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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whenever we get mail from young single guys I usually say something like "You can shag my nearly 50yr old wife if I can shag your 20 something girlfriend"
Of course they never take us up on it, so don't really know how we'd respond if we were approached now.
Most people our age usually say they wouldn't meet people in their twenties.
We haven't met anyone for over 2yrs now, but the last couple we met for fun, the lady was 31 and her partner was 42. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age is just a number at the end of the day . If you are comfortable with what you are looking for then there is no harm done . Good luck to the pair of you . Just wish I had a partner to share with you  |
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"Hi all since we joined site we seem to have a fetish for older couples lol
Do older couples like younger couples like us?"
I'm not entirely sure that I like being fetishised (is that a word?) but as part of an older couple I would say that probably you would find us too old and we would probably think of you as too young. I can understand why people like to meet with all age groups and the fascination of going way out of your own age bracket but being entirely honest we would both struggle with the gap here.
Good luck to you both, you look great  |
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
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Lovely looking couple but again to young for us as we prefer 40+ couples/singles, you will find loads of couples that will want a meet with you both so don't judge this thread as a guideline xx. |
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I started off with my age range being 18-30 when I first joined the site...now it's 20-45 and most of my meets have been with people in their late 30s or early 40s, not cos of the taboo factor or the fetish factor but purely and simply cos they're completely comfortable with their sexualities, their relationships, they know their way around bodies (always good when you need great sex!) and know exactly what they want which I find makes a meet more comfortable and the confidence is very sexy! Younger people I find are slightly obsessed with body beautiful images, open to experimenting/learning but also too much into bang bang bang fun (porn fun I like to call it)...not tarring all the youngies or oldies with these brushes but it's just what I've found through being on here...I'm 26 but about 46 at heart!! Haha! Age is but a number! Don't think age makes a difference but experiences and attitude make a huge difference, both sexwise and generally in life...I always find myself being 'too young' (damn age ranges!) for a lot of the people I'd love to meet!  good luck with the golden oldies!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dirtycouple20 do look nice but what on earth would they see in people our age?well your hot, simple as that x and it's a bit taboo x"
I think that's hit the nail on the head really
It is a bit taboo as, in our case, you're the same age as our kids lol
That said, as you're in the West Mids, we'd strongly recommend you visiting somewhere like Chams or Xstasia where we're sure you'll find pretty much exactly what you're looking for and you can pick and choose who you play with.
On Monday Bi nights at Chams, age range is mid-late 20s all the way up to late 60s
Good luck with your quest though x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Exactly. Each to their own and it would be bloody boring if we all liked the same thing...
Likewise, I bet you, like us, have a good number of people who read BDSM in the profile and then quickly divert to another profile. Again, each to their own |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Exactly. Each to their own and it would be bloody boring if we all liked the same thing...
Likewise, I bet you, like us, have a good number of people who read BDSM in the profile and then quickly divert to another profile. Again, each to their own "
Sometimes, but there are a lot of us here that like it.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all since we joined site we seem to have a fetish for older couples lol
Do older couples like younger couples like us?"
All depends on their mental age too. We have plated with young couples who are very mature mentally and there is a connection,then we've met young couples who we have no connection with at all because they are mentally inmature. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not about physical age it's about mental age and attitude.
There are some older people on here who' we wouldn't meet as some appear immature and childish.
If after chatting with you we all got along we'd have no issue meeting for fun, your age is immaterial xx
Take care heave fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd agree that it's about maturity too. But somewhat hypocritically we would make a judgement call on the OPs age and decide way too young if they messaged us. But in a club, if we liked their dynamic it would be unlikely to bother us as much |
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"It's not about physical age it's about mental age and attitude.
There are some older people on here who' we wouldn't meet as some appear immature and childish.
If after chatting with you we all got along we'd have no issue meeting for fun, your age is immaterial xx
Take care heave fun x"
Yeah we've found exactly the same! If people are mentally mature, and they seem like our kind of people, then we are happy to at least meet up socially even if it doesn't lead anywhere.
It's always great to meet people of a similar outlook |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd agree that it's about maturity too. But somewhat hypocritically we would make a judgement call on the OPs age and decide way too young if they messaged us. But in a club, if we liked their dynamic it would be unlikely to bother us as much"
There's probably quite a few people we've made a call on from a profile but, as you say, if you did meet it may be very different. But still couldn't get past the "young age" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very young couples make me sad. They should be putting their energies into building their relationship, getting to know each other sexually rather than jumping in with both feet and already looking for alternatives to being a couple. And that's my two pennorth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What I meant to say was that that our childrens ages are the benchmark, and they are mid 30's. So we specifically look to meet people 45+. Mr would be more flexible on age, but Mrs is not keen on the idea of sex with people younger than that.
the other reason we prefer older people is that the men are far more relaxed rather than target driven, and the ladies seem very aware of what they do and dont like, and also seem insatiable.
Just my experience here, so don't shout at me! |
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"Very young couples make me sad. They should be putting their energies into building their relationship, getting to know each other sexually rather than jumping in with both feet and already looking for alternatives to being a couple. And that's my two pennorth "
This isn't an alternative to being a couple in anything other than a sexual sense and in my opinion is about getting to know your partners sexually. Sex shouldn't be confused with emotions when it comes to swinging at any age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We tend to make our choices on past experiences. We have experimented with many scenarios and as we've got older have narrowed our age gap.
We had 2 differing experiences. One was with a couple of youngsters in their early 20s. I had the joy of revisiting a beautiful young woman's body again. Mrs N had the joy of a firm young man's with a lovely big cock and we remain online friends to this day. So the meet was very very successful for all.
To counter that we did once meet a couple where the the couple said they were in their 20s. We were in our early 40s I guess. It infact transpired she was just 19 and the lad was driving her to do it. They seemed very very keen to play with us and the fun started.
Suddenly when we think the girl realised what she was doing froze and freaked out on us. All very embarrassing and we think in retrospect it was too soon for her to be doing this. The fantasy and the reality just didn't match up. We've never risked that happening again as it was very difficult to deal with so tend to go for older couples, nearer to our own age.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Very young couples make me sad. They should be putting their energies into building their relationship, getting to know each other sexually rather than jumping in with both feet and already looking for alternatives to being a couple. And that's my two pennorth "
Is that from the same book of stereotypes which says older swingers do it to put a spark back in their dull and boring sex lives?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all since we joined site we seem to have a fetish for older couples lol
Do older couples like younger couples like us?"
Most of us have children your age...gggrr |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all since we joined site we seem to have a fetish for older couples lol
Do older couples like younger couples like us?"
Speaking personally very much yes. And I have a friend who can join me if a "couple" is needed. As a few on here have said age is just a number. I have met and played with cpls and singles on fab from 23 to mid 60's. Even the 20yr old daughter of a fab member here (yes all parties aware of it).
It's more a case of respecting others boundaries and them knowing what they want.
Maturity can start at any age....some don't even have it at 50!
I'd be more than happy to meet you... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both enjoy playing with younger people. Cookie enjoys young guys easy to get hard and ready to go again over and over. I like to remove my dentures and make the ladies yell. Sweet young pussy is Great ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dirtycouple20 do look nice but what on earth would they see in people our age?"
Judging by your pics. A sexy lady with legs to die for and a lovely bum! Age is just a number. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I started off with my age range being 18-30 when I first joined the site...now it's 20-45 and most of my meets have been with people in their late 30s or early 40s, not cos of the taboo factor or the fetish factor but purely and simply cos they're completely comfortable with their sexualities, their relationships, they know their way around bodies (always good when you need great sex!) and know exactly what they want which I find makes a meet more comfortable and the confidence is very sexy! Younger people I find are slightly obsessed with body beautiful images, open to experimenting/learning but also too much into bang bang bang fun (porn fun I like to call it)...not tarring all the youngies or oldies with these brushes but it's just what I've found through being on here...I'm 26 but about 46 at heart!! Haha! Age is but a number! Don't think age makes a difference but experiences and attitude make a huge difference, both sexwise and generally in life...I always find myself being 'too young' (damn age ranges!) for a lot of the people I'd love to meet! good luck with the golden oldies! "
what a difference a year makes then eh sofia xxxxxx nice to be flexible with age boundaries  |
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I don't even look at the really young ones in that way.
Each to their own, that's the beauty of this site 
