I've been a member on here for a while & met some great guys! However I'd love to try some girls but not sure if I'd get any meets as I have never been with a girl!
I don't class myself as bi-curious but would like to play with a girl. Maybe as part of a couple but wouldn't want to disappoint as I've never tried.
So my question is would I be wasting my time suggesting to meet either a couple or a female, when I have no experignce with this? |
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I wouldn't have a problem with meeting with a lady who wasn't sure, certainly wouldn't place any pressure upon her to reciprocate as you just don't know until you've been in that position - I hope that there are more people like me - it's a case of live and let live - what the hell - have fun. Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been a member on here for a while & met some great guys! However I'd love to try some girls but not sure if I'd get any meets as I have never been with a girl!
I don't class myself as bi-curious but would like to play with a girl. Maybe as part of a couple but wouldn't want to disappoint as I've never tried.
we have just read your post and your profile and my hubby and i are in the same situation as you are. i am a bi curious woman as well and like you do not know what to do as i have never done this before,love lisa+john xx
So my question is would I be wasting my time suggesting to meet either a couple or a female, when I have no experignce with this? "
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For many people exploring is what this hobby is all about and it doesn’t matter what sexual act or acts you’re talking about everyone had a first time for everything. Simple answer is contact people looking for a single bi-fem and be honest with them and see what results you get from that.
I dare say its not so easy for a guy wanting to try bi for the first time simply because there are a lot of guys out there pretending to be bi just to get a shag with the fem half of a bi couple.
You might try changing your profile to bi-curious as that can mean just about anything but at least shows others you are interested in the bi-fem thing. You can talk details when you first chat.
If you wasn’t so far away then in principal we’d say, ‘Pop round one evening, have a chat, relax, see what happens’… we never promise that any particular activity will happen, doubt anyone else does… why should you?
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I have to agree with the last post,Tracy was bi-curious and very nervous and we were really lucky to meet a couple who were patient and understanding.Anyone worth their weight would give you the same courtesy.After all this is all suppose to be about fun. |
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"I wouldn't have a problem with meeting with a lady who wasn't sure, certainly wouldn't place any pressure upon her to reciprocate as you just don't know until you've been in that position - I hope that there are more people like me - it's a case of live and let live - what the hell - have fun. Z"
agree with Zoe totally ...have fun exploring at your pace xx |
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My Position on this is somewhat different...I have posted on other threads before I had a break..about the topic of bi curious..bi playful..straight but play with girls..ladies.
If i had a label..it would be Hetro-enjoying Lesbian.
I personally wouldn't play with the O.P... 3+ years of swinging and I have played with women who feel a similar way to her.
Never got much out of the "teaching" aspect of Girl Play..and just not for me. My Fun now is only with Genuinely and enthusiastically bi women only..and Hand on heart there are only 4 women I play with that are swingers...and one vaniila lesbian who I have had an on off relationship with since we were 15 yrs old.
So definately for me...it would be a no.. I wouldn't play with a woman with feelings like the O.P..but do wish her well...and others posters show there are girls that will want to play..
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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago
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Karen is not bi-curious or bi at least in her sense of the meanings. She will happily engage in sex with a woman, either using vibrators or her mouth and hands. BUT, because it is only sex she doesn't class it as bi-curious, mainly because there is no kissing or cuddling or other types of fraternising with the same sex.
In her eyes sex is sex irrespective of partner. bi or bi-curious involves things more associated with a loving partnership and she does not do any of that. |
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it is hard isnt it. I am bi,sexual and love to play with both men and women but sometimes I feel like we both seam to be doing it for the men. I would love to take a lady to bed and a realy bed not in a club the excitement of stroking about beneath the covers and exploring one an others bodies.
I do think for a first time thing it would be nice to meet in a small group and have some sensual fun stroking and touching.
it is amazing if you like it and you will soon know if you don't
I hope you meet some one soon and explore with another female. |
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i wouldnt class myself as bisexual but do love playing with a woman when playing as a foursome. love the way they kiss and feel but am not attracted by women. sounds confused but i think of it as bi sensual. just love fucking and playing. Why not play with a couple where the woman is bi curious too. that way you are under no pressure to do what you are not happy to do.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i dont think many women would mind the fact your a bi virgin, my profile says straight but i get loads of messages from woman and couples wanting to meet me, i think because its quite hard to find women on here the lack of expreience dont really bother them |
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If we only met people with experience of riding motorbikes , eventually they'd all die and there'd be no-one to ride the bikes anymore.
Iknow what I mean ....
Just do it Pearl xx |
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