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I am meeting a man regularly who is very open minded and likes to experiment. He would like to take me to a place where swingers play outdoors. I am to be blindfolded, while I am played with by some of the men. I have never done anything like that before. The idea turns me on, but im really nervous! Lol. Anybody tried something similar? I would like some information on what to expect (if I decide to go through with it)  |
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It isn't something we've done although we have had sex with each other outdoors while people watched at eureka. I would say that the information you need is best gained from him, location, privacy, who, how many, what is allowed, who will make sure your boundaries are adhered to etc.
Good luck and if you go ahead, enjoy. |
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(not so!) Shy Girl, Sounds really exciting,go for it and of course yr nervous,but that is such a part of the turn on. You have someone lookin after you and its useful to have a word you all agree on which means no.
I have always found these situations,horny,safe and generally respectful.. I am nicely envious.. |
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"I am meeting a man regularly who is very open minded and likes to experiment. He would like to take me to a place where swingers play outdoors. I am to be blindfolded, while I am played with by some of the men. I have never done anything like that before. The idea turns me on, but im really nervous! Lol. Anybody tried something similar? I would like some information on what to expect (if I decide to go through with it) "
so hes taking you dogging then ! |
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"I am meeting a man regularly who is very open minded and likes to experiment. He would like to take me to a place where swingers play outdoors. I am to be blindfolded, while I am played with by some of the men. I have never done anything like that before. The idea turns me on, but im really nervous! Lol. Anybody tried something similar? I would like some information on what to expect (if I decide to go through with it)
so hes taking you dogging then !"
No lol alfresco swinging. Nobody's meeting in their cars sweetie  |
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"I have done a meet very similar. Go with someone you trust. Set the rules. Have a safe word xxx have fun
Safe word? Great idea!! Thanks babe xxx "
I was blindfolded and tied naked to a tree.  |
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"I have done a meet very similar. Go with someone you trust. Set the rules. Have a safe word xxx have fun
Safe word? Great idea!! Thanks babe xxx
I was blindfolded and tied naked to a tree. "
Lol mine seems tame in comparison! Did you love it? X |
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I'd be too scared to do this. Still building up the courage to be tied blindfolded in a club and fucked.
Have been whipped like that though by a cooper we'd only just met..... That was fun |
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As has been said, decide your boundaries in advance, let the guy whos taking you know what these are and agree a method of communicating if something makes you feel uncomfortable.
I have a friend she loves this kind of meet, we are quite well tuned in to each other so a look would be enough to know that she was uncomfortable and I would then step in.
as long as you set this out in advance and have assurances that you will be properly looked after I am sure you will have a fantastic time. After all what woman doesnt love being the centre of attention |
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"As has been said, decide your boundaries in advance, let the guy whos taking you know what these are and agree a method of communicating if something makes you feel uncomfortable.
I have a friend she loves this kind of meet, we are quite well tuned in to each other so a look would be enough to know that she was uncomfortable and I would then step in.
as long as you set this out in advance and have assurances that you will be properly looked after I am sure you will have a fantastic time. After all what woman doesnt love being the centre of attention "
Haha you are right there! Thank you for the advice. Im feeling more confident about it all now x |
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"I am meeting a man regularly who is very open minded and likes to experiment. He would like to take me to a place where swingers play outdoors. I am to be blindfolded, while I am played with by some of the men. I have never done anything like that before. The idea turns me on, but im really nervous! Lol. Anybody tried something similar? I would like some information on what to expect (if I decide to go through with it) "
Set your rules and play safe x
As for what to expect ,that all depends on the above.
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I agree with the general advice offered, and glad it is a reliable regular friend who is taking you and organising. Consider vetting the attendee list, so that your excitement may build even more in advance of meeting them. It would also prevent anyone being disappointed, should you not fancy them on the day. If totally anon is what you want, thats cool, but maybe define your parameters for who they are. Another idea is to write an intro message to all attendees, telling them what you would love to happen, to help them serve your needs best. They would probably find it very horny too. |
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I meant why not take a friend with you 
