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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
You are asking a lot here.
Half of the game is in the preparation. Flinging a blindofld on then going straight for a wand is childsplay. You have to set the scene prior to the bedroom to have full shattering effect.
Try tying her hands before you get to the bedroom. The frustration/role exchange will build into fury. |
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Variety of sensations, from feathers to floggers!
Also like wax candle and ice combination.
Being blindfolded is very erotic, take your time, the anticipation is a huge part of the excitement.
Have fun
Ruby x |
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There are lots of things you can do but you MUST stay within your partners guidelines, you have more than likely done just about everything already. Being blindfolded and tied leaves your partner guessing as to what you are useing on them but they will know after a short while unless it is a toy. A great turn on for a lot of people is to have someone your partner does,nt know about turn but you need to your partner is ok with first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Slowly trace an ice cube all over her teasing her relentlessly. Candle wax can be fun too. I personally love to deliberately apply lipstick to a woman's nipples before slowly licking and sucking it off. Anything you do, such as kissing her stomach, will have an unusually heightened response so mix it up. Half the excitement comes from her not knowing what you'll do next. Without a doubt, my favourite erotic thing! |
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Vision is our primary sense so removing it forces us bto use others. Initially sound. The bounds hearing becomes sharper so be aware of every sound you make causing frantic searches for meaning. Make ambigous noises, strike a match, could be to light a lovely romantic scentedcandle or could be to light the wax play candles.
Appear to make a phone call to others to invite them over to use them. If you have a detachable, radio door bell hide it in room then a few minutes later make the front door bell ring. Leap up with a cheery " that must be the guy(s) I have sold you to for the night. Be right back!"  
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was hoping for some ideas on normal everyday things to use on the body to really get them going or something different along those lines. we've dne all the usual things but interested in something a little different |
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By *lueVelcroCouple
over a year ago
Blanchardstown |
In terms of objects to use, I've found a large multipronged meat fork to be quite popular. They won't know what it is, just that it's sharp and feels good traced lightly. Also, shoot a staple gun at them for flinches :D |
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I went shopping in sainsburys before tying and blindfolding ocd. She had no idea i had been shopping and did not have a clue what i had. I bought a pastry brush to stroke her skin. A Banana. A carrot (large) and a small corn on the cob. Great fun.
But i also like going through the kitchen drawers to see what i can find. I found a wooden ruler last week which was huge fun with ocd tied over the table.
You just need a bit of imagination, but keep it safe. Sane and consensual obviously. |
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Thanks for all your suggestions and ideas. I tried a few last night when for the first time I blindfolded her, tied her hands above her head while she was sitting up and then tied her lovely 36es tightly so they stuck out like firm round globes with very responsive nipples as I teased them with ice cubes, a fork from the kitchen, and flicked at them with a plastic ruler and used my tongue. I had never felt her tits like that and she said they felt so different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we have done ice play which was sensually tormenting - i had a mad fantasy about having a wet t shirt ripped off me - we combined the two - was a great night  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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find a white noise app for your phone
pop some earphones in your partners ears as well as the blindfold a over the eyes and remove one more sense 
(just remember to put your phone in flight mode so you dont get any unwelcome interruptions) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mix of sensations is the key, and not going straight to the fun bits either! One of my favourite toys for sensation play is a wartenberg pin wheel... I got one dirt cheap from eBay and that combined with things like feathers, candle wax and nipple clamps make for a very fun start to the evening  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mix of sensations is the key, and not going straight to the fun bits either! One of my favourite toys for sensation play is a wartenberg pin wheel... I got one dirt cheap from eBay and that combined with things like feathers, candle wax and nipple clamps make for a very fun start to the evening "
Wartenburg wheel and good old clothes pegs! Also moving silently somwhe does not know wher you are.... then close breathes, the odd prod or flick kf the crop...
oh god I need a cold shower
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Ex once blindfolded me and used various items on me, went on for ages. For each one I correctly guessed he would then give me an orgasm. To this day I don't know what some of them were...
Really enjoyed the champagne bubbles and bottle... Hmmmmmm
Ruby x |
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Dull but important. Always, but always have something to cut the rope safely to hand. Knots can slip, tighten and lock, especially if wriggled in, even for the highly skilled and people can panic unexpectedly. EMT shears are cheap and safe.
Also learn a little about anatomy. There are some very dangerous parts of the body which should not be tied.
Have fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like the not knowing when i am blindfolded, what Master is going to do next but i totally trust him "
yes i would only ever play with him tied and just him - no other in the room |
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