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Looking for first meet but not going well
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im looking for my first meet, my profile says it all pretty much but i seem to get ignored in chat rooms and most my messages ignored or deleted  any advice on what i can do better? im a genuinely nice guy and very open minded so dont know what im doing wrong, hopefully someone can help me out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Straight answers?
Your age....not many on here will go with such a young lad.
Pics...you have no public pics
Profile text...too short and a bit bland
There is no "perfect" profile, as people have different tastes but take a look at those of guys with success....don't copy, as this is not you...but do get hints n ideas
Keep at it and good luck.
Also maybe go to club/social events? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The ratio is 100 men to 1 woman, your lucky if your finding a shag here within 2 years, then your doing really well.. tip, use fab for fun but don't rely on it for sex lol. |
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Get yourself verified by "meet in person". Best way to do this for your first one will probably be a social or go along to a swingers club?
When i first joined a swingers site (not this one) it took me 3 months to get my first meet, have some patience and stick with it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go to a club or a social and chat to folk there. Most people are lucky to get a meet within a month especially I would assume single guys. Be patient. It's not instashag.com |
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"Im looking for my first meet, my profile says it all pretty much but i seem to get ignored in chat rooms and most my messages ignored or deleted any advice on what i can do better? im a genuinely nice guy and very open minded so dont know what im doing wrong, hopefully someone can help me out "
you're 19 ffs!
find some mates and go to the pub / footy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im looking for my first meet, my profile says it all pretty much but i seem to get ignored in chat rooms and most my messages ignored or deleted any advice on what i can do better? im a genuinely nice guy and very open minded so dont know what im doing wrong, hopefully someone can help me out
you're 19 ffs!
find some mates and go to the pub / footy "
You're in your late 40's ffs!
Find some companions and go to the bingo  |
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"Go to a club or a social and chat to folk there. Most people are lucky to get a meet within a month especially I would assume single guys. Be patient. It's not instashag.com"
Did not know there was a site called instashag.com, sign us up.?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like the other said find a social or visit a club and just have a little patience. Make yourself know withing the forums too as people will get a good idea about who you are and what you're about from your posts. Good Luck |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
Theres loads of threads in the database containing generic profile advice,
I d busy myself reading and implementing the advice in them . at the moment yours will be lost in the mix 
Have fun, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Clubs and socials are a great way to get yourself known and gives you a foot up with the online side , here your just another single guy with another generic profile and predictable set of pictures. You will be descriminated against due to your age online however in a club your will find a different experience. Don't get frustrated sitting on fab take a big gulp and get your ass out there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take of the crap about face and body pics in message get your attention. You ain't gonna get messaged you will have to do the hard work here girls and couples receiving loads of messages are not going to go looking for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also take off the Sydney stuff it's fake- check out fab faqs to see why.
Take off very experienced your 19 and looking for your first meet - your not experienced in this world. You are maybe larger than average but your not very well endowed take it off also trim the pubes a bit |
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