substitute is very rewarding, esp as he was then around for 4 years!

Having a look around to replace him some 18months later however is proving to be much more difficult....... Perhaps it's just that our tick box is far toooooo long!!!!

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By *entkevMan over a year ago

Dover

"Having a regular compatible "mate" that understands and appreciates that he is an extension of what a couple already has and not a substitute is very rewarding, esp as he was then around for 4 years!

Having a look around to replace him some 18months later however is proving to be much more difficult....... Perhaps it's just that our tick box is far toooooo long!!!!

I was the third person for 6 months... best time of my life.

I've given up on trying to find a fwb or fwb couple, especially on this site.

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By *inkyandsweetCouple over a year ago

SW London

We are both looking for one as well but can't find one!!

The mrs is looking or a male and female fb and I am looking for a female.

It's a bit like gold dust!!!!!

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By *entkevMan over a year ago

Dover

"We are both looking for one as well but can't find one!!

The mrs is looking or a male and female fb and I am looking for a female.

It's a bit like gold dust!!!!!"

Ask the Mrs to view me

Maybe we could resolve each others search.

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By *andy_tomMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Your looking in the wrong place, I am here and waiting to be found,

still waiting for a regular FB.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not actively looking at the moment as I'm not available this week

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