Was due to meet a guy in the morning , he messaged to confirm i would and i said yes but he has now hidden his profile .. this would be my first meet off here should i be worried and why would he suddenly hide ?? |
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By *ay Dee BeeMan
over a year ago
INGATESTONE near Brentwood |
Maybe he didn't want you to see when he's online. I get accused of setting up meetings.
I'm always open and honest. Makes life easier. But I'd probably get more action if I was a lying wot not |
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By *ay Dee BeeMan
over a year ago
INGATESTONE near Brentwood |
"He might not be married, you don't know that till you speak to him. 
Don't take what everyone says at face value"
Yeah but he shouldn't have anything to hide. And you should be able to text or call anytime. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He might not be married, you don't know that till you speak to him.
Don't take what everyone says at face value
Yeah but he shouldn't have anything to hide. And you should be able to text or call anytime. "
Just because he's hidden his profile doesn't mean he's got anything to hide! Plenty of people do it when they aren't meeting |
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"Maybe now he has arranged a meet he doesn't feel the need to keep his 'shop window' on display?"
Exactly, I would message him and ask!! If he starts not replying to messages, then I would assume trouble and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe he's just hidden his profile to avoid messages from anyone else. Doesn't mean he has anything to hide 
OP if he messaged you to confirm your meet I can't understand why you're worried because he's hidden his profile, unless there was something else said in the message? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was due to meet a guy in the morning , he messaged to confirm i would and i said yes but he has now hidden his profile .. this would be my first meet off here should i be worried and why would he suddenly hide ??"
I insist on speaking to potential meets on the phone. This can be a tool to root out those genuine or not. Did this occur? I wouldn't worry about hidden profiles at this stage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He might not be married, you don't know that till you speak to him.
Don't take what everyone says at face value
Yeah but he shouldn't have anything to hide. And you should be able to text or call anytime. "
Where did anyone say this wasn't the case? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He might not be married, you don't know that till you speak to him.
Don't take what everyone says at face value
Yeah but he shouldn't have anything to hide. And you should be able to text or call anytime. "
Text or call anytime? Why should you be able to do that?
And just because the profile is hidden doesn't have to mean that they are hiding anything untowards |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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He may just be looking forward to the meet and not want to chat to others just now.
If he confirmed it's likely to be ok.
Reply to an earlier message from him, you can even if his profile is hidden, and say you saw he has hidden his profile are you still meeting up?
It's probably all fine, it would not concern me if this was the only concern.
Enjoy your meet x |
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By *affy72Woman
over a year ago
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I don't think I'd be overly concerned. The OP said her prospective meet had been in contact to check she was still okay to meet, so I don't see the problem. Might be worth enquiring as to why he's hidden his profile, but I wouldn't assume the worst. I hide my profile quite a lot and I'm not married nor do I have anything to hide. |
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Remember that there might be other things going on, I've had a stalker as have a fair few of my male friends on the site. Perhaps he has an issue with someone else on the site and just wants to keep his hard down.
It may be due to someone/thing else. You can still message a hidden profile (easier if you have a message from them). |
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