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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey,
been thinking to try playing with another guy, wondered if anyone had any advice? In my head I've always imagined it in a threesome, being dared and encouraged by the female to play with the guy. Is a threesome the best way to try for the first time?
Also been suggested to go to a sauna? But I dont know if theres too intense or pressured?
Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just set up a meet with a single guy who can accommodate and explain the situation and take it from there and see how you like touching and sucking him off and him sucking you. |
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"Hey,
been thinking to try playing with another guy, wondered if anyone had any advice? In my head I've always imagined it in a threesome, being dared and encouraged by the female to play with the guy. Is a threesome the best way to try for the first time?
Also been suggested to go to a sauna? But I dont know if theres too intense or pressured?
Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated"
Don't do it!!!
Otherwise soon you'll be watching Disney films and singing along, going to Ikea to compare furnishing covers, and becoming very adept at colour co-ordination.... in other words, you will have caught the "Ghey"!
(Courtesy of the "Tongue firmly in cheek" Dept)  |
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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago
Gosport |
Saunas can take a bit of courage to go into for the first time but I've always found them relatively relaxed. Most bi/gay saunas will have a nominal no play rule in the spa area with areas set aside for more intimate encounters, although the occasional touching and sucking may still occur in the spa. This makes this a fairly good area to find out if your comfortable in the presence of naked men and aroused by them. |
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Yeah I'd recommend saunas, very relaxed and you can do as much or as little as you want. Funnily enough I find swingers clubs a bit hard work, they remind me of golf clubs all that fucking formality |
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My first bi experience was with a couple and as I was licking her, he starting sucking me and although I freaked a bit in my head, my cock was thinking 'suck harder' so I just continued licking her. Felt a bit weirded out after so tried again just to make sure....and again.....and again and then thought one day to my surprise 'steve, you're a bi guy'  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had always wanted to try the bi side of things, in a mff, that has not happened.
However at Christmas I conquered it with a bi female, after being on the site two months, and what an experience I must say, took me days to come down.
I'm still finding it hard to read the bi females signals, I won't push, but so willing to give it another go, I was very lucky with my first, broke me in so well.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Entirely up to u what u feel comfortable with. Personally I love mmf with bi guys lot more turn on than straight guys. I'm not into telling guys what to do with each other but if is guy been bi longer than I then chat in advance let him know ur boundaries and just have fun.
I tried bi fun with girl in mff not for me was too much pressure to perform and felt like I was being judged where as guys are always complimentary and don't tell u what feels good for u |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
Just be clear about what you want when you contact people. I think most of us have met someone who when push comes to shove has decided that they aren't as curious in person as when they are thinking about it. At least if you tell people prior, they know that the meet may be a fizzle.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the msgs guys! I think in my head its hottest in an MMF, but be hard to organise plus more pressure with two people.
So I am going to try and find a relaxed guy and explain and hope for a good meet and try stuff out, very nervous but find the idea such a turn on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hubby found it easier to explore bi in a threesome scenario. He lets guys know he needs to be comfortable with the situation and the guy before anything like that happens. I'll admit I love watching and joining in and I think this helps and encourages hubby |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"Hubby found it easier to explore bi in a threesome scenario. He lets guys know he needs to be comfortable with the situation and the guy before anything like that happens. I'll admit I love watching and joining in and I think this helps and encourages hubby "
I certainly agree. Everyone needs to be comfortable and relaxed and best is to just let it happen and anyone not comfortable can call an end to it at any time. J |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hubby found it easier to explore bi in a threesome scenario. He lets guys know he needs to be comfortable with the situation and the guy before anything like that happens. I'll admit I love watching and joining in and I think this helps and encourages hubby "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My advice would be to either try the sauna route (I did early on and enjoyed it - nice and relaxed) or:
find a guy on here who is up for some mutual wank/suck fun and have a meet where you put some porn on, relax a bit, start wanking yourselves and then reach out and explore. Before you know you're both naked and happily wanking his cock until he cums all over your own cock and balls and enjoying every minute of it.
(sorry, got carried away there.....) |
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By *himanMan
over a year ago
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"My advice would be to either try the sauna route (I did early on and enjoyed it - nice and relaxed) or:
find a guy on here who is up for some mutual wank/suck fun and have a meet where you put some porn on, relax a bit, start wanking yourselves and then reach out and explore. Before you know you're both naked and happily wanking his cock suntil he cums all over your own cock sand balls and enjoying every minute of it.
(sorry, got carried away there.....)"
sounds fun |
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"My advice would be to either try the sauna route (I did early on and enjoyed it - nice and relaxed) or:
find a guy on here who is up for some mutual wank/suck fun and have a meet where you put some porn on, relax a bit, start wanking yourselves and then reach out and explore. Before you know you're both naked and happily wanking his cock suntil he cums all over your own cock sand balls and enjoying every minute of it.
(sorry, got carried away there.....) sounds fun"
Both saunas and meeting bi guys alone can be great fun... Cathy (with sticky fingers)... |
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My first was with a couple but I think that makes me very lucky. I have been to a sauna recently and despite fairly thoroughly exploring my bi side now I was still really really nervous going in. I met a nice guy in there and we got chatting and things just progressed. The sauna turned out to be a very relaxed place to play with other guys.
I think the most important thing is that however you chose to proceed whoever your "first" is needs to know your situation and agree to take things at your pace.
That said I'm sure you'll really enjoy yourself and soon be pushing those boundaries wide open.
Have fun fella. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the msgs guys! I think in my head its hottest in an MMF, but be hard to organise plus more pressure with two people.
So I am going to try and find a relaxed guy and explain and hope for a good meet and try stuff out, very nervous but find the idea such a turn on! "
Dan
just remember if you do try it, you may like it and want it more and more, as I found myself.
The best pleasures I have found is MfM fun as it gives the best of both worlds and if you think playing with cock is fun just wait until you try licking a sperm filled pussy
hope you enjoy xx |
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Couldn't agree more with this! Those tasty juices all mixed together! Yum yum
"Thanks for the msgs guys! I think in my head its hottest in an MMF, but be hard to organise plus more pressure with two people.
So I am going to try and find a relaxed guy and explain and hope for a good meet and try stuff out, very nervous but find the idea such a turn on!
Dan
just remember if you do try it, you may like it and want it more and more, as I found myself.
The best pleasures I have found is MfM fun as it gives the best of both worlds and if you think playing with cock is fun just wait until you try licking a sperm filled pussy
hope you enjoy xx"
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I partly agree with other comments about gay/bi saunas..
It all depends,i have been sexually harassed on a number of times..
guys often don't read the body language and despite a 'no' will sometimes try again.
I challenged a guy once and he said,'we are all here for the same thing'!!!
lots of private glory holes on here,that way it remains anonymous and could be a good starting point for you.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Cheers again for the all the messages and advice! Think I may be too nervous to go to a sauna for the first time.
and dont know of any glory holes nearby, though the idea is extremely hot!
hopefully meet a couple, or a male I feel comfortable with, but I totally agree with all your comments the main thing will be to find someone who understands and is willing to go my pace.
thanks again!! I will post if I manage to meet anyone! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for the msgs guys! I think in my head its hottest in an MMF, but be hard to organise plus more pressure with two people.
So I am going to try and find a relaxed guy and explain and hope for a good meet and try stuff out, very nervous but find the idea such a turn on! "
Mmmmmm meet me and a bi guy I love it nmmmm I been there on several occasions helping people when it's their first time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for the msgs guys! I think in my head its hottest in an MMF, but be hard to organise plus more pressure with two people.
So I am going to try and find a relaxed guy and explain and hope for a good meet and try stuff out, very nervous but find the idea such a turn on!
Mmmmmm meet me and a bi guy I love it nmmmm I been there on several occasions helping people when it's their first time"
I've been the first time several times. It's quite a compliment. |
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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago
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All of my bi play has happened in group play situations, I arranged to meet my first bi cpl in a club. I could feel the chemistry between the 3 of us building as we chatted, so we finally found a room and as we stripped they both held hands and sandwiched my cock in between. The feeling her soft skinned hand and his big hand gripping against my shaft was immense, they then knelt down and took turns to suck at my bell whilst the other licked at my length. Other than saying it was great I can't really explain how I felt at this point, so I swapped with him and shared his cock with his wife. It was sensual that it's a memory that I'll keep fresh in my mind for a long time I'm sure |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for the msgs guys! I think in my head its hottest in an MMF, but be hard to organise plus more pressure with two people.
So I am going to try and find a relaxed guy and explain and hope for a good meet and try stuff out, very nervous but find the idea such a turn on!
Mmmmmm meet me and a bi guy I love it nmmmm I been there on several occasions helping people when it's their first time
I've been the first time several times. It's quite a compliment. "
Maybe an idea is forming |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for the msgs guys! I think in my head its hottest in an MMF, but be hard to organise plus more pressure with two people.
So I am going to try and find a relaxed guy and explain and hope for a good meet and try stuff out, very nervous but find the idea such a turn on!
Mmmmmm meet me and a bi guy I love it nmmmm I been there on several occasions helping people when it's their first time
I've been the first time several times. It's quite a compliment.
Maybe an idea is forming"
Lol. Well I always aim to ensure everyone involved has fun and doesn't feel pressured in any way.
I can do a great impression of a man too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am in the same boat I think, I would like to explore some oral fun I have tried it briefly before and am interested in more. love to meet a feminine tv big fantasy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Quite awkward with a couple once. He let me suck him - the first time another guy had and he came real quick.
Then it was " you don't cum that quickly when I do it".
Awkward..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is something I have been thinking about recently as the thought of a couple both sucking my cock is a massive turn on and something Im looking forward to doing "
Although I've never tried it, I have been thinking along the same lines for a while now, I don't understand how or why...... just that it sounds so horny. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for all the input, seems pretty popular fantasy!
I want to try it in an MMF, so any females or couples who want to be my first just PM!
But I am still turned on by the thought of just meeting a guy, so hopefully find someone who i feel comfortable enough with.
Thanks again everyone! |
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