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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

hey guys iv been on here a while and im

finding it really hard to meet anyone or even get a reply to a message i send! iv tryed re writing my profile over and over again and decided last week to just leave it blank! and guess what i have a meet arranged for tonight! but im guessing this has just been luck of the draw! really needing help wording my profile as i seem to be bad at putting what i want to say into text lol can any of you lovely people help me ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Please read the five million similar threads on the forum. There is plenty of advice there.

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By *ezebelWoman  over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Please read the five million similar threads on the forum. There is plenty of advice there."

Its the first day he's posted on the forums, give him a break...

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By *issHottieBottieWoman  over a year ago

Kent

It's impossible to help you write your profile as we don't know you or what you're looking for.

Start with the basics, short intro, what you are looking for, how you want to meet (I.e in clubs, parties, private meets, accom, hotel etc). Are you looking for one offs, repeat meets etc. anything you're into or really not into, that kind of stuff will give you a generic profile base. Then it's up to you to try and inject a bit of yourself into it to make it stand out from the hundreds of other guys on here x

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By *am123Man  over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Please read the five million similar threads on the forum. There is plenty of advice there.

Its the first day he's posted on the forums, give him a break..."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"hey guys iv been on here a while and im

finding it really hard to meet anyone or even get a reply to a message i send! iv tryed re writing my profile over and over again and decided last week to just leave it blank! and guess what i have a meet arranged for tonight! but im guessing this has just been luck of the draw! really needing help wording my profile as i seem to be bad at putting what i want to say into text lol can any of you lovely people help me ? "

It may be the first post the OP has crafted but he really needs to think hard about what he's asking for before posting .....

A simple search of the forums would net him litterly thousands of replies to exactly the same questions about what to put into a profile.

Also he's asking us to put into words what he cannot do himself but neglects to tell us what that may be.

If people are unable to type what they like and what they can offer

then I don't think they will have raging success. ... In my most honest and humble opinion

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Please read the five million similar threads on the forum. There is plenty of advice there.

Its the first day he's posted on the forums, give him a break..."

Heaven forbid anyone asks something that's been asked already

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By *il_Lou90Woman  over a year ago

falkirk

As it is even without the profile text that you would write yourself I wouldn't be much interested as your listed as straight yet friends with 2 tv/ts which just screams closet bi, might not bother other people but that would turn me away

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It just sounds like you have given up you cant meet people by just looking at a screen and hope they reply get to socials and clubs and get yourself known use forums and chat do not come over as desperate. then re-evaluate your profile and see what you want out of the site and what you are looking for. And sell yourself variety of pics and put some personality into your profile x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Please read the five million similar threads on the forum. There is plenty of advice there.

Its the first day he's posted on the forums, give him a break...

Heaven forbid anyone asks something that's been asked already

"

You are quite right and I am sorry for the rather impulsive remark. It is a question that is raised daily and there is lots of advice that can be found by a search of the forums.

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By *histler21Man  over a year ago

Ipswich


"hey guys iv been on here a while and im

finding it really hard to meet anyone or even get a reply to a message i send! iv tryed re writing my profile over and over again and decided last week to just leave it blank! and guess what i have a meet arranged for tonight! but im guessing this has just been luck of the draw! really needing help wording my profile as i seem to be bad at putting what i want to say into text lol can any of you lovely people help me ? "

You have already answered your question. Doesn't matter what you put - it's the luck of the draw.

What is more important is to get known in the chat rooms and forums. Try to attend a social for the 'personal' touch.

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By *adyGardenWoman  over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Isn't it funny how you never see posts like this from us girls.

I strughled to start with but no way would I post a pleading message of desperation.

Op I would suggest you delete and start again as the thing that puts me off instantly is you have been on for some years with nothing to show for it.

To be honest I personally wouldn't even still be on here after nothing for so long.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Variety of photos not just a todger is a good place to start

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By *adyGardenWoman  over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Oh and one public cock shot is instant repellent for the vast majority

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By *histler21Man  over a year ago

Ipswich


"Isn't it funny how you never see posts like this from us girls.

I strughled to start with but no way would I post a pleading message of desperation.

Op I would suggest you delete and start again as the thing that puts me off instantly is you have been on for some years with nothing to show for it.

To be honest I personally wouldn't even still be on here after nothing for so long. "

It's completely different for women - you don't even have to have anything in your profile. As long as it says "Woman" - you will get loads of interest.

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