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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try smiling in your pictures, nobody likes to see a glum face on a profile.
Think of a profile as your shop window to the fab members, so you feel it sells you well enough.
Read it and ask yourself, ' would you meet this person?' |
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hi, your profile doesn't exactly leap out at you,thousands very similar..
you don't really say what your likes/dislikes are.
work and create something that people will be interested in.Do research,look at others..
Would you respond to yr profile?
By the way...lovely cock...j   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Crass name. Crap profile pic. And they are the plus points.
Look at what you are offering, particularly that you 'might get a hotel depending on who you are meeting' - do you honestly think that is going to appeal? Do you think any woman is going to take the risk that you might deem them not worth the cost of a hotel room?
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"Crass name. Crap profile pic. And they are the plus points.
Look at what you are offering, particularly that you 'might get a hotel depending on who you are meeting' - do you honestly think that is going to appeal? Do you think any woman is going to take the risk that you might deem them not worth the cost of a hotel room?
bit harsh! This is a 20 yr old just starting out,i think he is very brave asking for feedback....plus he has a lovely cock!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Crass name. Crap profile pic. And they are the plus points.
Look at what you are offering, particularly that you 'might get a hotel depending on who you are meeting' - do you honestly think that is going to appeal? Do you think any woman is going to take the risk that you might deem them not worth the cost of a hotel room?
bit harsh! This is a 20 yr old just starting out,i think he is very brave asking for feedback....plus he has a lovely cock!
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But indirectly the fact that the only positive comment you offered was 'nice cock' is in it's own way equally damming of the quality of the profile
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Firstly Michael, welcome to the site. Secondly, as you may know, your age will go against you on here but hey, make the most of it, I'd love to be 20 again lol. Your profile needs to get your personality and sense of humour across. Put why you're here, what you're looking for and what you can offer. Not being able to accommodate will also go against you but you can do nothing about that. Maybe try and get involved in some social meets and smile in your pics!! I personally hate cock pics but some like to see them. I prefer pics of people having fun on a night out or similar as they look fun. I wish you well on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Try smiling in your pictures, nobody likes to see a glum face on a profile.
Think of a profile as your shop window to the fab members, so you feel it sells you well enough.
Read it and ask yourself, ' would you meet this person?'"
Have you aquired your prise yet?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Try smiling in your pictures, nobody likes to see a glum face on a profile.
Think of a profile as your shop window to the fab members, so you feel it sells you well enough.
Read it and ask yourself, ' would you meet this person?'
Have you aquired your prise yet?! "
It's been arranged for some time in the not too distant future  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Try smiling in your pictures, nobody likes to see a glum face on a profile.
Think of a profile as your shop window to the fab members, so you feel it sells you well enough.
Read it and ask yourself, ' would you meet this person?'
Have you aquired your prise yet?!
It's been arranged for some time in the not too distant future "
You don't waste time do you! Lol glad to hear that x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That aimed at me mate?"
No sorry for the confusion mate. Be patient. Most of us men are not having much luck. Sometimes when the demends come they come at once. other times it goes with no meets for weeks. Try your best to make you profile stand out of the croud but even if you manage that don't expect the reward soon. Females here are not just spoiled for choice but there are soooo many nice men here that they show you there interest today tomorrow they forget all about u lol. |
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"im not having much luck at the moment in getting meets. Can anyone suggest ways I could improve my profile please,
Thank you in advance "
were you on here a few weeks ago with a similar user name? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There must be hundreds of similar threads on here where people have politely asked for help with their profile from the more successful longer standing members of the site. Some OP's listen and try to change their profile, others totally ignore so it seemingly appears its just a look at me thread. The OP here seems to be trying and has changed his profile a few times tonight.
I find it a little disheartening when some people slate a profile and tear it apart but then not advise, the whole point of his thread. Fair enough critisize but there is a way to be constructive about it, then give advice on how he can change it. OP, best of luck on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lol the fun thing is when a woman sais how does my profile look they get all wow good profile and things and noone dares to critize.. typical generalizing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol the fun thing is when a woman sais how does my profile look they get all wow good profile and things and noone dares to critize.. typical generalizing."
actually no! i have saw women being slated to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol the fun thing is when a woman sais how does my profile look they get all wow good profile and things and noone dares to critize.. typical generalizing.
actually no! i have saw women being slated to"
Ah right.. i must of missed that one lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There must be hundreds of similar threads on here where people have politely asked for help with their profile from the more successful longer standing members of the site. Some OP's listen and try to change their profile, others totally ignore so it seemingly appears its just a look at me thread. The OP here seems to be trying and has changed his profile a few times tonight.
I find it a little disheartening when some people slate a profile and tear it apart but then not advise, the whole point of his thread. Fair enough critisize but there is a way to be constructive about it, then give advice on how he can change it. OP, best of luck on here. "
Yes he's changed itr a few times and with each one it becomes a little more identikit and a little less about him. Indeed those updates tonight have been contradictory.
And let's not forget he's had this advice more than once on his previous profile.
Ultimately his old profile was so bad (basically saying I'll shag you outside because I live with my parents unless you are really lucky then I might get a hotel) that constructive criticism becomes a mute point. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is a really good way to get lots of people to view yr profile...lol
Incidentally,yr profile is much better and you have a gorgeous cock that will be sucked soon!! "
Lol. Would love to chat to you but it says I'm not in your age range, typical:p |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There must be hundreds of similar threads on here where people have politely asked for help with their profile from the more successful longer standing members of the site. Some OP's listen and try to change their profile, others totally ignore so it seemingly appears its just a look at me thread. The OP here seems to be trying and has changed his profile a few times tonight.
I find it a little disheartening when some people slate a profile and tear it apart but then not advise, the whole point of his thread. Fair enough critisize but there is a way to be constructive about it, then give advice on how he can change it. OP, best of luck on here.
Yes he's changed itr a few times and with each one it becomes a little more identikit and a little less about him. Indeed those updates tonight have been contradictory.
And let's not forget he's had this advice more than once on his previous profile.
Ultimately his old profile was so bad (basically saying I'll shag you outside because I live with my parents unless you are really lucky then I might get a hotel) that constructive criticism becomes a mute point. "
I cannot comment on that as I've only seen his present one and am going on that one and the comments on this thread alone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hi, your profile doesn't exactly leap out at you,thousands very similar..
you don't really say what your likes/dislikes are.
work and create something that people will be interested in.Do research,look at others..
Would you respond to yr profile?
By the way...lovely cock...j "
Your cock does nearly had me eye out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There must be hundreds of similar threads on here where people have politely asked for help with their profile from the more successful longer standing members of the site. Some OP's listen and try to change their profile, others totally ignore so it seemingly appears its just a look at me thread. The OP here seems to be trying and has changed his profile a few times tonight.
I find it a little disheartening when some people slate a profile and tear it apart but then not advise, the whole point of his thread. Fair enough critisize but there is a way to be constructive about it, then give advice on how he can change it. OP, best of luck on here.
Yes he's changed itr a few times and with each one it becomes a little more identikit and a little less about him. Indeed those updates tonight have been contradictory.
And let's not forget he's had this advice more than once on his previous profile.
Ultimately his old profile was so bad (basically saying I'll shag you outside because I live with my parents unless you are really lucky then I might get a hotel) that constructive criticism becomes a mute point.
I cannot comment on that as I've only seen his present one and am going on that one and the comments on this thread alone."
To clarify (as i think my post was unintentionally ambiguous), the content reference I made is to his profile earlier this evening when he first asked for advice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Crass name. Crap profile pic. And they are the plus points.
Look at what you are offering, particularly that you 'might get a hotel depending on who you are meeting' - do you honestly think that is going to appeal? Do you think any woman is going to take the risk that you might deem them not worth the cost of a hotel room?
bit harsh! This is a 20 yr old just starting out,i think he is very brave asking for feedback....plus he has a lovely cock!
But indirectly the fact that the only positive comment you offered was 'nice cock' is in it's own way equally damming of the quality of the profile
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Might be the fact it two bi men viewing each others profile with referance to nice cock quote.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Crass name. Crap profile pic. And they are the plus points.
Look at what you are offering, particularly that you 'might get a hotel depending on who you are meeting' - do you honestly think that is going to appeal? Do you think any woman is going to take the risk that you might deem them not worth the cost of a hotel room?
bit harsh! This is a 20 yr old just starting out,i think he is very brave asking for feedback....plus he has a lovely cock!
But indirectly the fact that the only positive comment you offered was 'nice cock' is in it's own way equally damming of the quality of the profile
Might be the fact it two bi men viewing each others profile with referance to nice cock quote.
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I'd figured that. But it is hardly the feedback that the OP was seeking when he asked how to improve his profile.
So good luck to the OP if it his got him a meet  but my post remains no less valid in the context of the comment directed at me |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Crass name. Crap profile pic. And they are the plus points.
Look at what you are offering, particularly that you 'might get a hotel depending on who you are meeting' - do you honestly think that is going to appeal? Do you think any woman is going to take the risk that you might deem them not worth the cost of a hotel room?
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And others wonder why an OP gets upset/defensive when posts like this are in reply to a little help.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how do you know you have a high sex drive if you're a virgin? 
I'm not a virgin, error on my behalf. Dunno why I put that. Mega oops"
Easy mistake to make
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By (user no longer on site)
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"how do you know you have a high sex drive if you're a virgin?
I'm not a virgin, error on my behalf. Dunno why I put that. Mega oops"
In other words busted
But hey I'm sure this thread will run again next week and he may have already pulled |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Crass name. Crap profile pic. And they are the plus points.
Look at what you are offering, particularly that you 'might get a hotel depending on who you are meeting' - do you honestly think that is going to appeal? Do you think any woman is going to take the risk that you might deem them not worth the cost of a hotel room?
And others wonder why an OP gets upset/defensive when posts like this are in reply to a little help. "
They soooo rude and ill mannered its unreal everybody had to start somewhere.
Support
Postive in the negative
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We want more on Fab not less xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Crass name. Crap profile pic. And they are the plus points.
Look at what you are offering, particularly that you 'might get a hotel depending on who you are meeting' - do you honestly think that is going to appeal? Do you think any woman is going to take the risk that you might deem them not worth the cost of a hotel room?
And others wonder why an OP gets upset/defensive when posts like this are in reply to a little help.
They soooo rude and ill mannered its unreal everybody had to start somewhere.
Support
Postive in the negative
Help
We want more on Fab not less xxxx"
Thanks for the support mate, ime ignoring the comments and not gonna let it get to me, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Crass name. Crap profile pic. And they are the plus points.
Look at what you are offering, particularly that you 'might get a hotel depending on who you are meeting' - do you honestly think that is going to appeal? Do you think any woman is going to take the risk that you might deem them not worth the cost of a hotel room?
And others wonder why an OP gets upset/defensive when posts like this are in reply to a little help.
They soooo rude and ill mannered its unreal everybody had to start somewhere.
Support
Postive in the negative
Help
We want more on Fab not less xxxx
Thanks for the support mate, ime ignoring the comments and not gonna let it get to me, "
Your welcome |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Crass name. Crap profile pic. And they are the plus points.
Look at what you are offering, particularly that you 'might get a hotel depending on who you are meeting' - do you honestly think that is going to appeal? Do you think any woman is going to take the risk that you might deem them not worth the cost of a hotel room?
And others wonder why an OP gets upset/defensive when posts like this are in reply to a little help.
They soooo rude and ill mannered its unreal everybody had to start somewhere.
Support
Postive in the negative
Help
We want more on Fab not less xxxx
Thanks for the support mate, ime ignoring the comments and not gonna let it get to me,
Your welcome "
As you say I gotta start somewhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"how do you know you have a high sex drive if you're a virgin?
I'm not a virgin, error on my behalf. Dunno why I put that. Mega oops
Easy mistake to make
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hes either fucked or not  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"how do you know you have a high sex drive if you're a virgin?
I'm not a virgin, error on my behalf. Dunno why I put that. Mega oops
Easy mistake to make
K
hes either fucked or not "
I'd like to clarify, I am NOT a virgin, I lost my virginity 2 months ago. I typing with habit as I haven't had much sex, and was foisted and upset from some of the comments people have put |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I would like to say to the person who said I have a crap profile pic,
at least I have the confidence to be open with my face and have it as the first thing people see |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To the OP...it looks like you have had some advice that worked for you as you were good enough to come back and thank people...so all I will say is good luck. "
Thank you I hope your having luc on here too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"irs up to the person if they wish to show face pics.
most forum regs know each other x"
Oh I am aware of that, it was just the way that they critisied my profile pic, when I am sure most woman would like to see the man not his package instantly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"irs up to the person if they wish to show face pics.
most forum regs know each other x
Oh I am aware of that, it was just the way that they critisied my profile pic, when I am sure most woman would like to see the man not his package instantly "
you asked for help. so you got what you asked for
the people replying didnt ask for help or advice lol |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"irs up to the person if they wish to show face pics.
most forum regs know each other x
Oh I am aware of that, it was just the way that they critisied my profile pic, when I am sure most woman would like to see the man not his package instantly
you asked for help. so you got what you asked for
the people replying didnt ask for help or advice lol"
So he wasn't allowed to answer back when being insulted? I think he was very restrained, I doubt I would have been.
Now please....drop it, the man has his advice and is happy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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oh dear, here we go again...'help, I've been here 2 weeks and not even a sniff of a jockstrap!'
on the plus side, it's good that you have face pics, but maybe keep them private or for friends ...unless you have some smiley ones, that is?
as for the transport issues, that doesn't need to be discussed until you are actually in conversation with someone.. just say you can sometimes accommodate ... its all about putting a positive spin on things..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I wasn't complaining that I hadn't had a meet, I wanted to make sure that my profile was of a good standard to I can get some meets as I go along and thanks for the wish of luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"oh dear, here we go again...'help, I've been here 2 weeks and not even a sniff of a jockstrap!'
on the plus side, it's good that you have face pics, but maybe keep them private or for friends ...unless you have some smiley ones, that is?
as for the transport issues, that doesn't need to be discussed until you are actually in conversation with someone.. just say you can sometimes accommodate ... its all about putting a positive spin on things..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well done OP for listening to the positive comments and amending your profile when many don't and top marks for being mature enough to not let the negative insulting posts get to you. How ironic that the youngest person on this thread seems a lot more mature than some that should know better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Right ill be serious for a change.
Your profile is 1st impressions
Your profile is the 1st thing people will see so make sure its well written and have your dislikes and likes and what you are "ideally looking for"
recent face pics looking happy relaxed
cock pics if you must but as a single bi lady i don't look at pics like that
Get to some socials and clubs to meet people have a drink have fun and socialise (not everything is about fucking)
have fun
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile is ok but I really don't get it when someone asks for profile advice then says yes, il change that, thanks I'll add that, ok, I'll delete this and that and it ends up everyone else's profile, not theirs. Just because someone says what their preference is doesn't mean you have to do everything they say. Good luck though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how do you know you have a high sex drive if you're a virgin? "
I knew I had a high sex drive at the early ages of my puberty before I even know what a cunt looks like I was wanking at the imaginary cunt in my head. |
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