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me and a female friend ar thinking of going to a local swingers club for the first time we will be as a cpl although where not in a relationship,, hints and tips to ease or ur nerves ![](/icons/s/redface.gif) |
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"me and a female friend ar thinking of going to a local swingers club for the first time we will be as a cpl although where not in a relationship,, hints and tips to ease or ur nerves "
I recently went to my first club with a fantastic woman,who has been before.I was nervous but she put at ease telling me how and what to expect.It was very relaxed and a good vibe,try chatting to other couples you both will soon be in full swing(pardon the pun) ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"me and a female friend ar thinking of going to a local swingers club for the first time we will be as a cpl although where not in a relationship,, hints and tips to ease or ur nerves
I recently went to my first club with a fantastic woman,who has been before.I was nervous but she put at ease telling me how and what to expect.It was very relaxed and a good vibe,try chatting to other couples you both will soon be in full swing(pardon the pun) "
well will be nervous together so we will share the experience ... its just taking that first step into a new world |
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"me and a female friend ar thinking of going to a local swingers club for the first time we will be as a cpl although where not in a relationship,, hints and tips to ease or ur nerves
I recently went to my first club with a fantastic woman,who has been before.I was nervous but she put at ease telling me how and what to expect.It was very relaxed and a good vibe,try chatting to other couples you both will soon be in full swing(pardon the pun)
well will be nervous together so we will share the experience ... its just taking that first step into a new world"
You will both be fine i am sure ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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We both went to kestrels foe the first time last meek...We aren't a couple either...We was nervous at first but the staff where lovely...and everyone was so chilled...before we knew it we was putting on a show...had a good day and are planning to go again very soon...wish you both best of luck xx ![](/icons/s/razz.gif) |
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"We both went to kestrels foe the first time last meek...We aren't a couple either...We was nervous at first but the staff where lovely...and everyone was so chilled...before we knew it we was putting on a show...had a good day and are planning to go again very soon...wish you both best of luck xx "
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Discuss your boundaires before hand. Seeing as you are not in a relationship this can get overlooked. So what will happen if one of you likes it and the other doesnt? What if you see somebody you want to play with but she doesnt? Soft play or not? That sort of thing. Don't just jump in -talk first. Good luck ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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I've yet to visit..... I'll get there one day
I always thought they'd be full of dirty old men, but I've been assured they're not (not till I get there lol) You don't have to let others join you or you join them, the atmosphere sounds horny and fantastic..... enjoy ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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"Discuss your boundaires before hand. Seeing as you are not in a relationship this can get overlooked. So what will happen if one of you likes it and the other doesnt? What if you see somebody you want to play with but she doesnt? Soft play or not? That sort of thing. Don't just jump in -talk first. Good luck "
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