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What do I do??
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 I have tried phoning him to confront him about it but he's not answering grrrrr
Does this sort of thing happen often on here ???
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"Don't bother getting involved, delete his number. Ignore the calls unless it becomes pestering. And get yourself a pay n go play phone in future. Chalk this one to experience...."  | |||
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"Don't bother getting involved, delete his number. Ignore the calls unless it becomes pestering. And get yourself a pay n go play phone in future. Chalk this one to experience...." I feel like a right idiot now  And a second phone sounds ideal!! A FAB only phone, thank you | |||
I know it's not what you want to hear but your tale is a prime example of why it's much safer to use a swinging site to hook up with married men (who you can verify have the consent of their partners) and couples. If you're truly seeking genuinely single men you may want to think twice about using a swinging site to do that. Bad news, I know, but there is a grain of truth to it.
We often get comments on here from single women saying how they don't want drama and therefore steer clear of couples...only to wind up smack bang in the middle of exactly the drama they were trying to avoid. It seems that 'single' men using a swingers site can often turn out to be married. It is a swinging site...not a dating site. So 'single' here doesn't necessarily mean single. It should...but it too often doesn't. Ironically...'couples' can sometimes turn out to be single men pretending lol...so it works both ways
At least with couples and married men playing with consent you can verify that their partners are ok with what you're doing with their men and won't be phoning you up in a psycho rage at 4 in the morning.
Once again...so saddened to hear what you're going through. I hope it resolves itself and you can move on to greater things  | |||
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"Sorry to hear about what you're going through I know it's not what you want to hear but your tale is a prime example of why it's much safer to use a swinging site to hook up with married men (who you can verify have the consent of their partners) and couples. If you're truly seeking genuinely single men you may want to think twice about using a swinging site to do that. Bad news, I know, but there is a grain of truth to it.
We often get comments on here from single women saying how they don't want drama and therefore steer clear of couples...only to wind up smack bang in the middle of exactly the drama they were trying to avoid. It seems that 'single' men using a swingers site can often turn out to be married. It is a swinging site...not a dating site. So 'single' here doesn't necessarily mean single. It should...but it too often doesn't. Ironically...'couples' can sometimes turn out to be single men pretending lol...so it works both ways
At least with couples and married men playing with consent you can verify that their partners are ok with what you're doing with their men and won't be phoning you up in a psycho rage at 4 in the morning.
Once again...so saddened to hear what you're going through. I hope it resolves itself and you can move on to greater things "Thank you, it's been my only bad experience on fab so far so I don't want to let this one negative meet ruin possible meets with genuine guys in the future. I feel so bad for his partner and what must be going on in her mind now | |||
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"Yes, sorry to hear about this. I know it is a bit difficult to tell who is attached and who is not from personal experience. It is very disappointing to discover the single guy is married and lying to boot. There are some nice, honest men on this site though so don't be forced off by some stupid chancer. Block. Play phone. Move on. Good advice. Oh, and incidentally, just because you meet a guy on a 'normal' dating site does not mean he is not cheating on his wife... " thank you x | |||
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"Delete number, block him on here (if he's still on here of course), and ignore her. She'll get bored eventually." This! | |||
"Sorry to hear about what you're going through I know it's not what you want to hear but your tale is a prime example of why it's much safer to use a swinging site to hook up with married men (who you can verify have the consent of their partners) and couples. If you're truly seeking genuinely single men you may want to think twice about using a swinging site to do that. Bad news, I know, but there is a grain of truth to it.
We often get comments on here from single women saying how they don't want drama and therefore steer clear of couples...only to wind up smack bang in the middle of exactly the drama they were trying to avoid. It seems that 'single' men using a swingers site can often turn out to be married. It is a swinging site...not a dating site. So 'single' here doesn't necessarily mean single. It should...but it too often doesn't. Ironically...'couples' can sometimes turn out to be single men pretending lol...so it works both ways
At least with couples and married men playing with consent you can verify that their partners are ok with what you're doing with their men and won't be phoning you up in a psycho rage at 4 in the morning.
Once again...so saddened to hear what you're going through. I hope it resolves itself and you can move on to greater things " | |||
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"Hello just wondered if anybody had some advice or has been in a similar situation. Started messaging a guy off here a few weeks ago, we got on great and exchanged numbers. We met for a social last week then a few days later met up for fun. This morning his girlfriend started phoning and texting me. She found his phone over the weekend and seen my number in his call list, I obviously had no idea he was in a relationship as he told me he was 100% single!! I don't know what to say to her, I feel absolutely terrible and pretty angry that he has lied to me! I have tried phoning him to confront him about it but he's not answering grrrrr
Does this sort of thing happen often on here ???
Jess xx"It doesn't happen that often but often enough for lots of people to try and make extra sure men are genuinely single. I suspect you will be careful who you give your number to in future so I won't tell you to do that 
There's no sure way of telling a genuine single I'm afraid but asking if they mind you wearing dark red lipstick when you kiss their neck often sorts the sheep from the goats | |||
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"Sorry to hear of your problem, this guy gets others a bad name. delete his number and if she rings again, tell her exactly what happened and that you were unaware of his dishonesty. I hope it goes better for you in the future...XXX" We totally agree, tell her what a player he is. It might hurt her for now, but in the long run she will thank you for it. I would want to know if my man was cheating on me. Then I would block his number n profile on fab. | |||
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"avoid drama........" this. ...I had the same thing happen to me. I'm not here to get involved in other people's dramas. It's easy enough to avoid. Block the guy on here and block both numbers. It's really simple. And then carry on with your life. | |||
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