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over a year ago
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I've received a message today from a guy that has invited me to come to his hotel as there will be a couple there, the husband wants to watch his wife play with a girl and another guy.
What are the rules? I actually prefer to meet socially first so i'm not sure what to do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you're interested find out if the hotel has a bar that you can all meet in first,you would still be under no pressure to be involved and in a safe place if it does'nt feel right and you want to say no thank you
I would want to speak to the couple thats meant to be there too,just to make sure that there is actually another couple
The only rules are your own ones and no-one elses
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"If you're interested find out if the hotel has a bar that you can all meet in first,you would still be under no pressure to be involved and in a safe place if it does'nt feel right and you want to say no thank you
I would want to speak to the couple thats meant to be there too,just to make sure that there is actually another couple
The only rules are your own ones and no-one elses
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Thank you, its my first time but i know what to say in my reply now  |
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Do you have someone that will know where you are that evening if you decide to go?
Lots of the ladies on here have friends that will know where they are and who they're with,just to keep safer,does'nt have to be a vanilla friend that you would rather not know your business but one of your fab friends  |
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"Do you have someone that will know where you are that evening if you decide to go?
Lots of the ladies on here have friends that will know where they are and who they're with,just to keep safer,does'nt have to be a vanilla friend that you would rather not know your business but one of your fab friends "
I hadnt thought of that, would have to be someone on here, will think on that one, thanks again |
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why not arrange to meet for a drink in the hotel bar to see how things are,but do tell a fab friend all about the meet and get them to ring you 30 minutes into the meet to give you a "get-out call!"should you not feel safe at all,pre arrange calls for 30 mins,and 60 mins to give you these "get out" ie,options as trouble at home!,i got to go!.
be safe and enjoy!.
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"Ive got the name of the hotel now but still nothing about the couple, so i have asked again "
I would keep asking until you get the info you need to make you feel comfortable |
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"Ive got the name of the hotel now but still nothing about the couple, so i have asked again "
i myself think you ought to have a fem2fem chat first before you meet!,if you do not feel comfortable with anything do not go through with the meet!. |
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