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over a year ago
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why are guys obsessed with squirting??
always a question i get asked and when i reply no i dont squirt im usually replied to with "oh il make u squirt"
so annoying! lol |
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"why are guys obsessed with squirting??
always a question i get asked and when i reply no i dont squirt im usually replied to with "oh il make u squirt"
so annoying! lol"
The reverse is true too - I get the impression some women think they are not 'doing it right' unless they get to squirt.
Some do, some don't. I don't feel as if I'm a 'failure' if it doesn't happen. I don't see it as a 'challenge' to prove how 'good' I might or might not be.
It's all about pleasing the person you are with whilst you are there. After all - we all want to be invited back for another meet...
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"why are guys obsessed with squirting??
always a question i get asked and when i reply no i dont squirt im usually replied to with "oh il make u squirt"
so annoying! lol"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why are guys obsessed with squirting??
always a question i get asked and when i reply no i dont squirt im usually replied to with "oh il make u squirt"
so annoying! lol"
absolutely agree with you. getting on.my bloody nerves the way they all want to do it!!!! lately men seem to be drilling for oil and think the faster and hard they go the more pleasurable it is. |
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"Women are machines and don't come with 'how to...' manuals - just focus on pleasing her and your own pleasure and she'll probably squirt again.
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This exactly. I've squirted many times and the only common thing is that I have been really turned on each time. I don't believe there is a single technique at all....well not one that works for me everytime. |
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I think the whole squirting thing has become almost trophy like where people are trying to hard to achieve it as they think it has to happen or they have failed. I have made several women squirt due to a good oral technique but if it happens it happens, less pressure to attain and more time spent going with the flow and making sure the lady is enjoying what you are doing is more important than box ticking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive never done it and doubt i ever will but feel as though guys am with make it their mission to make me squirt... i couldnt care less... just want a good fuck lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't get what's such a big deal about the squirting /gushing thing. Do men who like it , like it because they think they have helped a woman achieve a level of sexual pleasure ? Is squirting the new orgasm ? Even though it might happen occasionally, It does nothing for me I'm afraid.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The majority of men are obsessed with this squirting gushing thing on this site. Ive made a few ladies do it myself and its silent just gets me hair wet lol
rather have a huge orgasm turn to the right and my whole body shudder, than someone franticly try to make me squirt/gush and tell me im a good girl if they do acheive it on a rare accasion |
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"ive never done it and doubt i ever will but feel as though guys am with make it their mission to make me squirt... i couldnt care less... just want a good fuck lol"
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Why is there so many threads about squirting
Some can do it and some cant end of
I wouldn't say guys are obsessed with it cos not all can tackle it after they have said they can..
brilliant when it happens but very rare
Just wish it wasn't mentioned so often |
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"ive never done it and doubt i ever will but feel as though guys am with make it their mission to make me squirt... i couldnt care less... just want a good fuck lol"
This altho i have a few times, but prefer a good fuck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps we ought to ask:-
why do men have to come so quick?? Can't they last more then 5 seconds....ha ha!!!
Or be nice to get a man who can cum again and again rather then just the once!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Perhaps we ought to ask:-
why do men have to come so quick?? Can't they last more then 5 seconds....ha ha!!!
Or be nice to get a man who can cum again and again rather then just the once!!! "
I do haha. And dont go soft after I cum so can csrry on. The whole squirting thing its her who wants it to happen again. |
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Take your time...relax ...it should come naturally... If you're focusing on it too much it won't happen honey.. too much pressure concentrating on the goal to squirt....trust me xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"why are guys obsessed with squirting??
always a question i get asked and when i reply no i dont squirt im usually replied to with "oh il make u squirt"
so annoying! lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
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It is incredible when it happens but as a 'squirter' sex is just as incredible through vaginal and clitoral orgasm - it's an usual 'releasing type feeling' which for me is not as intense as other types of orgasm but more mentally as well as physically stimulating. Rather than her body you might want to fuck your ladies brain as well - works for me xxx |
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"Perhaps we ought to ask:-
why do men have to come so quick?? Can't they last more then 5 seconds....ha ha!!!
Or be nice to get a man who can cum again and again rather then just the once!!! "
you can get a man to squirt by sticking your finger up his arse and hammering away at his gspot  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was with a guy once who when you touched his g spot - wow the orgasms he had were amazing. Just luv watching him!!!! "
I like it when a man grabs a pillow and stuffs it in his mouth when I do that |
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"why are guys obsessed with squirting??
always a question i get asked and when i reply no i dont squirt im usually replied to with "oh il make u squirt"
so annoying! lol
absolutely agree with you. getting on.my bloody nerves the way they all want to do it!!!! lately men seem to be drilling for oil and think the faster and hard they go the more pleasurable it is. " that what men think the doing is drilling for oil or gold lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think that guys like to see a woman squirt as it's visual feedback/confirmation that they have helped their partner reach a climax (much in the same way that you know when a guy ejaculates I suppose). I find it really arousing when C does. Partly because of the visual feedback, also because I felt know she's been relaxed and really enjoying herself, plus I know I'm doing something right. She does result enjoy doing it to, which is great for me as I love belong her.
It's not the be all and end all mind.
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"I think that guys like to see a woman squirt as it's visual feedback/confirmation that they have helped their partner reach a climax (much in the same way that you know when a guy ejaculates I suppose). I find it really arousing when C does. Partly because of the visual feedback, also because I felt know she's been relaxed and really enjoying herself, plus I know I'm doing something right.
It's not the be all and end all mind.
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This is true and a lot of guys wanting it is no bad thing. It is prob a sign of initial insecurity and a desire to be memorable (there is so much comp on here afterall)
The alternative of not giving a shit is far worse.
It is easy to make a lady who has gushed with you previously gush...the technique is all over the internet.... but it is her feelings of relaxed trust that allow it to happen.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Perhaps we ought to ask:-
why do men have to come so quick?? Can't they last more then 5 seconds....ha ha!!!
Or be nice to get a man who can cum again and again rather then just the once!!! "
The answer?
If this is happening YOU'RE doing something wrong... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Perhaps we ought to ask:-
why do men have to come so quick?? Can't they last more then 5 seconds....ha ha!!!
Or be nice to get a man who can cum again and again rather then just the once!!!
The answer?
If this is happening YOU'RE doing something wrong..."
Yeh maybe I am!!! Thanks for the advice tho!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't get what's such a big deal about the squirting /gushing thing. Do men who like it , like it because they think they have helped a woman achieve a level of sexual pleasure ? Is squirting the new orgasm ? Even though it might happen occasionally, It does nothing for me I'm afraid.
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squirting is ...OK!
its not the best orgasm in my opinion!! but that's just me. |
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