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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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would having a profile picture on my page and other private ones to send out help my chances for meets, I just go to clubs with a friend so meet in person at the moment, any surgestions on what should be on pics greatfully accepted. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Did you have pics on last time you were here?"
not of me but I was on as a couple they were just of her..........thanks, I think id better put some on then
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not many people will meet you unless they've seen a picture first although some do, so I would say that that yes, pictures would help"
Yes you need at least one pic in public and a face one you can send. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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some people never post pictures on the internet to be honest...if it isnt ur thing the only thing u can do is attend clubs and socials..it is possible to meet people and get some feedback on what people thought of u...
but trying to arrange meets without pics?...if U have a fanny...u might be in luck...... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Try to do a really nice pic. Not a cock pic tho.  "
thanks everyone for advise,il have some taken definatly one of face for private and full back view, top half front for public...would that be do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wont even engage in chat if its a "meet" message without a face pic unless its a genuine query in relation to a club or from a forum post. Its just not worth it if no attraction and then becomes embarrassing x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A
Try to do a really nice pic. Not a cock pic tho. thanks everyone for advise,il have some taken definatly one of face for private and full back view, top half front for public...would that be do "
Just go for pics your comfortable posting on line and that you think represent you fairly.....its your profile so your best making those decisions...you may get ten different answers on here so the best opinion to go with is your own I feel |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We dont post pics in public. We like to chat first as personality is much more dedirable than looks.
If after a few mails we appear to get on we will provide and request pics and then decide whether to meet.
Find it a little shallow to be honest if peoples only criteria is looks. Its a bit like oo look who ive fucked lol |
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"We dont post pics in public. We like to chat first as personality is much more dedirable than looks.
If after a few mails we appear to get on we will provide and request pics and then decide whether to meet.
Find it a little shallow to be honest if peoples only criteria is looks. Its a bit like oo look who ive fucked lol"
Whats the point in chatting further if theres no attraction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wont even engage in chat if its a "meet" message without a face pic unless its a genuine query in relation to a club or from a forum post. Its just not worth it if no attraction and then becomes embarrassing x "
 I have face pics on my profile so people know what I look like so I feel if someone messages me they should attach a face pic if not one on their profile. I've had many ask if I fancy a meet without attaching a pic and many say I'll send one if you're interested. Er well I won't know if I'm interested if I don't know what you look like!! No point chatting for ages only to then find there's no attraction. |
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"We dont post pics in public. We like to chat first as personality is much more dedirable than looks.
If after a few mails we appear to get on we will provide and request pics and then decide whether to meet.
Find it a little shallow to be honest if peoples only criteria is looks. Its a bit like oo look who ive fucked lol"
But you also use pics to.decide if you want to meet people, regardless of how well you have gotten on before. All you are doing is prolonging the 'thanks but your not our type email', leading them on until you get a pic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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but looks arent our main criteria, we have met people who if it were just based on looks we wouldnt of met at first viewing.
However after interesting mail exchanges we liked them and met, if we just relied upon pictures we would of missed out on some great meets. |
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"but looks arent our main criteria, we have met people who if it were just based on looks we wouldnt of met at first viewing.
However after interesting mail exchanges we liked them and met, if we just relied upon pictures we would of missed out on some great meets."
or look at the other way, you chat for ages, then exchange pics only to find not one bit of attraction by one or all of you, then all that time has been wasted, theres many people I chat with on here but dont and wont have sex with them, as much as good chat/conversation and stimulating the mind is essential, there has to be some attraction also. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We dont consider not meeting a waste of time as thats not our only requirement.
Even if we dont meet we have chatted to some charming people who we would not have spoken with meering is a bonus not the priority |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I say if you want to keep your face pics on your friends images so that way public image is if you want to do not know everybody here who you are in case you have friends or family members and not wanting to know what you did |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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im getting iphone 5c in next day or so, can I put pics straight on from there...I know how to make a womans body work but phones....ahhh.. all help greatfully accepted..cheers |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"im getting iphone 5c in next day or so, can I put pics straight on from there...I know how to make a womans body work but phones....ahhh.. all help greatfully accepted..cheers"
Yep you can |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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well, thanks again for all advice, but after having pictures on for 2 weeks now.....only men sending me messages...and all woman I send a message to with a picture now (body and face)....nothing back or blocked...is it time to pack it all in and just stick to wanking  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only advise i can give you is join in the forum threads and get to know people a bit more in time they will find out more about you,
Your profile and pics you show is up to you
5 months and no socials/meets am a slow starter  |
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