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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am a man with a small cock who keeps being ignored by fems/cpls on here. I think it shouldn't be the size but how you use it that counts. It does hurt me when I'm looking for a meet and friends but get nowhere because of the problem I have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you're taking too much personally and misreading your lack of interest. This site is made up of around 70% single males so you have a hell of a lot of competition. Even the VWE, Very good looking and guys with great bodies struggle on here. Grow a thicker skin and be patient. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe they just don't find you attractive, different personalities, different sexual tastes, who knows, but you have only been here for 2 weeks, there is someone for everyone on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you're taking too much personally and misreading your lack of interest. This site is made up of around 70% single males so you have a hell of a lot of competition. Even the VWE, Very good looking and guys with great bodies struggle on here. Grow a thicker skin and be patient."
Agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you're taking too much personally and misreading your lack of interest. This site is made up of around 70% single males so you have a hell of a lot of competition. Even the VWE, Very good looking and guys with great bodies struggle on here. Grow a thicker skin and be patient."
This.....it's not personal, it's just a numbers games. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It seems to me the person that has the issues is you. Deal with them. Accept you can't change it and embrace it. Confidence goes a long way here. Don't let the size of your Johnson hold you back. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Thank u guys I was wondering how many fems and cpls would meet men with small cocks
Well how small is it then? look at the pics  "
Photos can be deceptive! Are we speaking 3 inches or something? |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
I'm not meeting single men... but if I was... its not the cock size that would put me off.
The profile turns me off - 1 the spunky cock pic... just why? 2 you look miserable in your face pic and 3 the selfies and body shots do nothing for you
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
essex chelmsford |
"Thank u guys I was wondering how many fems and cpls would meet men with small cocks
Well how small is it then? look at the pics
Photos can be deceptive! Are we speaking 3 inches or something? "
yeah ur right they can but a walnut whip is a walnut whip  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Thank u guys I was wondering how many fems and cpls would meet men with small cocks
Well how small is it then? look at the pics
Photos can be deceptive! Are we speaking 3 inches or something? yeah ur right they can but a walnut whip is a walnut whip "
But we are not speaking about walnut whips! Though I am sure they used to bigger when I was younger! Same as wagon wheels etc  |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
essex chelmsford |
"Thank u guys I was wondering how many fems and cpls would meet men with small cocks
Well how small is it then? look at the pics
Photos can be deceptive! Are we speaking 3 inches or something? yeah ur right they can but a walnut whip is a walnut whip
But we are not speaking about walnut whips! Though I am sure they used to bigger when I was younger! Same as wagon wheels etc "
some use a sky remote some a lynx can im talking walnut whips lol  |
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Ok, the OP reckons he has a small cock and that is the reason he isn't getting meets. Now the small cock pics have gone. So why? Will he tell the first lady who contacts him that he has a small cock? Or wait for her to agree to meet and then show her when she is naked? I'd suggest show the pics and let ladies make their own minds up about whether or not they want to meet you. The more information shown - the more there is to base a decision on. People need information, if there is doubt due to insufficient data, people will move on to the next profile.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes need to see picture evidence to comment. there was pics earlier hes got cold feet now "
OP you can put the other pics in your private folders for friends only. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Miss Lp here
And probably about to be shot down in flames, but I would delete your face pick rather than worry about your cock size!
You look seriously scarry and agressive in that shot. Try smiling or something
Just saying  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
Sometimes you just get ignored on here. You'll drive yourself mad if you start trying to second guess the reasons. All you can do is make sure your profile and pictures reflect you and hope you find the right people and/or they find you. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"I am a man with a small cock who keeps being ignored by fems/cpls on here. I think it shouldn't be the size but how you use it that counts. It does hurt me when I'm looking for a meet and friends but get nowhere because of the problem I have."
I find it interesting that people always come to the conclusion that it is the thing they cant control that is in fact holding them back.......
sorry... its a cop out....
see placing the blame elsewhere leaves you blameless... oh but it isn't my fault its everyone elses!!! those nasty pasties!!!
it may be The Reason....
it may be other reasons....
it may play some, all or no part in the decision!!!
keep focusing the blame elsewhere and you forget the person who can actually make a difference... you!!!!
sorry... its a defeatist attitude and maybe THAT is part of the reason |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A a bit confused as your profile says you been a swinger for 5 years and had friends/ meets and fun? So .... Why would your cock be a problem now then?  "
Oh dear, he's been found out and done a runner lol |
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"A a bit confused as your profile says you been a swinger for 5 years and had friends/ meets and fun? So .... Why would your cock be a problem now then?
Oh dear, he's been found out and done a runner lol"
with it tucked between his legs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A a bit confused as your profile says you been a swinger for 5 years and had friends/ meets and fun? So .... Why would your cock be a problem now then?
Oh dear, he's been found out and done a runner lol
with it tucked between his legs "
Well at least he won't trip over it!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh sod! You give advice, then they leave. Who was to blame this time? 
Well he was still there when Fabio posted. Shall we blame him? But wait till I've gone out before you tell him
I was too late to see the cock pics too
Fabio was right in a thread a few days ago when all our advice just screws up someones profile as they change it according to the latest advice. My advice (for what it's worth) has become much more generalised. "
I saw it!  And I agree with what Fabio said actually. Everyone changes according to what anyone says instead of thinking for themselves. |
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