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Strapless Strap on advice
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I recently bought a strapless strap on and wondered if anyone has any advice on how best to use them.
I have used it once and it seemed to work pretty well (my 'friend' seemed to enjoy it) but I just couldn't control the bloody thing!!! It was flapping about all over the place!!!
Can anyone help me?? Pleeeeeease!!  |
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By *ethot69Couple
over a year ago
Merseyside |
Basically the "user" places one end in their vagina and uses their vaginal muscles to in effect hold it, and it goes in the "taker" as usual.
Understand your confusion though. We've seen it in action once and it was a bastard to use. Much prefer the ones with straps  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Basically the "user" places one end in their vagina and uses their vaginal muscles to in effect hold it, and it goes in the "taker" as usual.
Understand your confusion though. We've seen it in action once and it was a bastard to use. Much prefer the ones with straps "
Thanks for that, I may need to invest in one with straps, shame as this one vibrates too!!! lol |
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By *ethot69Couple
over a year ago
Merseyside |
"As a man? Thoroughly depends but generally you want a streamlined one about 6'' designed for anal play. youll have to show me sometime!  "
When we get one that ISN'T the 10'' monstrosity we currently have! Told you this yesterday! xD |
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A lot of straight guys are not interested in receiving anal play with a toy of any sort as they see it as it diminishes their masculinity. They ought to try a toy they might enjoy it!
For me (Mr cf3), having Mrs cf3 use a dildo on me while giving me a BJ is awesome. We have a number of toys but the best two are a glass dildo and one made from what must be stainless steel!
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By *um2bedsWoman
over a year ago
dunstable |
you need to exercise those muscles, get better control, so that you can grip strongly. Make sure you SQUEEEEEZE your lover's cock frequently when you are having sex, and of course, try stopping your pee during mid flow, and you will soon have muscles to die for! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"you need to exercise those muscles, get better control, so that you can grip strongly. Make sure you SQUEEEEEZE your lover's cock frequently when you are having sex, and of course, try stopping your pee during mid flow, and you will soon have muscles to die for!"
Oh my pelvic floor muscles are pretty good...... lol
Who needs Tena lady?? lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do most guys like having a strap on used on them or fantasise about it???????"
i have only had it done once and thought it was great, looking forward to round two  |
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"do most guys like having a strap on used on them or fantasise about it???????
i have only had it done once and thought it was great, looking forward to round two "
hope i can find someone who can break me in slowly!!!! any takers out there???? |
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"do most guys like having a strap on used on them or fantasise about it???????"
Fantasy only so far but more than curious, something i want to try, with the right person/people. lol gently i think!!!!  |
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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago
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"do most guys like having a strap on used on them or fantasise about it???????"
Never used nor fantasised about it. Personally, being straight I think it would be a contradiction to consider inserting anything anally.
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To answer the post about being straight with strap-on sex, everyone is entitled to their own personal opinion and I very much of the opinion of shades of gray in relationships and sexuality, but a straight woman doing strap on with a straight man, that is can still be considered straight sex, kinky but straight
As for strap ons, I have a feeldoe but there is not enough control over it, so after a lot of research and thought I purchased a harness which has interchangable dildos and 2 plugs for the wearer, also removable and interchangable, not a cheap piece of kit but have used it a couple of times now and is awesome
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've found with my strapless strap on that the first few times its much easier to start things off in the spooning position then once you get to grips with keeping the bulb inside you then you can experiment with other positions.
Ella xx |
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